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Zuzu2020 · 07/08/2024 15:11

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ChristmasJumpers · 17/08/2024 20:27

@Patientlywaiting7 I had brown blood when wiping at around 10 weeks and rang the EPU. It took 3 days to get a scan as it was Friday afternoon when I rang, but all was fine and generally they're not worried about brown blood as long as there's no pain accompanying it? Definitely worth asking them to check you over though to put your mind at rest. My bleeding continued for 2 days but was very light

Patientlywaiting7 · 17/08/2024 20:51

@HappyGoLucky31 @Ellsx6 @ChristmasJumpers hi guys - thank you so much for your kindness. I genuinely came here first when I found it!

i was a bit surprised. I know that bleeding is quite common with ivf - I did 4 IVF transfers - all failed. This was a natural pregnancy which we are really pleased with but just still massively anxious. Will take on all your advice and try to get a scan to check everything asap.

thank you ladies soo so so much. Xxx

HappyGoLucky31 · 17/08/2024 21:12

@Patientlywaiting7 idiot me totally forgot you could go for a private scan over the weekend. ❤️ that’s a great idea lovely.

lots of things to distract in the mean time, favourite tv, nice baths :)

Patientlywaiting7 · 17/08/2024 23:42

@GlitteringCat huge congratulations!!! Super happy for you xxx

IMBCRound2 · 18/08/2024 09:01

GlitteringCat · 17/08/2024 18:47

Had a 12 week scan today which was all good and feel super relieved! I’m a FTM and it was so strange seeing it kick its teeny legs.
Based on my LMP im due 1st March but the scan dated me as 12w4d and said 25th Feb. Based on dates I know, I’m pretty certain it should be 28th Feb or later so they’re maybe just a bit bigger! Got NHS scan on wed to confirm date.

Congratulations! My little one measured a week ahead the whole time (IVF pregnancy so there was no doubt to the dates) - never made any sense to me.

ironically she’s below the 1st percentile now so who knows what happened to that giant everyone predicted 😂

GlitteringCat · 18/08/2024 11:14

What are others planning in terms of social media posts? I told close family and friends last night and thinking of putting a post on Facebook after my NHS scan next week. One of those Etsy pics you can edit. I’m just worried in case it’s too early.

26dX · 18/08/2024 11:15

GlitteringCat · 18/08/2024 11:14

What are others planning in terms of social media posts? I told close family and friends last night and thinking of putting a post on Facebook after my NHS scan next week. One of those Etsy pics you can edit. I’m just worried in case it’s too early.

I announced my first at 13 weeks because it was Christmas but completely up to individual, some people do and some are against the idea 😂 do what you want too x

m00ngirl · 18/08/2024 12:57

I'm feeling a bit glum, any words of advice from anyone who's been pregnant before?

I'm 12 weeks now, but feel as bad as I've ever felt in the first trimester. My energy has been really good throughout the first trimester I've been zipping around etc but I'm suddenly extremely tired, sleeping during the day (this is SO unlike me), wretching/nauseous, sneezing, just generally feeling like dog shit. I thought 12 weeks is when things start to get better, not worse?! I know it can go on to 14 weeks or longer but it just feels weird and bloody annoying that I've suddenly gotten worse not better.

ChristmasJumpers · 18/08/2024 13:10

m00ngirl · 18/08/2024 12:57

I'm feeling a bit glum, any words of advice from anyone who's been pregnant before?

I'm 12 weeks now, but feel as bad as I've ever felt in the first trimester. My energy has been really good throughout the first trimester I've been zipping around etc but I'm suddenly extremely tired, sleeping during the day (this is SO unlike me), wretching/nauseous, sneezing, just generally feeling like dog shit. I thought 12 weeks is when things start to get better, not worse?! I know it can go on to 14 weeks or longer but it just feels weird and bloody annoying that I've suddenly gotten worse not better.

It does seem odd (and very annoying for you!) To be getting worse at 12 weeks. I am now 13 weeks and starting to turn a corner as I've been extremely sick/tired since 5 weeks.
In my last pregnancy I didn't start to feel any better until 16 weeks, some it takes even longer than that!

m00ngirl · 18/08/2024 13:19

@ChristmasJumpers very annoying! And I'd be furious if this goes on til 16 weeks!

