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Due March 2025

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Zuzu2020 · 21/06/2024 19:57

Hi, just making a thread for babies due March 2025...

Its early I know..
Tested positive this morning at 9dpo.

Looking at a due date of 5/3/25

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jellyfish2 · 22/07/2024 13:22

@ninaballerina12 that's brilliant! I'm so happy for you. Such a relief 🥰

Saim86 · 22/07/2024 13:45

ninaballerina12 · 22/07/2024 13:06

@Saim86 thanks for your message! Wow, hats off to you for doing it all, your children are very lucky to have such a wonder mum! Sorry to hear that you suffered with HG. Do you have it in this pregnancy? I have had persistent nausea and that’s felt rough enough! I can’t imagine! I hope your spotting settles soon and you have a relaxed pregnancy.

I am so pleased to update that it was good news today, baby measuring on track at 8+3 and started progesterone now. Just about to read up on any side effects and what to expect! I still won’t feel out of the woods until some more time has passed without any spotting but reassured for now. Thanks again for all your support, it really helped reading the messages feeling nervy in the waiting room! 😊

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That’s lovely news it will still be a touch and go few weeks but if there was anything alarming it would have shown up by now ….as for sickness try the anti sickness now as once it kicks in there’s little help from the anti sickness I took mine as a preventative treatment due to recurrent hg I was fine till week 7 light nausea I’m 8 weeks today and it’s ramped up yesterday have increased my Ondansetron so fingers crossed

Superscientist · 22/07/2024 13:45

@ninaballerina12 I'm glad everything so far is looking ok. X

ConfusedCrab · 22/07/2024 14:04

Downtherabbithole83 · 21/07/2024 16:50

Hi all, nervously joining at 4 weeks and 5 days… (I think due date will be 25th March) got a dye stealer on my cheapie test yesterday so finally willing to admit this might be happening. Congrats to all of you!

I’ve got two children (5 and 7) from my ex and then, with my current partner, we lost our last pregnancy at 14 weeks due to chromosomal issues in Nov 22 - I’ve had 5 chemical pregnancies since then but this time the lines have progressed well and I’m starting to feel a bit hopeful…

I’m 41 - any others on here at the ‘older’ end of things?

🙋‍♀️ I’m 42, also older…. Due 27th March according to Flo.

I only tested for the first time in my life yesterday. We were trying I guess, in that now or never way / let fate take over and here we are. I feel pretty overwhelmed tbh.

I have no clue about anything though, so I’ve been reading through this thread for tips!

Downtherabbithole83 · 22/07/2024 14:13

Hi @ConfusedCrab, glad to hear I’m not the only one in the 40+ group.

These kinds of groups are fantastic for support and advice - no such thing as a silly question. Though this group is so active at the moment that I’m struggling to keep up with all the comments!

Superscientist · 22/07/2024 15:15

Congratulations @ConfusedCrab

Ask any and all questions!?!

I've just been to the GP and now have cyclizine. I've not been able to go to work today because of the sickness and nausea

veggiebuns · 22/07/2024 16:13

Hi!

Tentatively joining! I'm 4w 1d (I think) and looking like a due date of 30th March 2025. I got a positive test Friday (3w5d) which is very early so I'm a little nervous!! This was our first month TTC, so I feel so lucky but it's scaring me that it could all be too good to be true! I was crampy with really sore boobs for a couple days, but that's all stopped last night. I know symptoms will take a few weeks to kick in but this quiet stage is awful!

jellyfish2 · 22/07/2024 16:21

@veggiebuns congratulations! It's awful finding out so early because it just drags in but try to keep yourself busy while you still have the energy. I'm 6 wks tomorrow and the tiredness has really hit me over the last couple of days.

CatmumTTC · 22/07/2024 16:26

veggiebuns · 22/07/2024 16:13

Hi!

Tentatively joining! I'm 4w 1d (I think) and looking like a due date of 30th March 2025. I got a positive test Friday (3w5d) which is very early so I'm a little nervous!! This was our first month TTC, so I feel so lucky but it's scaring me that it could all be too good to be true! I was crampy with really sore boobs for a couple days, but that's all stopped last night. I know symptoms will take a few weeks to kick in but this quiet stage is awful!

