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February 2011 babies

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suzym1984 · 30/05/2010 08:25

Hi everyone!

Well, I got my BFP on Friday morning and it is only just starting to sink in! According to my dates I am due 2nd Feb and I thought it would be nice to have a Feb babies thread, where we can all share our news/worries/excitement!

Cant wait to hear from you

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ellieinshock · 13/06/2010 14:17

Can I join? It's very very early days, I'm really only just 4 weeks, due date would be 22nd Feb.

I'm 32, and it's my first... and a honeymoon baby! Eeek!!!

By the way, for anyone that is due around the 11th Feb, very cool date to have as a birthday - 11022011 - it's a palindrome! (Er, is that the right word? I think so...)

Anyway, congrats to all, exciting and scary times ahead I guess... x

nicb79 · 13/06/2010 15:33

I want to tell everyone...having to keep my mouth clamped today! Its a long 9 months...

grannyapple welcome to the same due date, love yours and Tabbycat76 pregnancy stories.

Hope everyone is feeling O.K today x

Katecool · 13/06/2010 16:27

Congrats to everyone here, I had a positive test last weds, 6 days before Im due on. It's my first child but since I had a miscarriage at 7 weeks in march I keep testing to see if I'm still pregnant! Apart from getting really bad period like pains since i did my first test...and a super sensitive sense of smell I have no other pregnancy symptoms, oh and I'm due on 14 th feb! I'm scared stiff I'm going to loose this one too but I know I can't do anything but think positive!

tabbycat76 · 13/06/2010 16:29

Ah hadn't thought of that Elleninshock - much rather that date than a Valentines baby even tho my due date is 16th! They never come on time do they! Welcome by the way, and congratulations!

It's sooo hard trying to keep it secret isn't it nicb79 - we're going to a party next week and close friends will soon realise I'm not drinking - and suspicions will be roused as they know we've been trying! Hmm, must think of a decent excuse to get them off the scent!

nicb79 · 13/06/2010 16:37

How about being the driver when you go to the party tabbycat76? might keep then off the scent. I think people know alot of the time anyway. I told people at 5-6 weeks last time as I was feeling sooo ill I thought they would guess.

I'm hoping my baby doesn't arrive on Valentines day too.

xx

sloathy · 13/06/2010 16:50

Hello

Can I join too please? Got a faint positve on Friday but after taking a silly number of tests since I think I am finally convinced its real! Only symptom so far is nausea. No actual vomiting yet but a kind of travel sickness type feeling all of the time. Worse in the afternoons/evenings.I think I am due on 19 Feb! I want to get really excited but am a bit too scared to because its so early. I've told family and very close friends but that's all - mainly because they would notice straight away that I wasn't drinking!

Rusty06 · 13/06/2010 17:02

Hello Everyone

Well I think I am officially the oldest on the list I am 43 and after 4 years of trying and some light hearted trying before that I am 4-5 weeks pregnant with number 1. Looking forward to chatting with you all through the next 8 months if all goes well.

Rusty

Rusty06 · 13/06/2010 17:03

forgot to say EDD is 16th Feb

Rusty

Honeywitch · 13/06/2010 17:05

How cool is that palindrome!

Pipsicles and all other cat people, my advice if cat food makes you feel ill, is as follows:

1)Get partner to do it
2 Change to mainly dry food but supplement this with real chicken and fish and make sure there's plenty of water - dry food is hard on cats' kidneys.

Cat litter - sometimes my partner does it, sometimes I do, but I always use disposable latex gloves and an antibacterial hand spray. Job done.

Also, a lot of flea treatments are bad for you right now - get your vet to treat for fleas instead of doing it yourself at home.

As for cats and babies - I can't see why it wouldn't work with good supervision. I was brought up on a farm with cats, dogs and all sorts, and it never did me any harm. My mum's siamese used to pull her hair if I cried, to tell her to get off the sofa and look after me! And we had one bluepoint siamese who followed my brother everywhere and loved him to bits, right from when he started to crawl.

One thing - if you have cats/dogs, and you want a moses basket on a stand or a rocking cradle, avoid the rocking or flimsy stands as they don't look stable enough to cope with a cat/dog jumping up - the rockers are often not very wide based. Get a gliding motion one instead, much safer.

Also, although I was brought up on a farm, I'd still say DON'T go visit sheep and lambs at your local petting zoo/farm during pregnancy because there are some bugs associated with this.

Sorry for all the advice - I seem to have gone off one - - I hope it helps, but do feel free to ignore!

