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Due September 2024 PART 2 ๐Ÿ’›๐Ÿงก๐Ÿ’š๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’œ

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HoneyandSunshine · 17/01/2024 16:41

I couldnโ€™t see a part 2?? So Iโ€™ve created one. Hope its not a duplicate ๐Ÿฅฒ๐Ÿ˜‚

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Xur · 27/01/2024 17:16

@HRP1990
heartburt is linked to hair?? Wow! Iโ€™ve never heard this one before.
@rupertbear91 love the doggo scarf! ๐Ÿ˜Wouldnโ€™t work on my parents, cos they canโ€™t read English ๐Ÿ˜‚ and they would not notice!

MrsB2019x · 27/01/2024 17:17

@Kate543 Thatโ€™s so interesting you were like that with your DD as mine was sooo similar! I felt really hungover for the first weeks then started throwing up weeks 10 - 17. I have a feeling itโ€™s going to be the same again this time ๐Ÿ˜ตโ€๐Ÿ’ซ

Cinai · 27/01/2024 17:32

Place markingโ€ฆIโ€™m 6 weeks today but I had a misscarriage in October and hesitant to get excited too early this time.

Kate543 · 27/01/2024 17:55

@HRP1990 i read the heartburn hair thing too! I didnโ€™t have any heartburn and my poor girl was basically bald until she was nearly 18 months ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

HRP1990 · 27/01/2024 18:09

@Xur yes lol there are so many myths lol.

@Kate543 it was true for you and your little girl then! ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ to be fair my girl has SO MUCH hair and wonโ€™t let me do a thing to it. It would be easier if she were bald lol

Xur · 27/01/2024 18:18

@HRP1990
have you seen the video with the two twin toddler girls that had to have their hair shaved off because they were pulling each others hair ? ๐Ÿ˜‚

ForeverHopeful67 · 27/01/2024 18:25

I also barely had any heartburn with my daughter and she had SO much hair!
I also felt pretty nauseous with her but was never sick, same as now really!

Wonder if those of this that have lost symptoms today will get them back tomorrow! Never thought I'd will feeling nauseous...

Well done @Fik88 for making the call!

HRP1990 · 27/01/2024 18:37

@Xur just watched it now haha toddlers are so naughty. Love that they still both try and have a go, despite having skin fades ๐Ÿ˜‚

Swift1602 · 27/01/2024 18:40

How long did it take everyone to get their first appointment through? Iโ€™m 5+2 - only found out Monday morning this week! Spoke to GP and self referred. Just want an appointment to make it feel real ๐Ÿ˜‚

VT6 · 27/01/2024 18:47

@Swift1602 Iโ€™ve got my 1st appointment on Monday i will be 7 +2weeks. I found out at 4 weeks and self referred then xx

rupertbear91 · 27/01/2024 18:57

@Swift1602 I self refered at 4 weeks and got my appointment though for my booking appointment and 12 week scan a week later

Ifyouknowyouknowyouknow · 27/01/2024 19:12

Helloโ€ฆjust joining the thread. Iโ€™m 5-6 weeks I thinkโ€ฆbased on my last period the due date is 24th Sept - anyone else?

Though this is baby 3 and with dc1 and 2 the due date was moved earlier by about a week at the first scan - I think I just grow big babies!

I havenโ€™t had any symptoms yet though itโ€™s still so early. Had no morning sickness with my son and loads with my daughter so the old wives tales were true for me. We are not going to find out the sex so I hope my symptoms donโ€™t give it away too much!

rupertbear91 · 27/01/2024 19:41

@Ifyouknowyouknowyouknow I'm due the same as you 24th September which was also my grans birthday so hoping my dates don't get adjusted ๐Ÿ’•

Anyone else already getting annoyed at how unfair it is their partner can just carry on as normal? He is the most supportive guy ever and makes me what ever I fancy to eat, sorts the dogs and the house work but he's out with friends this afternoon/this evening and all I managed was a few hours out before ending up back on the sofa feeling like death

HoneyandSunshine · 27/01/2024 20:10

rupertbear91 · 27/01/2024 12:29

Morning everyone. Feeling beyond exhausted here today but we told my parents this morning as they kept threatening to cancel their holiday as they could see I was unwell ๐Ÿ˜‚ they cried and they never cry at anything so are very excited. The dogs loved their bandanas. Just hoping next weeks scan shows everything is going ok ๐Ÿคž

๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜โค๏ธโค๏ธ๐Ÿ˜ญ amazing. So glad they had a lovely reaction to your news!!

I told my parents today (3rd pregnancy) and had to do it via FaceTime as they had my 2 children with them for a sleepover, and both of them know so I didnโ€™t want them to drop us in it by accidentโ€ฆ

My parents faces: ๐Ÿ˜ถ๐Ÿ˜ถ

Then a rather delayed โ€œcongratulations!โ€

Yay! I look forward to telling nobody else ever again ๐Ÿฅฒ๐Ÿฅฒ๐Ÿฅฒ๐Ÿ˜‚

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MudandMoet · 27/01/2024 20:40

Hiya everyone, just catching up as I've had a day up north meeting my new neice, 2 weeks old and soooo cute! Was so hard not mentioning anything in front of all the fam!

Another day of no symptoms for me at all. Have eaten soooo much food today it's unreal!

