@notheragain4 Our exchange deadline was today 
Our buyers FTB in rental, wanted to move asap but think have chosen the slowest solicitor ever! It took them 5 weeks to respond and say they received the pack from our solicitor.
As the buyer was in rental and we are buying a finished new build all parties expected exchange/completion in 6/8 weeks. At first I was anxious over the short timeline but got used to it, made plans, everyone on board with getting the job done etc. Since then, with each passing day I get more and more pissed off with the complete lack of action by the buyers and our solicitors and being able to get just simple things done. Chases for updates take a week to respond, simple requests for title plans for our new purchase took 4 weeks, I mean come on - brewery would go out of business waiting on these guys to organise a piss up. (Apologies for the language, it's fecking soul destroying)
Our new build had been on sale for nearly 6 months and when we offered, we asked for a discount on the sale price and SD contribution of 100%, they come back and countered with SD contribution of £4375 plus £10950 discount so we accepted. They are not a national developer, just a local one.
I've just looked at our mortgage offer. The price of the new build has the discount applied but not the SD discount - DH said on Wednesday after the announcement well we have 50% SD savings, but I said hang on that increases the house price. If SD went up 100% the developer wouldn't add to the incentive eh? Buy all accounts it's us that has the SD liability, the fact there is no liability for us to pay is neither here nor there, the house price minus discounts amount is what our solicitor sends the developer.
I hear you, I do worry about being greedy, I get what my DH says that we would still have £4375 in our pockets but Rishi Sunak didn't implement the SD discount to give developers extra cash for houses, it's for joe public to use and the instigate a multiplier effect, generating further income throughout different sectors. Do I just accept if the developer comes back and says no, that they get another £4375 for the house, and we get £4375 in our pocket or ask that the SD discount is honoured or walk away? Just don't know!
On a positive note I have a hair appointment today LOL - worzel gummidge is not a great lock down look!!!!