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PlodandPod · 21/05/2022 22:45

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In anticipation for thread 11 coming to an end.. Apologies to anyone I have missed out tagging, have tried to include everyone!

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Brightsmoke · 04/06/2022 08:44

@Vimto1991 I'm keeping hopeful for you that your cervix has started to respond 🤞🏻🤞🏻. It really is the pits waiting around like that, but so so worth it in the end! I'm expecting similar again if I end up going in for an induction again 😬

Vimto1991 · 04/06/2022 08:50

@Brightsmoke thank you!! I’ve got my fingers crossed you have a better experience than me and would be in and out!! After one baby inductions are apparently easier!

EarlGreywithLemon · 04/06/2022 09:23

@Octoblockisadick glad you didn’t lose too much blood and hope the baby passes his obs very quickly. It does sound like you made the right choice for you both there!

I lost 2.3l so mine had progressed a bit more, but they looked so in control and calm in theatre that I didn’t panic at all. And I felt like a new woman once I had my transfusion. Just to reassure people that even if it happens, they are very prepared to deal with it.

Whatcanmyusernamebe · 04/06/2022 09:55

So sorry to hear that you haven’t made progress yet @Vimto1991. it’s hard enough waiting for baby to arrive but must be extra frustrating when in hospital for induction. Really hope that today is the day and that when things do get going it all happens quickly and easily for you.

CurryandSnuggle · 04/06/2022 11:05

My labour is taking bloody ages and doesn’t seem to be progressing 😫 so frustrating. I’ve been for a walk, expressed, bounced on ball. Still no where near going to hospital. I’ve got a sweep booked at 12.15, tempted to go just to see how dilated I am and if a sweep will speed things up at this stage.

destiEos · 04/06/2022 11:15

Hey everyone, have been reading and trying to catch up with everything - so much has happened since I last posted! So many new babies - congratulations everyone 🥳💕🥰 and good luck to all of those who are nearly there 🍀🤞🏻🌟!

I've been on a few times to have a quick read but not managed to post anything and have now been home a week, I think?!

It's been a whirlwind despite all being planned here. Quick summary below in case it's useful for anyone else though:

Went into hospital for bloods and covid test on Monday and spoke to a very lovely doctor who put my mind at rest about a few things (short femur and amniocentesis concerns, 38 week delivery and steroids, he reassured me that everything was as it should be and they weren't worried, so I felt I didn't need to be either) Then the hospital called an hour later saying blood had coagulated in tubes so I needed to go straight back 😕 luckily I didn't have to wait too long to be re-bled..
I lost my plug later on (much googling of pictures of that, which I do not recommend on a full stomach 😂) on the Monday and spent the whole rest of the day and the next one worrying he'd come early but nothing else happened - phew! Got the call on Tuesday to go in for c-section 7:30am Wednesday - first op of the day, was super nervous 🥺

Wednesday morning we headed in to hospital and we were there before the staff - we're usually late for everything so we aimed for 7am and got there about 10 past... everyone was just lovely. The lovely young women, not sure if they were midwives or nurses, helped me put my sexy compression socks on; the anaesthetist came by around 3 times to let me know what they were going to be doing... He kept coming back to add things he'd forgotten to mention 😆 The doc came by as well, I think... I needed to have a nervous poo and was then terrified that things might not be great in the region as (TMI warning!) wiping without wet wipes at 38 weeks is not a perfect technique. Anyway, they put DH in scrubs, me in my open-backed nightie and off we went. I was shitting myself.. metaphorically this time.

The theatre was scary, busy and very clean and spacious and everyone was perky and friendly and I was still terrified 😬 The bending over for the epidural was tricky, but everyone kept telling me how well I was doing, so I carried on - turns out I have a bony spine or something, it took over half an hour to administer the epidural. Luckily it didn't hurt or anything, just took a long time and the thing I was most worried about was a needle in my spine, so careful what you focus on guys 😉

The rest of it went pretty fast, the whole op room less than 15 minutes and all I really remember is being very shivery - which they said was totally normal - some get it more than others, and then the little dude came out and cried within seconds, just like in the movies 🤣 they dropped the curtain so I could see him for a few seconds and he was a bit gunky but when they put him on me I cried a bit and couldn't take my eyes off his tiny little face 🥰. Then they took him away for weighing and stuff and the docs got on with stitching me up and I was sort of on my own for a bit, but I could hear everyone chatting around me and it was a bit surreal.