LalZee83 · 13/06/2010 18:02

Thank you Honeywitch for you reassurance - very much appreciated.

On a separate note, after feeling ok up until now, I am feeling absolutely wiped, and have this lingering nausea that waxes and wanes. Also very bad lower back pain/cramps earlier, took paracetamol as it was that bad, terrified that there will be bleeding to follow...

cler · 13/06/2010 19:05

ive had alot of back and tummy ache today.I had a scan at just over 6 weeks on thur and they said everything was in right place but want me to go back a week tomorrow just to see heartbeat is there. This is my 4th pregnancy but im so scared this time round and more worried.My tummy is really swollen, anyone else like that? x

angels1 · 13/06/2010 19:12

hello all,

I feel like I'm in the calm before the storm - I'm waiting for the terrible symptoms to kick in...and hoping they arn't as bad as last time as I was so super ill. I'm seeing my doc tomorrow (not just because I'm pg...I also spotted a new suspect lump under my armpit) and I think I'll mention to her my worry about being so ill again and managing to struggle through work - I've got 4 weeks until I'm on summer break, and the stress alone of how I'll manage I think is making me ill! I work with food and cooking, and last time it was all I could do to look at food on the tv before I had to change the channel...I missed watching 'come dine with me' as I couldn't take watching people cook! I ate alot - because that was the only thing that sort of helped the nausea (although really had to force it down). Last time, I was on christmas break so never had the problem of working through the sickness etc.... it really really worries me to the point of it's all I can think about, but maybe the doc will just tell me to pull myself together...

I've noticed a really really smelly shrub outside the front door that grows up the house this weekend! It's a small house so only 5 windows in whole house, 2 of which back out to this shrub which is in some kind of full pollen manic smell mode - I hope it gives up soon or I won't be able to use my bedroom or living room! Even with the window shut I can smell it - ewwww.

I have a query - I have set up a veg patch and it needs weeding...now I'm sure I've read pg women arn't suppose to garden - has anyone? how bad is the risk? We have 2 cats, and they have been known to use the veg patch as a loo area (if I see them, I chase them to stop them, but what they do when I don't see...who knows), so there's an added risk there! Will I be OK to garden there, or is it something I should beg my dh to do (which won't go down well!).

Oh - and another question (this is my first other than a mc, so not sure on stuff) - can you have a hot bath and use hot water bottles? When I get cramps I sometimes think a hot water bottle would help, but don't want to do harm, equally, I love love love a hot bath, a long, hot, bath, the hotter the better, but do I have to deny this too? I had a hot bath on sat and then felt guilty, and a tepid one this morning and felt just very cold!

I'm going to shut the window to get rid of that dredded plant pollen wiff that's getting up my nose... sorry for the long post

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PDR · 13/06/2010 19:25

LalZee83 snap - lower back pain and twinges here too - just taken a paracetomol. Really hoping its just things adjusting and nothing sinister!

angels1 re bath and waterbottle - I'm pretty sure they advise against hot baths as I remember something telling me that in my 1st pregnancy. I'm pretty sure hot waterbottles for cramps are ok though as it was suggested to me that I get one for early labour cramps.

tabbycat76 · 13/06/2010 19:33

Yep, hot hot baths I think are out - I've heard the same thing, babies don't really like them. As for hot water bottles... maybe it would depend on how far pregnant you were when you were using them!? Not sure on that one.

Re gardening, I think you're ok gardening but you do have to be careful with cats faeces, so personally I'd wear gardening gloves and just wash my hands well afterwards.

And finally angels1, prune that plant! You poor thing with nasty whiffy smells seeping into your house! Not nice!

tabbycat76 · 13/06/2010 19:36

By the way, welcome rusty06 to the 'due 16th Feb' masses, of which I've spotted just 4 now I think inc myself! Ha! Hope all goes well with your pregnancy and I look forward to hearing from you throughout!

angels1 · 13/06/2010 19:37

I can't prune it! It's the type of thing that grows up the whole side of the house (called a pyrocanther???? can't spell). I cut it back as much as I could reach on a step ladder and bending out of the bedroom window a couple of months back, but it's rather large and out of control, so I'll have to grin and bear it or move into the bathroom for the next few months (which it may send me running to from its smell anyway!!

Grannyapple · 13/06/2010 19:53

Hey tabby never occurred to me that we were that high risk-tho talking to SIL she then told me there's a risk of spina bifuda on my husband's side-he had a cousin who died at 10 days old from severe spina bifuda & a cousin who had a stllbirth with encephaly ( is that how spell that-water on the brain?). So I was doing fine until I heard that! Best friend told me to stop worrying & enjoy it , so that is what I will try to do. But likely means that it'll be scan @ 12 wks, poss 15 wks & another @ 20 wks according to her...