@HoneyandSunshine ah hope you're okay, did you feel a bit deflated by their reaction? Do you think it's just general shock for the delayed congrats?

@rupertbear91 how cute is your pooch in their bandana ?? ๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿฅฐ loved this.

I'm going to be truly honest and say I'm having a bit of worry at present girls, thinking all things practical if I do go full term. I can't believe we've wanted this baby for so long and now I'm panicking about support (or lack of) work and shit like that! Anyone else? ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿผ xx

rupertbear91 · 27/01/2024 20:47

@MudandMoet I think it's totally normal to have a panic. We have had this baby planned for over a year and been so desperate for it to happen but it's still a huge life changing event so I get waves of anxiety over the reality of it all too.
I just focus each day at a time at the minute hoping we get to full term ๐Ÿคž I will deal with the rest of the issues then ๐Ÿ˜‚

HRP1990 · 27/01/2024 20:55

@MudandMoet its natural to worry, having a baby literally changes your life! But you really do just make things work ๐Ÿซถ๐Ÿผ

I have the same worries too, but also feeling abit of guilt from cutting the 1-1 time with my daughter short. How will we adjust as a family of 4, what will their relationship be like, etc!

Weโ€™ve got this ๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿป

ForeverHopeful67 · 27/01/2024 21:18

I'm with you @MudandMoet I'm finding it super strange that I'm stressing more about going from 1-2 kids than I did having my first! The thought of trying to still be a good mum to my daughter whilst juggling a newborn and trying to function with life in general scares me ๐Ÿคฃ
But then I think of when they get to grow up and have a best friend for life and that makes all the hard times worth it!

MudandMoet · 27/01/2024 21:26

Thanks @rupertbear91 @ForeverHopeful67 I'm feeling a little sad that I feel like this but like you say it's such a massive life changing event, I'm actually a bit scared. Plenty of time to process it I guess and work out what will work best for us as parents.

@HRP1990 you're right - we have ๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿผ

๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿฅฐ

californiacooper · 27/01/2024 21:27

@MudandMoet I've had a huge panic today. Financial, work, practicalities, (this is first baby. I presume I'm going to need to sell my car and get something more practical, and we will need to make a nursery what stuff do we need, will our parents help with childcare so I can work. I'm sure it will all work itself out. But the excitement and nervousness is turning into worry.

Starlight11111 · 27/01/2024 22:01

Hi ladies, congratulations to everybody that posted their scan photos since I last messaged, they're just lovely!

It's comforting to read that our symptoms are all over the place for many of us. I really don't have many symptoms, besides extreme thirst, very sensitive nipples and pure exhaustion a couple times a week (which could be non-pregnancy!) and I'm just about starting to get used to even those symptoms coming and going.

To those feeling overwhelmed/scared.... me too! I think it's totally normal, but there's plenty of time to get a good plan in place throughout pregnancy. Xxxx

HoneyandSunshine · 27/01/2024 22:21

@MudandMoet I donโ€™t know tbh! They live nearby and are both self-employed and very hands-on with the kids and LOVE having them, so theyโ€™re a huge support to us, so I guess having a third means more โ€œfallsโ€ on them?? Not that we really ask for the help, they literally insist on helping out and eagerly want to spend time with them. Weโ€™re lucky to have such a great support network of both our families, even my own nan who is very active and comes to visit us once a month as she loves spending time with them, and we take them to her. So, Iโ€™m not sure.

I kind of got the impression people that were making the wrong decision? Like, disappointment. It felt a bit like an โ€œoh ๐Ÿ˜ฌโ€ + some shock.

I was enjoying keeping it to ourselves, kinda wish I had just done it for longer now. With their current support and love for our kids, I feel a bit sad about the response but they are entitled to it. I know weโ€™re not making the wrong decision, we donโ€™t have the biggest home or much money but, of course weโ€™ll make it work, and have a lot of love to give and Iโ€™m excited. Just feels like itโ€™s been pissed on a bit. Determined to prove everyone wrong and confirm that 3 is indeed a magic number. I donโ€™t want this baby to ever feel like an after thought so Iโ€™m only spouting positive energy and words โœจ ๐Ÿ’ซ

Sorry for the word vom ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ seems like I needed that.

Whatโ€™s troubling you the most right now? What are your current thoughts about everything? Do feel free to spill! โค๏ธ

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siobhanmt247 · 27/01/2024 22:21

Whenever I've been sick over the last few months I think I've strained so much that the vessels around my eyes and temple break and I get purple dots all over my face. I've been sick tonight and done the same so I'm really hoping this isn't bad morning sickness coming in or I'm going to look a mess

HoneyandSunshine · 27/01/2024 23:06

Sorry @MudandMoet re-reading that last part, by the โ€œspillโ€ I meant more as, feel free to offload and vent. It came across as though I wanted you to gossip which isnโ€™t what I meant. If you wanna chat, Iโ€™m all ears โœจ

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Fik88 · 27/01/2024 23:08

@ForeverHopeful67 Thanks, just got to wait for my booking appointment now ๐Ÿ˜ฌ Still haven't really had any symptoms today.
Not sure how or when we will break the news to family, not sure what their reactions will be either as I think they thought we were done having babies, we already have a girl 11 and a boy 8

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