So I'm supposed to be 10 weeks today, but I'd been having some brown discharge all week and my (admittedly quite minor) symptoms seemed like they were disappearing, so thought I'd book a private scan for some reassurance.
Unfortunately they couldn't locate anything, just an empty sac, I think, and have diagnosed it as 'Pregnancy of Unknown Location'.
From what I can tell this either means it's too early (under 6 weeks) which in my case is impossible because my positive pregnancy tests were 7 weeks ago, a miscarriage, or an ectopic pregnancy.
They're referring me to the hospital for more tests to try and figure out which.
Aside from the brown discharge I've not had any miscarriage symptoms, no pain or bleeding or anything.
So it's been quite a shock to get this news, we're both feeling so deflated as all our plans for this year are now kind of up in the air and in limbo again, and we've had enough bad news this year that it's going to be awful to have to give more bad news to our parents as we'd told them about the pregnancy already. 😞