One thing I noticed when I finally logged into "my charts" (anyone else find it a bit annoying to have to get an app to get test results!?) is my bloods from my first midwife appnt a couple of weeks ago were anemic. No one told me or told me what to do. Not sure if that's because it's sort of normal or expected at this stage rather than a big worry? Given how much extra blood we have to make. Obviously I'm trying to eat well and also taking pregnancy vitamins.

Other consideration is maybe I'm fighting a cold. Doesn't explain the nausea though. Ugh I'm very fed up.

ChristmasJumpers · 18/08/2024 13:22

m00ngirl · 18/08/2024 13:19

@ChristmasJumpers very annoying! And I'd be furious if this goes on til 16 weeks!

One thing I noticed when I finally logged into "my charts" (anyone else find it a bit annoying to have to get an app to get test results!?) is my bloods from my first midwife appnt a couple of weeks ago were anemic. No one told me or told me what to do. Not sure if that's because it's sort of normal or expected at this stage rather than a big worry? Given how much extra blood we have to make. Obviously I'm trying to eat well and also taking pregnancy vitamins.

Other consideration is maybe I'm fighting a cold. Doesn't explain the nausea though. Ugh I'm very fed up.

Oh they are a nightmare for that!! I found out on the app last time that I'd tested positive for a urine infection (no symptoms at all). When I rang they said I needed to go in for antibiotics - they'd had the results for a week and not told me!!
I hope it's just a blip for you and not going to last long, I would also be very fed up at starting to feel worse as the first trimester ends Flowers

Ellsx6 · 18/08/2024 17:49

@m00ngirl aw I feel for you! I'm 12 weeks today and have been pretty symptomless anyway but for the past week I've felt absolutely fine and back to normal no tiredness ect. Just waking up 4 times a night for the toilet🫠 I would call them and ask to discuss your results x

IMBCRound2 · 18/08/2024 18:27

Rock coming off a cliff at the beach just took my whole toenail off- at urgent care waiting not so patiently . Does anyone know if trauma to a non-baby related part carries a risk?

I only managed to keep from blacking out on the trail through sheer will power in case I fell on the little one.

Saim86 · 18/08/2024 18:31

Sorry have been extremely quiet on the group my sickness got out of hand and found myself in hospital for past 2 weeks really sad to see some mums dropping out sending hugs and healing wishing the rest of you happy healthy pregnancies

Mrbay · 18/08/2024 22:01

Sorry I've not posted in a while, had guests staying with us.

So sorry some have had their current journey end but I hope they get the outcome they want soon.

I don't feel like I should complain about this pregnancy as it's just a miracle that I'm having a 2nd but I feel so rough! Pregnancy plus a toddler is kicking my arse!

I'm so bloated/fat that I now look so pregnant - what leggings have people brought?

PlumpHobbit · 18/08/2024 22:04

Glad we booked the private scan for reassurance, they had to use the transvaginal thingy in the end as they couldn't find the Hobbitlet, but there was a little heartbeat and hands and feet, just one as well (twins run in the family, unless of course the other was hiding!)

Still only told very immediate family, want to get the hospital scan and downs etc test done before telling everyone. I'm thinking I may even wait until the 2nd hospital scan before doing a social media post, my old school friend announced hers quite late, plus there's not anyone on it I'm massively close to that I can't tell irl

Have felt horrendous today with a headache, it's so hard not being able to take anything more than paracetamol, ended up going and having a nap, lying on a hot water bottle this afternoon!!

Off to centre parcs tomorrow for a couple of nights, much as I'd love to have gone abroad my mum did talk some sense in recommending staying in the UK as the thought of going through the airports etc and sitting on a plane if I feel like this makes me want to chunder.