Nappy change break

Prema112 · 04/06/2022 11:47

@CurryandSnuggle I'm doing exactly the same as you and mines not progressing either!! Gone from painful braxton hicks tightenings last night to less painful ones today, about 10 mins apart. So frustrating isn't it! And I'm sure like me you feel the clock ticking to your son coming back, my mums got him at the moment but he's coming back tonight! I would definitely take the sweep if I were you, I'm going to ask for one tmw when I go for my monitoring

Prema112 · 04/06/2022 11:51

@destiEos So lovely to hear your story, thanks for sharing. Sounds like an intense amazing experience!

Prema112 · 04/06/2022 11:53

@Vimto1991 So sorry to hear your labour isn't progressing either, you're doing amazingly it's been so long for you now ❤️ Keep going, you will meet your baby soon! Glad to hear you got some sleep, is DH allowed to be with you all day?

destiEos · 04/06/2022 12:10

nappy changed, baby still a bit grumbly though

After being wheeled to post delivery room he seemed ok but a bit grunty. Midwife helped with latching and everything seemed fine. Pediatrician visited and said grunting could be a sign of breathing problems, and as he was early baby they wanted to monitor. We stayed there for about 4 hours and he improved but they took blood for tests for infection just in case.

We were wheeled down to private room (it was expensive but I really wanted DH to stay with me, so worth it). The next 2 days are a bit of a memory black hole for me - sleeping and eating and painkillers. I remember vomiting a couple times (once in the post-delivery room in fact) - just water mostly and I'm assuming from the painkillers. I didn't leave the room and hospital people were coming by every couple of hours for checks - me and him, breastfeeding and formula feeding, pediatrician, more blood tests...I remember the cannula in my wrist being very uncomfortable and they left baby's in a day longer than mine, which broke my heart 💔 and not pooing for a day, then some insane diarrhea for 3 or 4 days - weird as the pain meds should have made me constipated apparently.. I got upset when they came in to take blood from his tiny ankle again on day 2 😕 but finally got the all clear for infection for the little one on the Friday afternoon (don't quote me on that, I have lost all sense of days and time!) and off we went home!

I think that's everything - I lost 400ml of blood apparently, which is not much. I was sent home with painkillers which I'm still taking, although I'm down to just Ibuprofen and paracetamol now. Also told to wear compression socks for 10 days and have to self-administer injections to prevent blood clots for 14 days - DH is on that though, I've delegated that chore.

Home was great to start with as bub has been on formula while milk comes in - took full 5 days, now is combi feeding and nipples are ouchy already 😣 but I won't give up! He is less regular now he's boob feeding too, he went from 4 poos a day to none for one and a half days!! We panicked and then he pood half his body weight in one fell swoop! We were very proud 😬

What else? Grandparents (my parents) are in love with him and have been great. We've video called with DHs parents and other family as they're not in country. I have realized why you don't want people visiting in the first few weeks (family aside) and have told people to wait. We're very much bonding and getting used to things still and want to really enjoy this time together. I wasn't really expecting that.

C-section scar/recovery - take it easy! Every time I overdo it (nothing strenuous, just putting on a laundry or something) I pay for it by having to spend a day doing nothing, so yeah... Don't push it and use the DH, even if he complains. Yes, I have shouted "I've just had major surgery ffs!" at him a few times already 🤣. He's doing great though, really.

destiEos · 04/06/2022 12:16

@Prema112 thanks, hopefully it's not too boring, but it might help others to know what all to expect and I'm forgetting so much already. Hope you're doing well, having read all the labour stories I have to admit I do not have the bollocks that you ladies do. The planned c-section was as much as I could handle! Good luck and I'm happily waiting for all the (May)/June mums to join the club soon 💕

Vimto1991 · 04/06/2022 13:55

@Prema112 thank you! DH is allowed to visit between 10am and 9pm although they’ve let him stay until past 10pm both days so far.

