Lots of houses have one small bedroom in the set - so in a 4-bedroom house, you’d get three decent bedrooms and a 4th bedroom that’s small/a box room.
Its often talked about on here as a source of frustration - if you need three bedrooms you actually have to buy a 4-bed etc.
Your issue though is that you have TWO teeny bedrooms, plus three smaller than average doubles.
When you’re comparing to all these other houses, have you looked at the main bedroom? Because I feel that’s quite an issue here. We would struggle in your main bedroom sizes - we have a super king size bed and we like to have a big bookcase in our bedroom, as well as the usual wardrobes, chest of drawers etc. bedrooms 2 and 3 would be ok for the kids but bedroom 1 would feel squashed for us. Bedrooms 4 and 5 wouldn’t be any use as an actual bedroom.
I’d be OK with one small bedroom out of the 5, I’d even expect it, tbh. But two box rooms and three smaller than average doubles? That would be a disappointment.
And I don’t think that’s common actually. The main bedroom is usually bigger than yours, bedrooms 2 and 3 would be ok. Bedroom 4 is way smaller than expected, and bedroom 5 would be the usual shitty boxroom that is almost always included. That’s not great.
Can we ask about the dimensions downstairs? You say that you have an extra living room that’s the same size as bedroom 3 - ie/10’9” x 9’7”. You also said you have another living room and dining room, and the kitchen.
I have to say that 10’9” x 9’7” is very small for a living room. It’s a snug den, or a large study. That’s almost the exact size of the living room in my DM’s annnexe and we knocked down walls to make it bigger as it was small and pokey. So if you’re marketing that as a living room, that might be another issue.
So my question is, how big are your other rooms downstairs? Are they a similar size?
The expectation is for a 5-bed to be spacious, it shouldn’t feel cramped. I think some smaller rooms are fine, but the other rooms should be larger to create that feeling of space that you’d expect from a 5-bed house.
Have you got a floor plan? Might be useful to see how easily people could make amendments.
I really struggle to visualise space so I do sort of understand people coming to see the house in person. We had similar feedback from a couple of buyers when we were selling ours a year ago so I get your frustration. I think sometimes people just need to physically be in the space to be able to judge though.