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HUSBAND LEFT AFTER AN AFFAIR II - AM MOVING ON WITHOUT HIM

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solost · 19/12/2010 19:11

My husband left me in mid-August when I found out he was having an affair. My original thread (husband had an affair and I want him back) detailed the fact that I felt he had made a mistake and asked for advice on how to get him to see sense and come back to me and our 3 DCs. Four months on, he still hasn't returned and I am re-buildling my life without him. That thread is now full. This is the continuation. Thanks to all of you for your support.

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dontdisstheteens · 10/02/2011 10:05

Blimey - that message is what happens when you use phone to draft a message and clearly hit send instead of save to edit!!!!

Solo - how you doing? Glad to hear the children appear to quite like each other, even if only when apart - it gives you a glimmer of hope when there is constant bickering in the house doesn't it!!!

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solost · 10/02/2011 21:51

DONTDISS: Its going OK - thanks!! Had to laugh at your comment re: the kids liking each other when they are apart!! So true.

Had a bit of news from H today though - don't really know what to make of it.

I was making general conversation re: H & BB's househunting (need to keep my finger on the pulse on that subject!) and H just said 'oh thats all off now' and then added that he left BB's on Sunday after a row on Saturday night and has been staying in a local budget hotel, he said he needed some 'time away' to have 'a think' about things??. He has since gone back. I didnt ask for details (even though I was dying to know) but H said that after the London trip last week he has seen a few things a bit differently. Left it at that.

I await your opinions.

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StarExpat · 10/02/2011 21:55

He's giving a bit of bait to keep you lingering and in hope that he may someday return, so that you won't move forward with your life without him.

Rather pompous to leave it at that so obviously trying to make you hold your breath. Well done ignoring. Keep that up! x

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solost · 10/02/2011 21:59

LMHF & STAREXPAT: Thanks for your help re: starting a new thread. Lets see if I can follow your simple instructions Grin!

Here goes!

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/1147610-HUSBAND-LEFT-AFTER-AN-AFFAIR-III-AM-MOVING-ON-WITHOUT-HIM link here

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thumbdabwitch · 10/02/2011 22:30

Well done with the link! Works fine :)

Have responded on the new thread.

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