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Minster's side car bumping along- TTC graduates part 2

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Justanothercyster · 10/05/2021 18:44

Here we go ladies, hope to see more OGs soon πŸ€žπŸΌπŸ‘ΆπŸ½πŸŒˆβœ¨πŸ’•πŸ₯°

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becarefuloutthere · 25/08/2021 10:06

@lucyrp she's so gorgeous! Glad you got the birth you wanted too, that's so wonderful! So happy for you both xx
@Kirky658 glad things are looking up for Alice now too, hope she continues to progress x
@Kate105 good luck for the next appointment! I'm measuring big too so will need growth scans in the last trimester and have to do a GTT due to my ethnicity being a risk factor!

Gem176 · 25/08/2021 10:46

@lucyrp I'm just so pleased for you, enjoy having a pink bundle, they are absolutely delicious!! Even if, as is the case with me, they only stay "girly" for the first year then go feral πŸ˜‚ hard to believe that our babies are only going to be a week apart!! My hormones are all over the place and I'm actually getting really emotional because I can remember congratulating you on your BFP and now she's actually here πŸ₯²

@Kate105 don't quote me but I think fundal height can be affected by babies position so an out of line massive jump may just have been how they were lying that particular time?

@2020mission @Justanothercyster I'm 36 weeks now and while my belly button hasn't popped to an outie yet (I had an op on it years ago and it was stitched so I'm not sure it can ever become an outie) I have both holes of my piercing now above my belly button. It looks really odd 🀣
On the pram front I was going to say Nuna mixx or an uppababy. I loved both when looking online and got to see both in store. We went with the uppababy vista v2 but there is a Cruz that's slightly smaller and probably more suited to town/city life. OH loves gadgety things and the uppababy won purely because it had some features the nuna didn't that he liked and he felt it was more sturdy and with living rural it made sense. It's almost a mile to the road for DDs school bus each morning if I can't drive for the full six weeks after my section and even if I can drive I'll probably walk it just to get baby off for a nap/out for fresh air.... the road isn't exactly pavement smooth πŸ™ˆ

Having a wee freak out today because it's only 6 days until my section, can't get my head around that the wriggles in my stomach are an actual fully formed baby. That she has finger nails and hair and is an actual baby!

Decided against the steroids as there are risks to them because I have type 1, consultant fully supports this decision as they only know that steroids benefit healthy pregnant women by decreasing the risk of transient tachypnoea of the newborn from 6% to 2% but they haven't done any studies on the increased risk of newborn hypoglycaemia for mums who have diabetes and take the steroids. At 37 weeks the steroids would eliminate any mild, temporary breathing issues but anything serious or long term is still going to be there with or without steroids. Without diabetes it would have been a no brainer to take them as there isn't any risk but a fairly decent positive. Sadly for me the positives don't outweigh the negatives of these as newborn hypoglycaemia is really rough and requires scbu care, sometimes for weeks and can exacerbate jaundice and cause them to struggle with temperature regulation. Sorry for waffling there πŸ™ˆ this has just caused me so much stress over the last few weeks!!

Justanothercyster · 25/08/2021 12:57

@lucyrp haha well if you're nub theory was right hopefully mine will be and we'll be seeing a girl soon!

@Gem176 makes a good point, the MW did say my baby was breach which can make it measure a lot bigger @Kate105

@Gem176 ahhh 6 days! It will be so exciting for you to meet bubba!!

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Gem176 · 25/08/2021 13:26

@Justanothercyster I have a breech baby and while I've never actually had a fundal height measured, knew I'd be having growth scans anyway so no point, my bump is quite big considering the growth scans show baby is on 10th centile with normal fluid etc. So I'd guess position off baby has a lot to do with it.
Exciting but just feel I have so much to do over the next few days and just can't seem to find the energy to do any of it. Childcare and doggycare are sorted so that's the main things. This weekend is going to be getting everything ready for DD for school etc and setting up the car seat and trying to fit in doing something nice as a 3 before baby arrives πŸ˜…

2020mission · 25/08/2021 14:13

Reminder ladies, nub theory was absolutely wrong for me πŸ˜… so don't put too much hope in it!

Justanothercyster · 25/08/2021 14:30

@Gem176 good luck with it all! Try and get some rest in too if you can πŸ˜…

Haha @2020mission true. Out of curiosity, do you have a pic of your 12 week scan?

