If you found you were pregnant at 43 would you keep the baby?

[cruisemum1]

Not sure yet but worried... I have an 11 yo and 2 yo

flibberty - that would be something I am sure i wouldhave to deal with. My Myum would be flabberghasted and some friends would think I had completely lost the plot!

My mum was when I told her I was pregnant with DS3 when I was 41, had him 4 weeks before my 42nd birthday .

Also, a LOT of people assumed I'd had another baby because I was trying for a girl which I was not particularly. One old lady in the village even offered her condolences !!

What I am trying to say, there are idiots everywhere, and as far as having children goes, it is really nobody else's business, so although thinking "sod off" I smiled sweetly and gritted my teeth said nothing much..

i had DS2 5 months ago at age 43. could not be happier!

heron - congrats
PDW - some people.........