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Need inspo for our house.

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InNeedOfInspo · 18/07/2024 16:40

Have been in our house for nearly 20 years. Me, husband, teen and dog.

We’re struggling to use it for everything we need to, with 2 of us working from home and hobbies etc. DH thinks the answer is a garden room, but I want to explore other options first.

Attached is the floor plan as it is now. In addition we have an extension on the back of a double garage that measures 4.5m x 3.5m and has a multipurpose room downstairs (currently a gym) with a shower room and an office upstairs with a sofa bed and an electric piano.

DH and I both work from home - him more or less 100% of the time and me 60% of the time. The desk in the extension is the only one with additional monitors so we end up fighting over it. I have a tiny standing desk at the back of the living room but can only fit a laptop on it.

We don’t have enough storage in the kitchen, so the dining room has become the overspill area, along with the utility room. We don’t sit to eat in the dining room, partly because it is cramped but mostly because our schedules mean we all end up eating at different times.

Upstairs I have Bed 1 and the en-suite, DD has bed 4 for sleeping, books and clothes and DH has bed 2. Again, this is due to schedules and everyone getting enough sleep. Bed 3 has DD’s toys, the family Lego, a desk and sofa bed. It’s mainly used by DD. DD and DH share the family bathroom.

We have too much stuff, and need to declutter and we need to replace the windows and doors within the next couple of years. This has led to a discussion about potential garden room (garden faces north so would take the only sunny spot) or extensions, and I’m thinking about internal layout as well.

We need a proper working space for me which is separate to the outside office. We need to house the musical
instruments more effectively and ideally together (at the moment there is a drum kit in the living room, piano in the office and smaller instruments in bedroom 3).

I would like a more functional kitchen and utility room with significant storage (the quote I had from a designer for kitchen, utility and dining room had 36 units).

We intend to stay in the house for at least another 10 years, possibly forever. Happy to spend money to make it work better for us but not so much that we never realise it at resale. We’ve biggest house on the street and the existing extension probably took us over the ceiling price.

I can’t help but think that with 3 of us in a relatively large house we shouldn’t need to extend or add a garden room
to achieve these objectives but I’m struggling to see what could be possible.

Any thoughts or ideas welcomed.

Need inspo for our house.
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quickoffthemark · 18/07/2024 16:41

budget?

quickoffthemark · 18/07/2024 16:42

We have too much stuff, and need to declutter

do this first before even thinking about what big changes to do

InNeedOfInspo · 18/07/2024 16:45

quickoffthemark · 18/07/2024 16:42

We have too much stuff, and need to declutter

do this first before even thinking about what big changes to do

I need to have a plan to motivate me. The reason there is too
much stuff is that the 2 ADHDers don’t get dopamine rewards by getting rid of stuff and the autistic one is overly sentimental about stuff. Time is also an issue. (My work is away and both jobs are demanding, more than 40 hours a week affairs.)

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InNeedOfInspo · 18/07/2024 16:47

quickoffthemark · 18/07/2024 16:41

budget?

Hard to say. If a big enough soundproofed garden room would be £15-20k (rough guess) then £30-40k for something that delivers an opportunity for an improved kitchen layout?

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quickoffthemark · 18/07/2024 16:48

the motivation can be that once done… you will be in a much better position to establish a good re design

InNeedOfInspo · 18/07/2024 16:49

Okay. So assuming the stuff has been dealt with….. what ideas do you have for redesign?

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quickoffthemark · 18/07/2024 16:49

come back to me when you’ve done your big clear out! 😉

InNeedOfInspo · 18/07/2024 16:49

The reward has to be upfront - need the dopamine hit to do the boring stuff. It’s basically the opposite of a NT brain!

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InNeedOfInspo · 18/07/2024 16:49

quickoffthemark · 18/07/2024 16:49

come back to me when you’ve done your big clear out! 😉

Won’t happen.

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InNeedOfInspo · 18/07/2024 16:50

DH will have the garden room in before I’m off the blocks if we aren’t careful.

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hammering · 18/07/2024 16:50

You need to apply to "Love it or list it"

quickoffthemark · 18/07/2024 16:51

you might not need to do anything once sorted out a decent way to live with what is currently in place

InNeedOfInspo · 18/07/2024 16:51

I can we focus on the main question please?

I need to not be 200 miles away for a decent amount of time to get started, and I can’t do that for several months yet.

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quickoffthemark · 18/07/2024 16:52

InNeedOfInspo · 18/07/2024 16:51

I can we focus on the main question please?

I need to not be 200 miles away for a decent amount of time to get started, and I can’t do that for several months yet.

im confused what does 200 miles have to do with anything?

InNeedOfInspo · 18/07/2024 16:52

quickoffthemark · 18/07/2024 16:51

you might not need to do anything once sorted out a decent way to live with what is currently in place

We will. Because there isn’t currently anywhere for a separate office and DH and I need that above anything else.

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InNeedOfInspo · 18/07/2024 16:52

quickoffthemark · 18/07/2024 16:52

im confused what does 200 miles have to do with anything?

I am 200 miles away for work 50% of the time. So I’m not physically there to declutter!

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InNeedOfInspo · 18/07/2024 16:53

The suitable office space is a priority. The question is how we achieve that. It’s also holding back DD developing her musical passion because she can’t get a full size kit.

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quickoffthemark · 18/07/2024 16:54

you have 4 bedrooms
and your teen has two bedrooms whilst you don’t have an office space?

quickoffthemark · 18/07/2024 16:55

build a sound proof garden room for your DD and hee stuff

clear out clutter

Snd then use one of the spare bedrooms as an office

InNeedOfInspo · 18/07/2024 16:55

quickoffthemark · 18/07/2024 16:54

you have 4 bedrooms
and your teen has two bedrooms whilst you don’t have an office space?

The 3rd bedroom is mainly hers but has a sofa bed in it and the family Lego. Her room is small but we’ve had to separate sleep due to her ADHD and getting distracted at bedtime. So she can’t sleep in there, and we can’t fit her wardrobe in there anyway so can’t use bedroom 4 as an office (as we did before her).

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InNeedOfInspo · 18/07/2024 16:56

quickoffthemark · 18/07/2024 16:55

build a sound proof garden room for your DD and hee stuff

clear out clutter

Snd then use one of the spare bedrooms as an office

If the garden room goes in it will be an office and music room. Not moving a 13 year old out of the house.

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quickoffthemark · 18/07/2024 16:56

i meant for her drum kit and lego 🙄

Jeezitneverends · 18/07/2024 16:57

If we’re talking big stuff, then knocking the kitchen into the dining room is logical, but keep the living room separate

quickoffthemark · 18/07/2024 16:57

is the gym used enough to warrant a room?

InNeedOfInspo · 18/07/2024 16:58

Jeezitneverends · 18/07/2024 16:57

If we’re talking big stuff, then knocking the kitchen into the dining room is logical, but keep the living room separate

It’s already a kitchen diner. Should be clear on the plan?

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