Hi veggiebuns, I'm the same as you, due date end of March! Also feeling pretty fed up with this early stage where nothing much happens, though guess we should be grateful that the nausea etc isn't too bad yet! I'm sure it will come in time, enjoy the lack of symptom whilst it lasts. Also I've bought some digital tests to do over the next couple of weeks so at least I have something to do and can track progression that way.

veggiebuns · 22/07/2024 16:29

@jellyfish2 Thank you! I've returned to work today after a two week holiday so certainly lots to keep me busy. I know I'll be regretting my words when it hits, but right now I'd love to symptoms just for reassurance! I've already told my partner to remind of that when I'm exhausted and nauseous 😂

veggiebuns · 22/07/2024 16:32

@CatmumTTC Absolutely need to appreciate this time while it lasts! I also have some digital tests so need to have will power and not use them all up in one go haha! That's how I ended up here! I said I wouldn't test early and I caved haha

jellyfish2 · 22/07/2024 16:34

@veggiebuns I think my nausea will be in full force soon enough, I've starting feeling it now and again. It's horrible. Though I had the worst nausea in my last pregnancy which ended in a missed miscarriage so sadly symptoms really don't determine how well a pregnancy is doing even if there's no bleeding or cramps 😔

veggiebuns · 22/07/2024 16:37

@jellyfish2 I'm sorry about your previous loss! I appreciate you sharing, I think that was a reminder I needed to just take it as it comes and not get ahead of myself. This would be first baby and first month ttc so easier said than done but need to keep expectations in check💖

jellyfish2 · 22/07/2024 16:58

@veggiebuns I'm sure everything will be absolutely fine for you 🥰 I'm approaching with caution this time as I don't want to be completely blindsided again. It's a shame as its taken the excitement out of it this time around.

Melusina123 · 22/07/2024 17:00

I found out at 3+5 and I'm now 7+6 so I feel like I've known for a century and it's still soooo early. 😭

@jellyfish2 @veggiebuns I also had a MMC after being nauseous for weeks, but I was equally nauseous in my successful pregnancy. Symptoms really don't mean very much - even "red flag" symptoms like bleeding and cramping are often ok (I also had bleeding in my successful pregnancy and absolutely none in the MMC). And being nauseous is correlated with successful pregnancy but so many people had dreadful nausea and still things went wrong.

You really do need to take each day as it comes, but try to be open to things going right as well. I wish I had spent more of my successful pregnancy just being in the moment and being happy, but it was right on the heels of the MMC so I was anxious the whole time. Now I feel like I just suffered unnecessarily (and if it had gone wrong then I would have had plenty of time to suffer at that point).

Remember it turns out right waaaaay more often than it goes wrong. ❤️ Important to remember that Mumsnet is an atypical sample in that regard because lots of us end up here looking for community after experiencing something going wrong.

jellyfish2 · 22/07/2024 17:25

@Melusina123 thanks for that, I really needed to remind myself that there's more chance on things being ok with no other symptoms telling me otherwise. Sorry you've been through a MMC too, it's horrendous.

I think once I get the 12wk scan out the way I'll feel a bit better as that's when I found out before. Hopefully we'll all have healthy babies in March 🥰

Balloffluff123 · 22/07/2024 19:21

@veggiebuns Congratulations! I was in the same boat as you 2 years ago exactly! First time TTC with first baby and we were successful. I don’t think I really believed I could be so very blessed until I actually held her in my arms. She is now a gorgeous smiley 16mth old so it can happen! 😍

Balloffluff123 · 22/07/2024 19:22

Wonderful news @ninaballerina12! I’m so happy for you! What a relief it must be. xx

RaineyNina · 22/07/2024 20:29

Hey, just found this thread and thought I'd join, I'm 6+3 due about 14th March, found out really early so feels like I've lived about 3 years in the last 3 weeks 😅 waiting for my first appointment, very mild symptoms mostly don't feel pregnant at all which makes me feel so anxious and worried that something is wrong, anyone else like this?

