Pregnancy After Miscarriage Part IV------Welcome to Knicker Checker's Anonymous

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Ooops, the thread filling up sneaked up on us didn't it!

Can't see another one yet...so here we are

Tryingnotot...that is fantastic news . I hope you can enjoy your weekend in Barcelona. I heart Barcelona and am v

Jules

Its my due day

Got through the party, next cut off is midnight tonight/tomorrow (however you want to look at it)!!!

jules. Sorry I missed you last night, and I hope you are feeling OK today. thoughts are with you, DH and your wee man.

yay ilts...the full moon didn't work it's magic then!

any news from twilight?

Hey Daisy....Still @ home wwwaaaiiiittttiiinnngggg on some baby out action.

My theory is im STILL waiting for TS soooooooo I could well have had mine today if TS's wasn't so stubborn

I have never been overdue, had dd1 3 days early, dd2 on due date and ds 4 days early so this is all new for me and im getting bloody impatient!!

Hi all - sending hurry up vibes to ILTS and TS, its just like watching one of the races on the Olympics - who will be first??
I am really down today and don't know why...I am nearly 16 weeks now, (can't believe I have got to here esp when I rqd al the 6/7 week new ple - hang in there!)and on the positive I heard the hb last Tue at the midwifes, she was lovely re my explained paranoia and said if I want to come in every week to listen then I can, which I thought was lovely...I also think I am feeling something, like a low rumble/gurgle, that I think is the babe.
So that's all positive.
But have been really weepy today(okay bawling more like) cos I haven't got any comfy trousers; DH been on xbox all day and I worry he won't pull his weight/doesn't realise what we are letting ourselves in for/won't feed me (and when he does he brings me toast and peanut butter WITH NO BUTTER)/isn't unpacking the last of the boxes from our move A MONTH AGO which I can't do cos of tummy pain when lift/bend too much...went shopping for something comfy and couldn't find anything; feel lumpy and fat and think I will be as big as a house and housebound and naked cos can't find any clothes that don't irritate my tummy; can't shop ANYWAY cos need to wee or eat constantly;sigh!!
Came on here and was cheered up a bit as helps put things into perspecive - how lucky am I really to be complaining about a belly? Also loves the coffee shop experience jules as I worry about that kind of mamaging stuff. Good to know nice ple around.
So maybe all I have left to moan about is a crap xbox wielding lazy arsed dh...who is not all bad as he just this very minute did a search for me re maternity clothes on internet. Moslty the mega expensive Formes/Isabella whatsit stuff, but bless him for wanting to help.

dan39 sending you peanut butter on toast WITH butter, comfy trousers and unpacked boxes - oh well would if I could - so sending vibes to your xboxnerd lovely DH to do it instead

ILTS and TS who's it going to be first, this is exciting!

Jules hope you're settling into motherhood and not too knackered. Thoughts to your baby boy.

I've had a crappy weekend, I've had loads of abdominal/pubic/hip pain but no bleeding so am now convinced it's an ectopic. It's weird pain woke me up Saturday night and was bad again last night but has settled a bit today. Probably cos I stayed in bed till mid day watching the olympics. Think I'm going to phone in sick this week, phone EPU in morning and ask if they'll see me before Friday. I know I'll probably not see much but if they spot a yolk sac and fetal pole then at least the ectopic demon would be banished. Got Lesley Regan's book on Saturday and wish I lived near her clinic!!

Scotlass, go down to your GP and slightly exaggerate your pain etc. Most GPs will try to get you out of the surgery as fast as possible. He will refer you straight throught to EPU and so fingers crossed you should be seen today. If you havent already by the time you read this. I do hope it isnt an ectopic. Horrible for you.

Jules, I am smiling at you in coffee shop. We have all been there my love, at least you had two offers of help.
I am also a little of your meet with Daisy. I want to meet you both as well. I feel like I know you really well. Which obviously I dont but the over familiarity of MN has struck.
I was thinking of you and DP. I hope your beautiful DD has taken away a small amount of your pain.

Girls, where are you today?
IlTS how was the family gathering? Did it have the desired effect? Has baby arrived yet?
Twilight?
Kezza?
Come on. We are all waiting.

33 weeks for me. And I am already getting impatient

Dan39. Dont worry love the tears are really quite normal. You will now find yourself crying at cute animals in the street, anything even slightly sad on the news. Or if you are as sad as me, the ladies running the 10,000 meters in the Olympics. For some reason I cried at the ladies as they finished.
It is official. I am a sad pregnant lady.

Ronshar you're not on your own.

Two weeks before my bfp I was crying at everything (there's no hope for me!). Even fussing a pregnant cat set me off.

I've cried watching the olympics, certain adverts do it, even.... big brother...

I'm a wuss

Big Brother, Big Brother! No wonder you are crying.

Yes, I know, I'm a lost cause sad case

I only watch it 'cos hubby likes it.... hee hee.

Well I went for my dating scan today and unfortunately the scan showed that the baby must have died just after we saw it's little HB 4 weeks ago. I am going into hospital for the ERPC (God I hate that term) tomorrow. DH seems more upset this time, and has cried lots, it's really killing me seeing him so hurt. I'm not sure how I feel at the moment, bit numb I think, it's all happening quite fast. Really thought it was OK this time, but not to be again
So I will be leaving this thread but wish you all healthy, sticky and happy pregnancies.
ITLS & TS Sending you speedly labour thoughts x

Mollie, I am so, so sorry for you both. I hope tomorrow is as gentle as it can be, and that the days and weeks to come are kind to you.

xx

I'm still here, party did naff all lol had some contractions last night but woke up this morning and they had gone. Its official i am having the spawn of the devil. Little trickster!!

Now everyone is saying its gonig to be a boy as boys are ALWAYS late

TS hasn't been seen since yesterday after having regular contractions, woohoooooooooo!!!

OMG Mollie im sorry i only skimmed the thread!

I'm so sorry

Mollimooma. I am so very very sorry. It brings it home to us all what has brought us together here in the first place.
Take care of yourself and your poor DH. Be kind to each other. A hug goes a long way.

I hope you recover swiftly and come back to join us soon.

Mollie I'm so sorry for you and your DH . Take care of yourselves and I hope you are back soon.

Mollie Posted for you on our other thread but just wanted to say again how sorry I am for you and your DH There are no words to ease the pain but please know that we're thinking of you and we hope to see you back very soon.

Howdy! Just popping in to say hi. I'm in labour at this very moment. Should have baby before lunch (for me...I'm 5 hours behind London time).

ILTS, batter up.....you are next girl friend!!

Mollie,
A {{{{{HUGE HUG}}}}} to you and your DH.
TS

You better be!! I've been very patient I think

Good luck Twilightsurfer Can't believe you managed to post an update whilst in labour! Hope all goes well
ILTS Shouldn't be long now then

Hopefully, but i doubt I will sound as calm as TS lol

Well I have dropped and her head is really low down, its uncomfy to walk so i pressume fully engaged? I hope so

Oh can I just add if 1 more person at all says "oh,your still here?" to me today I am going to SCREAM!!!!

No im a figment of your fucking imagination, now piss off and leave me alone!!

(can you tell im a bit fed up? but having to keep a brave face for dd2s birthday)

Sigh............

SCREAM

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