Partner sent me an eviction email

[Rhiannon1997]

My partner sent me an eviction email today at 07:30 I am 25 weeks pregnant living at his home. I straight away contact my local council on a Sunday morning for immediate help within an hour he sent round one of his family members to kick me out there and then. (He was out all night on a bender with his friends hasn't even come home) I've managed to booked myself a hotel for the night with the money I have left but completely broken and upset that my perfect happy family has been broken apart and now having to manage pregnancy on my own and no where to live. I don't have any family or friends around me and just feel completely abandoned. He does this all the time goes missing for days because he's gone on the sesh. I know I should want to walk away but the thought of doing pregnancy on my own kills.

So are all these brain dead "haha AI comment lol!!!!" Comments. 😴

I think it’s clear he doesn’t want a child not that he’s some form of Machiavellian character.

Stop derailing the OPs thread?

Just a thought.

Youre literally the ones repeatedly quoting me to attack me lmfao saddo

Why do you beleive you have a "perfect happy family?"

That's not the number that's publicised for us to use though, is it?

Smart people admit when they've made a mistake instead of doubling down on it.

If he actually didn't want a child, he'd have turned the abuse up well before the time limit, to coerce her into having an abortion.

Smart people don't waste time attacking others on public forums, either, but here we are.

It wasn't mistake, either, because I copied and pasted it, so they weren't my actual words. It also isn't a mistake as despite not being the publicised emergency telephone number in the UK, it still works exactly the same.

You're clutching at straws to try and have a point, and it's so ironic because you are the one who cannot admit when they're wrong (911 putting you through to 999), yet here you are doubling down on it. Not very smart of you.

Now if you'd kindly follow the words of the other pathetic poster attempting to attack me, and stop derailing this tragic thread, that would be great. Byeeeeee xo

She wouldn't get much help if she phoned 911 though, would she? Wrong country.

This is the kind of shit that AI comes out with: ChatGPT being asked what the silent S in "ChatGPT" stands for and not at any point, saying "there is no S in ChatGPT" https://www.youtube.com/shorts/ZMP8_jD-y0s

AI slop is unreliable and it is irresponsible to post it without checking its accuracy first. The end.

Calm down ….

My point is that posting unverified AI output is irresponsible and no amount of name-calling from you alters that.

It is important to OP and anyone else reading this thread that AI slop is called out to protect them from mistaking it for actual advice.

Please take this advice OP. The perfect happy family with this DP was wishful thinking. Get the support you need and look after yourself and baby.

Absolutely this.

You were already doing pregnancy and parenthood alone, this guy sounds like an abusive waste of space.

You say there’s no repair but as a parent I can’t imagine turning my back on my child even if we had had a falling out. Contact your mum, tell her you’re sorry and you see she was right he’s not the man you thought he was and he’s left you really vulnerable and potentially homeless. You alone and needing him is what he wants - stay strong, stay away and do the thing abusers like him don’t want, get your support network back. Xxxx

I thought you were leaving? 😂

She definitely CAN put his name on the BC (almost half of births in the UK are to unmarried couples, and most of them have the father's name on the BC). But she shouldn't.

Oh I didn't realise that.

I thought he would have to be there.

Which I have assumed he wouldn't be.

She hasn't been with him all that long though.

So sorry OP. I hope you can get a more stable housing situation soon. Really wishing you all the best. You do deserve so much better. I hope you can find find some supportive community members with time.

He really is an absolute disgusting asshole.

If he isolated you from friends and family, persuaded you to move in with him with no security, then persuaded you to quit your job and then threw you out of his home once you had become dependent on him, it seems more like coercive control, which is a crime. I'd be popping down to the police station and pressing charges.

Hi op please tell your midwife tomorrow that you’ve been made homeless I’m glad you gave it I’m wiring. Tell her everything about him and your worries. It will be good to have this on record if he tries to get rights for baby. Block him and don’t tell him your new address and don’t add him to birth certificate and give baby your surname

It hasn't been long at all, but in that time she's given up her home, her job and is pregnant. He's also quite a bit older.
They've probably had a lot to say while this whirlwind was spinning and 🚩🚩🚩 were flapping, but the OP wouldn't be told and they've just thrown their hands up.

If she were my daughter I'd take her back home now and support her through this pregnancy.

I feel really sorry for you.
But honestly. Did you really give up a full time job, a council tenancy and then fall pregnant after being with this loser of a man six months or less???
I despair. I really do.
FGS -You are going to be responsible for a baby soon, a child.
You have to get your life in order. God only knows where you will end up living - it’s not like you will get another council tenancy.
Phone Shelter and Womens aid and get yourself to the council offices tomorrow first thing.
And don’t beg this man to take you back. He’s a twat.

OP, I’m not familiar with how council tenancies work, but do you have other children ?