totally just ignore anything MIL says, just appreciate that she is looking after DS, it might be useful when the bean come Mine is also a pure nightmare despite being thousands of miles away. They might be coming in October and we've just found out that she was trying to get DH sister to come with her two kids including paying for their tickets. She has not told us anything about it, and we are currently helping them a bit financially since they apparently need it. I am absoluteky furious, we are quite tight at the moment etc... pure selfishness, she also lied to DH sister by saying that we were living Bermuda in Feb so it will be the only opportunity .
Sorry needed to let some steam out, I have also been having cramps this weekend and only want to beleive it is streching.
gipi my mother also brought me and my sis on her own, it was not always easy but we knew that she loved us and where trying her best, so we understood despite being young.
boodleboot no need to feel jealous, I am sure I will put the weight on eventually, like the last time and because I am not use to it, it is even worse, my body does not know how to cope.
On a real positive, today is my first day without breasfeeding. DS has finally accepted it was time to stop, the only thing left is for me to teach him that he should not be playing with my nipples instead. It is pretty funny, he looks at my breasts, so I tell him he cannot have them anymore, he gets annoyed, puts his hand under my top just to check they are still there and pull my nipple for a while. Once he is satisfied, he just stops and continues with his day. A few days ago, he was screaming his head off when he could not breasfeed so it is a big improvement .