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Sorry I could not think of an original title

minxi - really sorry to hear your sad news. what a horrible time for you and dh. had you told anyone in RL? had you told your boys?

i think maybe this thread is doomed and we should start a new one, like seaside said, there has been too much bad luck on here

minxi that is really awful .

At last I've made it to the bottom of ths thread to post. Im definitely all for a smaller more lucky happy thread!!!

Minxi. I am so sorry. I still have the memory in my head of my 10 week foetus with no heartbeat and that was nearly 4 years ago now. Horrid horrid! I was sent home for a week and told to come bck for another scan and then after that showed still no heartbeat I was booked in for an ercp as soon as they could manage about 5 days? It may happen naturally but an ercp may be necessary. I would go back to your GP if you don't feel comfortable waiting. It is your body.

Tis no wonder you and DH are distressed to find out at your 12 wk scan is just awful.

Have to go - screaming children. Thinking of you lots.

Big hugs.xxxx

Oh no minxi - Am so so sorry . Its such a horrible thing to happen especially finding out at the 12 weeks scan when you had no forewarning.

I think its not unusual to be advised to wait and see if nature takes over, but I think for your emotional well being you will need medical assistance as soon as possible if nothing is happening over the next few days. The waiting is just awful.... Thinking of you and your family.

yes i think we should start a new thread soon... Too many bad outcomes on this one

Oh Minxi I am so very very sorry.

Thank you girls, feeling very sad, confused and emotional... went back to the doctor this morning and am now going to the hospital at 10 - I think to discuss the procedure which will probably happen Saturday.. think I will feel better about things once it has been all taken away and I can think clearer... Thank you for your messages be back soon x

lottie - go for it, start a new thread. I never like the responsibility of thinking up a good title!

I know I'm not imaginative enough to have the responsibility of a new thread title but lets make it a really positive one.

Glad you are being seen minxi, you are right you will be able to think clearer when you dont have uncertainty hanging over you.

Minxi - so so sorry that this happened to you. , I hope they are able to help you soon. I hope that you get all the loving care that you need right now. Thinking of you.

Lottie - please do start another thread with a nice positive feel to it.

I am emotionally drained and trying not to think too much, but instead just trying to live life to the full.

I am going in tomorrow morning...which is good then my poor wee boys who is 1 today!!! had to rush him to A&E as after getting back to my mums from the hospital, he fell forward and split his head open on a corner cabinet - so one hospital two different departments all in one day - although have to say took my mind off what is happening t me... right going to celebrate my DS3 birthday as soon as the other back from school - poor boy has had no presents.. I was going to make him his cake but will make one next week now as a celebration for the family that I have

Thanks for listening and sorry about the me post - just feel better about saying what has to be done...did tell a couple of my close friends in rl who have been super helpful and supportive - the boys were told 'accidentally' by dh the other day he was telling me not to do soemthihg when pg and my ds1 turned round and asked was I pg?! But I did ask them not to discuss it with anyone until after the scan so that we could make sure baby was ok and of course we then had to tell them sadly wasn't to be DS1 said (cant believe a 9 yr old still so naive but v sweet!) don't worry me and DS2 can help make another one for you we'll do whatever it takes... DS2 said oh well you've still got us we didn't need that one anyway...amazingly they never told a soul but this morning DS1 did tell his two best friends about us all being sad etc...
Anyway just going to get tomorrow over with and see what the future holds...thank you girls...
Love to all x x

Oh Minxi - what an awful day for all that to happen - I hope DS3 is ok? Big scar? A birthday celebration next week sounds good - he'll never know it's a week late

I hope by now that you are safely out of surgery and on your way to recovery - I agree I couldn't really start to move on while my baby was still inside me, but once that was over, I could begin to come to some peace about it all (but it took at long time).

How you doing too Rainbow?

xxx

Minxi - What awful news. I remember trying not to fixate on the 12 week scan as the moment everything would be fine. But if I'd got bad news that morning I have no idea how I would have coped. Can only hope you are being looked after and that a belated birthday party is something to look forward to.

I'll make it to the new thread soon where hopefully everything will start going brilliantly for everyone.