I had a lovely midwife come to talk to me about next steps, and I asked if she could do a sweep as yesterday it made me lose my mucus plug and felt like it got things going. She happily agreed and said after the sweep I was 3cm with a thin cervix, so now I’m on the waiting list for a bed on the delivery suite!! 🥳

CurryandSnuggle · 04/06/2022 14:33

Will catch up properly on thread when I can but @Prema112 how you getting on?

@Vimto1991 yay for 3cm!! 🤩

I went for sweep at 12, my waters broke as soon as I got in the midwife bed 😂 she said I was 4cm dilated! But my contractions stopped so she suggested that DH & I went for walk which we did, contractions ranked up to 3 in 10 mins, had lunch, we’ve headed to hospital but due to faff trying to get parked contractions have stopped again 🤦‍♀️ I’m now waiting for DH as he’s had to park elsewheee. I reckon if I relax they’ll start again. It’s just so frustrating. Tried to get parked for half hour to no avail, then I got lost trying to find maternity asssessmebt unit. Gave up and waiting for him outside lol.

Vimto1991 · 04/06/2022 14:36

@CurryandSnuggle good luck!! Mine have gone to every 8 minutes rather than every 2 but are very intense as baby wriggled back to back 😭 hopefully you can get some oxytocin in you to get those contractions going again! We may have babies today!!

Prema112 · 04/06/2022 15:30

@CurryandSnuggle Amazing!! You'll definitely give birth soon now waters have gone! Hope you get into a nice room quick and get the oxytocin going, and 4cm is awesome!

@Vimto1991 Yay for 3cm!! So good you get a bed soon, I hope you have your baby today!

Not much different here, had a nap, still getting the regular tightenings but they're not really painful. Hoping they ramp up this evening as hormone levels increase

Starbeach · 04/06/2022 15:41

Anyone else exhausted I've been awake for all of an hour today I'm sure

Vimto1991 · 04/06/2022 16:28

@Whatcanmyusernamebe thank you! I’m on a long list to wait for the delivery suite where they will break my waters, so could be today, or tomorrow, but I am really hoping that will be it, home by Monday fingers crossed!

MrsNT · 04/06/2022 16:47

Congrats @destiEos

Ladies what is mucus plug supposed to look like.im so confused from pics on google
Sorry for tmi but is it snot like ??

Vimto1991 · 04/06/2022 17:25

@MrsNT mine was like phlegm, so a translucent yellow colour mucus.

today I’m having a bloody show which looks like period clots, midwife says this is normal but I’ve had it all afternoon, thought it’d be out in one big go. TMI but I leaned to the side on the loo and a part of it plopped out.

PlodandPod · 04/06/2022 17:41

MrsNT · 04/06/2022 16:47

Congrats @destiEos

Ladies what is mucus plug supposed to look like.im so confused from pics on google
Sorry for tmi but is it snot like ??

That's what mine has been like, on/off over the past week

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MrsNT · 04/06/2022 18:50

@PlodandPod i noticed mine yesterday for the 1st time..tmi warning but like very bad yellow phlegm🤢 ill be 38 weeks tomorrow so lets see . Not seen anything since

annie1994 · 04/06/2022 18:53

@MrsNT it’s like a big blob of snot or phlegm. Can be browny/ pinkish from
blood. Some women lose it in one blob whereas other women lose it in bits. It’s pretty grim but a sign your cervix is starting to do what it should be!

beansprout55 · 04/06/2022 19:17

It's such an unreliable sign when it comes out in bits! Mine started coming out at 33 weeks, a giant glob of gelatine, quite clear and held together, about the size of a 50p! I'm 37 weeks tomorrow and had a similar albeit slightly smaller glob a few days ago after straining on the loo for a while 🙄
It reforms as it goes when it comes out in bits like that doesn't it - so unless it comes out covered in blood I won't take that as a sign!xx

CurryandSnuggle · 04/06/2022 19:44

@Prema112 Sadly I was still 4cm at 6.30pm since 12, so have opted for the drip to get things going some more hopefully🤞 Waiting for doctor now

Starbeach · 04/06/2022 20:05

Good luck to those having their babies right now and congrats to those who've had theirs xx

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