I know the slides are a no, I'm guessing the rapids are too? In case people just are reckless and slam into me? Can remember going down them as a child and loving it, will get DH to go down but if it's not safe don't want to risk it. I am pleased to see there's a lazy river, I'll bob round that at least

It's the tiredness I've not been setting an alarm the last few weeks as off work (no children) and I've slept so long, it's hard going into a bit more of a proper day, as I hadn't been needing the naps when I was waking up when it happened

veggiebuns · 18/08/2024 22:49

Hi all! Little update from me: we had our first scan today - private early one. I started getting panicky last week as my nausea seemed to suddenly stop, and even though I still felt rough as hell I got scared - as we all do, even though we know symptoms don't actually point to anything reliable. NHS had me dated at 8w 6 days but I knew I was actually a week behind due to longer cycles, and I was chuffed when I was spot on! Currently measuring 7w 6days. We saw a tiny little jelly bean and a flickering heart.

I'm so glad I did it, because I haven't been able to really lean into this first trimester at all because I've been so scared. It's my first pregnancy so it's been a whole lot of worry from the moment I got a positive test.

A private scan was the best thing I could've done, I just feel so at peace and ready to relax into these next few weeks and take it as it comes xx

Ellsx6 · 18/08/2024 23:18

@Mrbay also interested in what maternity leggings people have bought. Have no clue where to start don't want to waste extra money with try and error with loads

IMBCRound2 · 19/08/2024 08:56

😭😭 I broke my toe!

any hints and tips for chasing a toddler in a boot while pregnant and feeling less than radiant?!

IMBCRound2 · 19/08/2024 08:59

Ellsx6 · 18/08/2024 23:18

@Mrbay also interested in what maternity leggings people have bought. Have no clue where to start don't want to waste extra money with try and error with loads

I’m not a fan of a fast fashion but got my maternity leggings from boohoo and H&M as I knew I’d only need them for a couple of months (my last baby was a June baby and I had a small bump/am petite)

They did the trick but I spend more time in maternity joggers but it was pandemic so I really didn’t care as no one saw me!

Planning on dresses for when I need to be in public and joggers round the house again .

IveGotALovelyBunchOfCoconutss · 19/08/2024 09:37

I found the Asda maternity leggings great when pregnant with my first (2022). No idea what to wear this time round, body is very different now and I'm completely lost. Need to be able to chase round after a toddler too so probably leggings and long tops and try to find some kind of shoes that are easy to get on and aren't too hot

ChristmasJumpers · 19/08/2024 10:45

IveGotALovelyBunchOfCoconutss · 19/08/2024 09:37

I found the Asda maternity leggings great when pregnant with my first (2022). No idea what to wear this time round, body is very different now and I'm completely lost. Need to be able to chase round after a toddler too so probably leggings and long tops and try to find some kind of shoes that are easy to get on and aren't too hot

I used asda maternity leggings too and am already back in them plus DHs tshirts! I highly recommend crocs, I just got some for my birthday after spending years turning my nose up. I still think they're ugly, but somehow haven't worn anything but them for the past month 😂
I already have pelvic pain and they are just such a dream to slip on and off

lipgoss · 19/08/2024 17:04

Got my 12w scan (at what should be 11+6) first thing tomorrow and starting to feel nervous! Saw a heartbeat at 8+1 so I know the odds are in our favour, but it's still so nerve wracking. We've been away for a few days which has been great for keeping busy, but now I can't ignore it!
I've overall felt pretty good throughout but the past week or so now I've actually been feeling completely normal I'd say, so wondering if I might actually date a little further on once I'm measured again (trying not to entertain the thought that that's something sinister..!)

LV1987 · 19/08/2024 18:33

9 week scan (at 8+5) was a success, so we are officially discharged from our IVF clinic and will start our weaning off protocol for the IVF medications at the end of the week.

We've also got our booking in appointment on Saturday, after which we have a 3 hour drive to collect my partners two boys for a week, so all go here!

If anyone has any tips on sharing the news with step-children, I'd love to hear them. They are 12 and 8 😬

Ellsx6 · 19/08/2024 19:04

Feeling so anxious today due to dating scan coming up in few days ..see a heartbeat 4 days ago at 11+4 so sure it'll all be fine but still here with absolutely no symptoms. Wouldn't even know I was pregnant if it wasn't for testing. See something earlier about a lady who's first pregnancy she had no symptoms and at her 12 week scan she found at baby had Edwards and she birthed him at 19weeks. That's really worried me I think. Just hanging onto the fact I've had about 10 private scans and surely they would've seen if something didn't look right..well I hope! How's everyone else getting on? Xx

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