im ok, just a bit of a trying afternoon. First walk out at 12.40 to nursery return home for half an hour, then walk again to church for nativity, where luka really hated it. Was the only one not dressed up (refused) just hates anyone looking at him, making a fuss etc, just wanted to hide away bless him. So so different to the other two.
anyway he wouldn't go back into nursery so i had to walk with him then back to church collect pushchair walk home, again another half an hour pit stop (its all the coats/hat's/scarves/boots on/off rigmarole, and careful not to get wet footprints on floor etc.
walk to school, Tate crying way home that his daddy not there and hasn't seem him all week. Get in another bloody half hour pitstop, leave at 4.15pm in the dark, rain all togged up again. Standing in porch trying to maneovre pushchair out when tate pushes luka off step straight onto wet cold driveway flat on face 
cue lots of screaming, shouting, and crying.
get to TKD collapse!! Notice that luka not at all right feels warm, asks to go to the toilet (he's doing so well day three no poo's in pants) has upset tummy and starts to look v.lethargic 
. Leave tkd hard rain, its yuck. Get to mcd's luka asleep burning up. We eat our food as he's now sleeping get home...what a bloody relief tidy round, run bath, get pj's out. Then luka wakes fortunately no more tears. Medised him up, into pj's wee and bed. Phew!!!
Thats my afternoon/evening DONE. I still need to bath tate and get him into bed. Am exhausted. My earlier post was sent from tkd on my iphone. Sorry for rant!!
BUT do get home to a parcel from uniqlo and my down coat. Feels very thin/light but think it will be ok. Cannot be bothered to try on upstairs and look in mirror!! Shame its black they didn't have brown in my size.