Comments about body shape on first date?

[JustifiedAncientandMad]

If a man comments on your shape on the first few dates, is it a red flag? The story so far: First date "I can't tell what shape you are under those clothes", second date "I think Nigella Lawson's really lardy", third date "you like your cardies don't you?"

My answer is, yes I do, it's bloody cold. And I think Nigella is a goddess and consider myself fortunate to have a bod like hers (which I do). He seems nice apart from these comments, and I fancy him. But I fancy him less because of this. Would you bail or bother to find out more about him?

Definitely bail. He sounds like the twat who started a relationship with my friend saying 'I normally never date anyone bigger than a size 8, but I'm making an exception for you - if you get any fatter, I'm gone.' She was a small size 10 & ended up developing anorexia because of him It's really best just left when they start with comments about how you look!

BAILLLLLLLLLLLLLL

ooh, he's got ishoos.

run!

bail right now!

He sounds very shallow...

Bail.

From experience....bail now

I don't think I've ever heard a man comment on body shape. Bail, bail, bail.

Bail.

He is a tosser and from bitter experience it only gets worse.

Sounds like someone is trying to project his own insecurities out onto you, to show you who is the boss. Don't take a blind bit of notice of what he said to you!

Bail, bail, bail!

Er no brainer bail my xh was a body facist - soul destroying stuff.

Bail.

What a fuckwit...

Jesus, I can't believe he made it to date #3.

Get rid, life is too short.

Mini hi jack - Antalya are you feeling better now ?

agree with otehrs. red flag. if he does it on teh first second and third dates, he will always do it and you already don't liek it. bail.

Bail!

run for them hills.

Tell him you find pencil slim men a turn off.

big alarm bells ringing for me.

my exh used to say things like - women shouldn't wear jeans, I only like really slim women - I've never been and oh well at least you've got shape (meaning you're a bit too curvy for my liking but at least you have shape)

have a great night, hope you meet someone who appreciates your lushness!.

don't bother with someone who has made you feel uncomfortable. If he thinks Nigella's lardy, and you have a figure like NIgella, then he's just going to undermine your self confidence by making these rude comments.

WTF!!!m, is he actually thinking he night get you into bed at some stage, pmsl, dump his scrawny ass.

He sounds like an idiot with no idea about women.

Do you need to ask? Text him a link to this thread.

dont see him again. He sounds like he hasnt a clue.

Bail.

Everybody likes cardies.

On second thoughts... maybe you should give him a chance.

Only joking! Bail! :o

Ugh, bail!

Wanker! Tell him to jog on!