Have u made appt with doc/ midwife yet? I'm just a bit worried they will say it's too early?? May give it say 2 wks, I think...

Oh & welcome to all the newbies!!

tabbycat76 · 13/06/2010 20:12

GrannyApple - I think having been a midwife previously, too much info is not really a good thing. That combined with my worrywart character.... I worry when I have nothing to worry about! I read in my pregnancy book that those women who worry more are more likely to have girls?!?!? We shall see!

So, yeah we are high risk unfortunately so there's a lot to think about with re to screening tests and implications of the results. I would have thought that given it was your husbands cousins, it wouldn't directly affect your risk, it's not an immediate family member like a brother or sister. I'll be interested to know what they say when you book with your mw.

I haven't made an appt yet, not sure when to. I'm think towards the end of next week, then I'll be just over 5 weeks. I was advised by my mw friend to make contact at around 6 weeks but am working nights the week after so yeah, next week I think. What are you going to do?

KnitterNotTwitter · 13/06/2010 20:19

Phew - totally knackered here. It's 8.15 and I'm already in bed. DS has had two bad nights as he's got 3 new teeth coming through and I didn't realise . Bad Mummy. I suddenly noticed one of them today and the penny dropped. So he's been given Calpol tonight and fingers crossed for a sensible nights sleep!! DH was away with the RAF for the weekend so I couldn't even share duties... He's back now and did bath and bed routine which was bliss for me

I've noticed my sense of smell is on overdrive at the moment - particularly loathsome is cigarette smoke - makes me retch!

No more morning sickness as such though - just that one day on Wednesday - phew!

Welcome lovely new people - updated stats for everyone below:

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cler #4 (25) 3rd Feb
CluckyKate #2 (36) 3rd Feb
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sweetnitanitro · 13/06/2010 20:37

Evening! I am tentatively joining, just got 2 positive test results today. My EDD is 16th Feb. I'm really pleased, we've been trying for a few months and I'm still BF my 20 mo DD constantly. I'm also really nervous because my first pregnancy was completely awful. Hopefully this one will be better because DD is a little dynamo!

I'm also having period-type cramps but that happened the first time around as well so I'm not too worried.

Does anyone know how soon I should speak to a GP or midwife? It was only a couple of years ago with DD but I honestly can't remember what I did I'm only 4 weeks pregnant, will they tell me to bugger off and come back in a couple of weeks?

This really hasn't sunk in yet....

tabbycat76 · 13/06/2010 20:45

Welcome sweetnitanitro - another feb 16th member! ;) Congratulations!

We've been discussing when to go to the GP - I thought maybe 5-6 weeks so that's probably what I'll do. Next week.... can't wait!

sweetnitanitro · 13/06/2010 21:01

Ooh, you're the 16th too! Congrats I'm not holding my breath though, DD was 11 days late. In fact, I am going to lie about my due date this time to avoid several million phone calls asking if baby has arrived yet.

I might phone the surgery tomorrow to find out what day the MW comes in. My friend has just found out she's pregnant but I don't want to ask her because we're keeping schtum until the first scan.

Oops, forgot to say my age for the list- am 29.

tabbycat76 · 13/06/2010 21:13

Will you let me know what your surgery says about getting an appt with the midwife? I know all surgeries are different but it gives me something to go with.

11 days late?!?! Crikey, as if 9 months isn't long enough eh?! Hopefully this one will be a little more courteous and arrive on time! ;)

SemperEadem · 13/06/2010 21:21

Hello and congrats to all the new ladies joining the thread

Morning sickness started for me this afternoon, couldn't keep anything down and couldn't stand the smell of anything - even DH

All I have managed to eat today is Greek yoghurt & honey, and chip shop chips - not great but the thought of anything else just makes me want to barf.

sweetnitanitro · 13/06/2010 21:41

Will do, Tabby. I looked on the NHS website and it says to contact a health professional 'as soon as possible' but I suppose it does vary. I live in a quiet rural area so the surgery is never that busy. IIRC the MW visits are on Mondays for me anyway, so I might not get in tomorrow. Suits me though, DD is going to messy play in the morning.

Semper- I am dreading morning sickness, I suffered from it terribly last time, for 9 whole months! And the only thing I could keep down for the first few months was Super Noodles. I made DH buy them in case anyone saw me Greek yoghurt and honey isn't that bad.