@MudandMoet I donโt know tbh! They live nearby and are both self-employed and very hands-on with the kids and LOVE having them, so theyโre a huge support to us, so I guess having a third means more โfallsโ on them?? Not that we really ask for the help, they literally insist on helping out and eagerly want to spend time with them. Weโre lucky to have such a great support network of both our families, even my own nan who is very active and comes to visit us once a month as she loves spending time with them, and we take them to her. So, Iโm not sure.
I kind of got the impression people that were making the wrong decision? Like, disappointment. It felt a bit like an โoh ๐ฌโ + some shock.
I was enjoying keeping it to ourselves, kinda wish I had just done it for longer now. With their current support and love for our kids, I feel a bit sad about the response but they are entitled to it. I know weโre not making the wrong decision, we donโt have the biggest home or much money but, of course weโll make it work, and have a lot of love to give and Iโm excited. Just feels like itโs been pissed on a bit. Determined to prove everyone wrong and confirm that 3 is indeed a magic number. I donโt want this baby to ever feel like an after thought so Iโm only spouting positive energy and words โจ ๐ซ
Sorry for the word vom ๐๐ seems like I needed that.
Whatโs troubling you the most right now? What are your current thoughts about everything? Do feel free to spill! โค๏ธ