Another DickFace to Add to The Pile

[PfftTheMagicDragon]

....Of men that you thought wouldnever betray you but then did it anyway!

My DH has always been loyal. To a fault. Never cheated. Was cheated on in the past by girlfriends, worshipped the ground I walked on. Good sex life, with dry patches, we had started about a year ago to spice things up, toys, bondage.

Turns out, he's been internet flirting/sexting/fucking her on MSN!!

Delightful

It started 6 days ago. I have seen his phone. And the e-mails and a picture that they exchanged.

And now I am just like all the others. I did ask him how it felt - To be just like all the other cheating dickwads that I read about on here. If it was worth it, if he was thinking about what every other weekend would feel like when he was telling her how much he likes her wet pussy.

Super.

I'm angry, can't you tell?

Good luck pfft, will be thinking of you.

Acutally AF I think it's more proper for someone else to ask BA on your behalf...

Yes, I volunteer.

BA, my friend really fancies you and is drawn to your hair-pulling ways, will you go out with her?

you forgot, 'the rest of us think you're a bit of a dick, but hey we're prepared to be supportive and give you a chance, cos y'know that's what us girls do...'

Ah yes, and then I'll push him over and run away, and the proposal will be complete, just like in days of yore :o

yes, and I'll give him a chinese burn and that means we are boyfriend and girlfriend

Hi Pfft, I know you have signed off for the evening but just in case you take another peak I wanted to wish you luck for this evening, it won't be easy.

I've just been having a quick catch up and wanted to comment on one thing. Please think about giving him another 'disclosure of information' chance. When this first blew up he would have been in a state of shock probably (not nearly as much as you I know). Also, he will have thought that if he told you EVERYTHING it would have been too painful for you to take in. Secondly, he has now had time to think about what he has done and he will also have realised just how serious this whole thing is. Believe me, I'm not trying to defend him in anyway at all but it is still early days.

When I asked my H if something was going on (I hadn't actually seen any communications), he said 'I'll tell you, but it's not that bad'. Only when he started telling me did he realise what an utter fuckwit he had been and actually it was a whole lot worse than 'that bad'. At the time, even though he knew what he was doing was very wrong he had never contemplated that he might lose his family over it.

I hope something positive comes of this evening. x

AF and Barmy sitting in a tree.....

And I will carve 'AF 4 BA 4 EVA' into the table, and you will be bound together.

PB...I agree

Another "last chance to disclose" offer is warranted here, I think so too

Human nature, when caught is to clam up. But any reasonable person will process things after a few days, and deserves another chance to come fully clean.

Only one more mind, and it would have to be immediately and on my sayso

crunchy, why don't you start choosing hats now ?

there is matrimony on the cards here

Pfft, I don't have much more to add and certainly to not want to get drawn into a Barmy fight/orgy. But I am thinking of you

Without a doubt. I shall put my hair in pigtails for the solemn occasion :o

Pb you're right about another chance to disclose. You don't want to have him backed into a corner where he now wants to tell the truth but feels he cant because it's too late.

Hope it's going ok pfft.

I already have a hat AF, can I come to the wedding?

This is such an odd thread. I've read lots of relationship threads, but I've never seen one as strange as this one. & the strange bit about it isn't even the main point - that's all quite 'normal' (very sadly). Can I come to the wedding? I don't have a hat, but I can get one. I've not been to a wedding (apart from my own, & what a joy that was) since I was 12 or something stupid like that. I deserve a chance to swish around in a nice dress & throw confetti. Especially over such a well-matched couple.

Pfft, I hope things go well tonight & that we'll read positive progress in the morning. Thinking of you x

I shall throw rice. Ambrosia creamed in a tin Make sure you duck AF.

Ooh, I craved that when I was pregnant. I would've even licked it off BA's face if necessary. Shame I'm not pregnant now, really.

Pfft - good luck for this evening. I hope you get the answers you need.

Pfft - just wanted to say am in awe of your handling of this whole thing and I hope tonight goes as well as it can.

I am feeling the love on this thread

Does anyone else feel a real affinity for pfft and truly hope she can work things out in a way where she is happy ?

Sorry, all this talk of matrimony has me all maudlin. And I am listening to Plan B on the old gramophone

Pfft - hope you are ok tonight.

AF - if you marry BA, won't Footlong be gutted?

Pfft seems so together. I am in utter awe every time I open this thread. I truly hope however it turns out that you are happy, pfft. Something tells me that whatever the decision you make it will be the right one :)

Mousey! :o

Footlong can be usher, and happily ush us all to BA's side of the church, because god forbid we side with AF

sssh, mouseface, I was hoping to keep 'em both on the boil, IYSWIM

keep shtum

It's true, Mouseface. Footlong did seem to be trying to move in on BA. Tough break :(

& Pfft does feel a bit like an Every Woman type figure; almost like I know her IRL. I really, really hope everything works out as best it can.