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Talk about every stage of pregnancy, from early symptoms to preparing for birth.

BFPs after IVF - navigating pregnancy - pt 2!

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xreadytoglow · 12/07/2022 14:19

@Bluehawaii29
@Overlyanxious
@bajanbump
@2mumlife
@Bryterlayter1
@Justawannabemam

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bajanbump · 07/11/2022 16:01

@Bluehawaii29 OMG she is beautiful! Congratulations! Can't believe she is here already! So so happy for you!

@Overlyanxious please keep us posted!

When discussing induction they said they would be giving me like a tampon? and then make me stay overnight in the hospital to add oxytocin a few hours later, and then if things don't start going they will do a c-section.

Overlyanxious · 07/11/2022 17:23

@bajanbump yes, it's like a flat tampon. I was originally told I would have to stay overnight but today they said I could go home. If nothing happens after 24 hours then I'll be given the gel which is stronger and I will have to stay in then. I think that gets monitored over 6 hours. I'm not sure what happens if the gel doesn't do anything.

bajanbump · 07/11/2022 18:40

@Overlyanxious got it! sending you a lot of energy!

xreadytoglow · 08/11/2022 12:42

Good luck @Overlyanxious !! I hope it all goes well.

40+3 today. Hopefully will be getting a sweep later 🤞🏼

Hope motherhood is treating you well @Bluehawaii29

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bajanbump · 08/11/2022 12:54

Induction has been scheduled for the 23rd! Girls are in the 47% and 78% (one seems to have eaten more than the other these past two weeks lol) and they weigh 4.7 lbs and 5.4lbs

They also said that if they came now they would most likely be okey so I might start using the birthing ball this weekend and increasing my walking, it would be ideal if they came naturally a few days earlier than the 23rd so I can skip the induction part.

Hope everyone is doing great!

Overlyanxious · 08/11/2022 20:34

Thanks @bajanbump and @xreadytoglow still not much to report. I went back into hospital at 1pm. Then everything took a while and got given the gel about 3.30pm. Have been told to walk up stairs and bounce on the ball. Hopefully will see a Dr tonight who will either say my waters can be broken because I'm dilated enough or will give me more of the gel. I've got a tiny bit of cramping but nothing is really happening. I think I've still got a long time here.

@bajanbump good idea to start doing stuff to help get the babies ready to come out.

Did you get your sweep @xreadytoglow?

xreadytoglow · 08/11/2022 21:06

I hope the second lot of gel works for you or you can have your waters broken! Must be frustrating having to wait in the hospital but at least you are hours or days away now from meeting your little one 🥰 @Overlyanxious

That's great about babies looking good @bajanbump must be really reassuring to hear. I hope things start naturally for you!

I got a bit of a smear .. My cervix is still quite high so she could only reach the front part of it but she gave it a good go (ouch 🥲)! I bled a bit afterward but I do have cervical erosion and normally bleed during smears, so not really reading much into that other than she was obviously in the right spot. She said she could feel his head pushing against her as she was doing it which is good but she couldn’t really say that what she did today would really do anything. I have potentially another one on Friday and definitely one next Tuesday, but I think they'll start pushing for me to book to be induced next Thursday if nothings happened by the end of this week. They only let you go 12 days over here.

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Bryterlayter1 · 08/11/2022 21:12

@Overlyanxious fingers crossed the gel starts to kick in. Come on baby time to make an appearance.

@xreadytoglow really hoping things start to happen for you soon. I find the waiting hard (even though I have a date).

Overlyanxious · 09/11/2022 02:02

Unfortunately on my second dose of the gel. Only just got seen by the Dr. He said he'll be back around 8/9am

xreadytoglow · 09/11/2022 12:54

Hope the second dose helps 🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼 @Overlyanxious

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Overlyanxious · 09/11/2022 18:23

Thank you @xreadytoglow so I've been contracting but no change at all with cervix so I'm having a c section tomorrow. Hopefully will be able to get in early tomorrow.

Bryterlayter1 · 09/11/2022 18:52

@Overlyanxious good luck for tomorrow, I've got mine booked for tomorrow too.

Overlyanxious · 09/11/2022 20:00

@Bryterlayter1 good luck to you too

bajanbump · 09/11/2022 20:18

@Overlyanxious @Bryterlayter1 good luck tomorrow!!

If I can ask, how long was your cervix @Overlyanxious

Gigi89x · 09/11/2022 20:35

@Bryterlayter1 @Overlyanxious good luck for tomorrow!!! Let us know how you get on!! x x✨✨

Overlyanxious · 09/11/2022 21:29

Thank you @bajanbump and @Gigi89x I'm not sure how long my cervix was - they did say it had shortened but was still closed. Although I have contractions they aren't strong enough to open it up

Bluehawaii29 · 09/11/2022 22:02

@Overlyanxious good luck with your c section tomorrow, I’m sure it will go fine and bubba will join you and be with you this time tomorrow x
when I had contractions on sat and they checked my cervix it was a finger tip dilated and then the c section happened that morning. Probably was easier for me to dilate having a short cervix to begin with but if there was no change it’s good they are going for c section now

Bluehawaii29 · 09/11/2022 22:04

@Bryterlayter1 good luck for your c section tomorrow too! My little one is now4 days old, crazy how time flies x

xreadytoglow · 09/11/2022 22:24

Good luck tomorrow @Overlyanxious @Bryterlayter1 !! I can't believe you get to meet your babies tomorrow 🤍
Try & sleep tonight (if you can!)

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Overlyanxious · 09/11/2022 23:35

Thanks @Bluehawaii29 and @xreadytoglow . I am struggling to sleep - but I think it's mainly due to being in hospital.

Wow - how has 4 days already gone by @Bluehawaii29 x

Bryterlayter1 · 10/11/2022 12:08

Baby boy (we only found out the sex today) arrived safe and sound. After all that worry that he would be huge due to the gestational diabetes, he was 8 lbs 7 oz, which is big ish but not massive.

Hope all went well with @Overlyanxious yoday.

Overlyanxious · 10/11/2022 14:38

Congratulations @Bryterlayter1. My baby boy was born at 11.19 and weighed 7lb6.

Bluehawaii29 · 10/11/2022 15:21

@Overlyanxious @Bryterlayter1 Congratulations guys!! 🎉🎉 I knew you’d be fine! So glad you’ve got your babies and good weights, mine was a bit smaller at 7 pounds but she’s doing very well xx

bajanbump · 10/11/2022 16:05

@Overlyanxious @Bryterlayter1 massive congratulations ladies!!

Enjoy these first days with your boys, what a blessing!

Gigi89x · 10/11/2022 21:34

Congratulations @Overlyanxious & @Bryterlayter1 on your baby boys!!!!

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