Positive test yesterday, Islamic divorce today!

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I've been married for 4 and a half years, have a 3 year old daughter and literally found out I'm pregnant with our second yesterday. He accused me of purposely not taking my pills, and that I'd gotten pregnant on purpose. He
packed his things and said he needed a break for a few days (I was pissed off, but fine). He came home this morning and took his tea set, coffee machine, and every single thing he had in the house. Clearly not going for just a few days was he? I started getting upset and trying to make sense of things, and I said "If you walk out that door when I need you the most right now, you can divorce me whilst you're at it." And that was it. He said "Talaq, Talaq, Talaq" (I divorce you × 3), handed back his keys and left. Apparently saying it 3 times is irreversible, and he can't ever come back to me. Just can't believe he's done it a day after finding out I'm pregnant with our second.
He messaged earlier on and said it was ME who told him to divorce me, and that this is on me. Is it? I don't know what's reality and what's not anymore!

I'm still trying to make sense of everything, but feel so hurt that it's that easy to just walk away after everything I've forgiven him for over the years.

Are you on crack? He thinks he can divorce someone by saying three words and absolve himself of responsibility for their unborn child, his partner and their child. if he wasn’t religious he wouldn’t think that would work would he 🙄

It clearly a case of another abusive man, but one who thinks he can use religion as a scapegoat for being an abusive man. There are plenty of them. He wouldn’t be the first.

There a lots of realy useful links people have posted for the OP to use where she can find culturally and religious sensitive support, but you focus on the fact he may or may not be religious, you should be ashamed.

@PCOSisaid if you think it's a sign of religiosity to "divorce someone by saying three words and absolve himself of responsibility for their unborn child, his partner and their child," then you should be ashamed of your utter ignorance. Go educate yourself and take the crack pipe out of your own mouth😂