PeachMartin · 22/07/2024 20:29

CaffeinatedLondoner · 22/07/2024 11:49

Hi @PeachMartin – I'm 100% with you here. Not necessarily pregnancy focused (some are, the vast majority are not). I've struggled with anxiety for years and have diagnosed OCD that is managed through medication. In preparing for my pregnancy, I spent many appts speaking to my GP about how to safely manage this from a medication POV, and in CBT.
I struggled so severely with my mental health when we got pregnant over a year ago I had to have a termination for my own safety, it was really scary.
This time, even though I feel more prepared and have spent the last year getting 'match fit' (!) there's still days where I just want to crawl out of my own skin. At my booking appt I spoke to my midwife about it, and she referred me to the perinatal MH team. My GP has considered upping my medication (which we discussed before pregnancy, so I was reassured I had that as an option in my back pocket). Even though I'm assured there's a belt and braces approach, it still hurts. I want to be normal and enjoy pregnancy, but it just rattles my brain a little harder than usual.
Things that are helping me: keeping busy at work, checking in with my husband regularly, exercising, lots of time outside, and reading anything and everything that ISN'T PREGNANCY RELATED, taking medication, speaking to my GP, proactively chasing my perinatal MH referal.
One things that's made me feel so much better is that I have a close friend with a similar MH diagnosis as me, and she said as soon as she got to the end of the first trimester she felt normal again. Honestly, girl. Hormones are wild.
Sending love and support xx

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Thank you so much for sharing your story, I really appreciate it. It sounds like you went through an extremely difficult time and have done amazingly to get to where you are today. 🩷

I have been trying get out and exercise as much as possible and use headspace for meditation and breathing exercises.

I have spoken to my GP previously re my MH, which I normally focused on my health but since becoming pregnant, I have been worrying about all sorts of issues that are completely out of my control and end up in an endless loop of panic and anxiety. Like you said in your post, there are days when I just want to crawl out of my own skin.

I really hope the anxiety subsides soon but will absolutely raise with the midwife at my booking appointment in a couple of weeks. Thanks again 🩷

jellyfish2 · 22/07/2024 20:36

RaineyNina · 22/07/2024 20:29

Hey, just found this thread and thought I'd join, I'm 6+3 due about 14th March, found out really early so feels like I've lived about 3 years in the last 3 weeks 😅 waiting for my first appointment, very mild symptoms mostly don't feel pregnant at all which makes me feel so anxious and worried that something is wrong, anyone else like this?

I'm 6 weeks tomorrow and don't really feel pregnant, the odd moment feeling a bit sicky and slightly sensitive nipples but that's it so far.

PlumpHobbit · 22/07/2024 21:09

What are people's thoughts on pregnancy vitamins?

I've been taking folic acid since September, and have upped this to the prescription 5mg on discovering I was pregnant and anyone with 30 plus bmi should have a stronger dose

However looking on amazon there's all sorts of others? I struggle with anything bigger than a paracetamol tablet and gag like mad on the plastic coated tablets, and I can remember picking a pack of the pregnacare vitamins up for someone once and was horrified at the size of the tablets

Diet isn't the best so feel like I should take something, but there's no use if I can't swallow them, especially as I'm feeling queasy in general

Struggling to drink cups of tea, usually I live off it! Trying to force down a cracker or 2 when I start to feel slightly hungry, had a couple of baked potatoes for tea with some butter and black pepper, that went down quite nicely

I spoke to a pharmacy about hay-fever tablets and they said no 😭 that isn't helping as all the snot from the hay-fever is adding to feeling sick

Will join the FB group once I've had the scan, don't want to tempt fate and so far only told my mum and DH, so don't want to end up coming across someone I know in there

Had a banging headache all afternoon from the weather, I'm massively prone to them and struggling with only being able to take paracetamol

The feeling sick is a horrible cycle, you don't want to eat because you feel sick, but feel sick because of not eating. Not actually been sick, yet, although probably not quite in the window for that hitting. Think smell is starting to increase, my cups of tea at work smelt "weird" and unappealing, although smelt the milk at home and that was OK so maybe theirs was about to turn

MrsH1990 · 22/07/2024 21:29

Good evening all,
Due date around 19th March!
Nervous as hell!
I'm the past 15 months had 2 miscarriages and an ectopic!
Got a scan on Thursday. Going to Magaluf on Friday for a hen so that'll be fun 😅
Hope everyone is ok xx
The fb page link isn't working. Good that it's very private though as last thing I'd want is someone finding out I was pregnant. Haven't even told my mum or sister yet! Xxx

sirensong · 22/07/2024 22:00

@PlumpHobbit you can get pill cutters to split to a manageable size if that helps your decision.

@MrsH1990 welcome and good luck. You're overdue some!

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