Well- my weird encounter was just the FEELING it left me and Dh with afterwards. This is long and rambling so please forgive me . . .
We were invited to an acquaintance's house with our DS. The only other couple there spent no time in telling us that they embraced Steiner philosophy.
Me, being me, was fascinated but it became clear that this couple were weird. The father spoke to no one apart from his children and the mother was VERY overbearing and humorless. Children seemed quite pleasant but Ds was going through a major Thomas the Tank phase and seemed surprised that a boy of his age had never heard of Thomas. I gathered that they had watched no TV or had character toys in the space of 5 minutes. They also told us they were not allowed sugar at all. Maybe not such a bad thing but . . .
My Dh was totally ignored by this couple even though he tried to strike up a conversation several times. He is mixed race and it didn't occur to us then that this may have been the reason why.
Yes, it sounds like a load of cliches, I know. FFS, the dad even had a beard and one of those painter type smock things.
We sniggered on the way home that we had just met "The Modern Parents" from Viz magazine.
And then went and got chips from McDonalds.
I'm wracking my brains over some of the more . .er . . ."batty" statements this woman came out with. I'll ask Dh when he gets home. We often talk about this funny encounter.
She did mention letting children fight their own battles which raised alarm bells with me. But unfortunately NOTHING about gnomes! Or Atlantis.
Barking, your situation sounds awful. I would be seriously pissed off. This one encounter made me feel not quite good enough and made me question my fairly middle of the road parenting style. In fact, I'd want to plaster my house in satellite dishes, eat fast food every day and be throughly vulgar -well that's my name after all.
And your idea of planting gnomes in their gardens would be just genius!