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Thinkingandblinking · 25/08/2021 14:40

Congrats @lucyrp glad all went well and she is gorgeous xx

Katiekattty · 25/08/2021 14:45

Hi all, I thought I would join properly. I’ve kinda been MIA and silent reading since I caught covid. Feeling much less like the walking dead so rejoining the world slowly.

lucyrp · 25/08/2021 15:06

@Kate105 yeah I had no symptoms either other than the fundal measurements but they sent me for a GTT and it was all negative and I just had to have a few growth scans after to check everything was all good. I don't know if I said on here but I was really anxious about having a huge baby from the scans as they told me she was 6lb 15oz at 36 weeks but she was only 8lb 4oz when born at 41 weeks so don't be too worried if you get that far x

@becarefuloutthere yeah I'm so glad it happened the way it did. Thank you xx

@Gem176 omg so exciting ! Can't wait for yours to arrive. I know its mad isn't it ! 😳😳 and a girl at that! X

@Justanothercyster my friends was right too so fingers crossed!

@Thinkingandblinking thank you xx

How are you all getting on ? Xx

2020mission · 25/08/2021 15:12

@Justanothercyster attached it below. We are 100% it's a boy too as she showed us a close up of his bits on screen at the 20 week one so there's no doubt! I wonder if your Nuna pram is similar to the Nuna Triv. I'll check it out. I had a look at the Triv at John Lewis last week and quite liked it as it didn't have the bulky rear wheels for all terrain like a lot of prams have and it folded freestanding with the seat attached. I don't want to go too light and end up with something flimsy through πŸ˜…

Minster's side car bumping along- TTC graduates part 2
2020mission · 25/08/2021 15:45

@lucyrp I'm doing all right other than suffering a compressed nerve in my upper right thigh from the growing belly. Switches between sharp pain and pins and needles throughout the day. Otherwise fine though! More importantly how are you getting on? I'm glad your birth went well and was quick, even if you did have to wait a couple of weeks longer than before.

I've been watching a 5 on demand maternity show lately and scaring myself with the amount of awful tears women on it have been getting in labour 🀣 like I realised you could tear at the perineum but had no idea it can impact the clitoris/pee hole area! I need to try and just forget about it now.

Hope little Evelyn is settling in well.

DJmum83 · 25/08/2021 18:42

Hi all
So my last growth scan was 28 weeks baby should have been just over 2pounds she was measuring 3 pounds 11. Have another growth scan on Monday and by looks of me I'm in for another whopper of a baby. I think she will be bigger than my last he was 9 pounds 5 born at 38 weeks bang on.
My consultant wanted me booked in for my section at 37 + so they tried to book it for me but that week is totally full. I'm gutted as that would have been perfect week as schools still in and after school club they got me booked in Monday 11th October first thing. Kids are on school holidays so need to sort childcare for 3 kids for 2 days πŸ™ˆ anyways I'm glad to have my date and obviously if my waters break or my blood pressure goes up they will take me in as an emergency.
I'm getting the steroids the Thursday/ Friday before my section not looking forward to that.

@Kirky658 amazing news so pleased and have fingers crossed for Alice coming home at weekend.

@lucyrp I'm pretty sure I said girl fir you at the start. Nub theory was correct for all 4 of mine.

Hope your getting some rest.

Is anybody else struggling with restless legs I honestly haven't slept in weeks xx

2020mission · 25/08/2021 19:42

@DJmum83 I get restless legs some evenings and have to get up and walk around but hasn't bothered me too much yet thankfully. I'm struggling with the compressed nerve in my upper right leg though, I think it's meralgia paresthetica. Not bad enough for pain killers yet just have to not walk for too long, not sit too long and not stand too long.

Kirky658 · 25/08/2021 19:57

Haven't had a good day today. Alice has put weight on, amazing, but we've just been told they want to see more gain on Friday before they will let her home. Living in this family unit is getting me down now as we can't get away for a bit just as a couple for a bit as one of us has to be with Alice 24/7. It's breaking my heart being in here and to be honest I'm really not doing OK. I feel traumatised about what we've been through over the last 2 and a bit weeks and just feel like no one is considering my feelings, I've lived in a hospital basically for 14 days now and have had about as much as I can take 😭

DJmum83 · 25/08/2021 20:34

@Kirky658 sorry your not having a good day.
Can you ask for some counselling?
Really hope Alice puts more weight on abs you get home.
Must be so hard I know how I feel after 3/4 days in hospital I just want home.
Please ask for help don't let yourself get down too much.
Sending big hugs.

@2020mission I have heard bananas are good for restless legs so im trying that before bed.
Sounds painful and annoying hope it eases up for you xx

Justanothercyster · 25/08/2021 21:48

@2020mission haha I would actually have guessed boy based on nub from that! It's funny, when I had my 12 week scan I said "girl" to the sonographer, and she was like "you've been doing your research". I keep wondering if she guessed girl too πŸ˜‚

@DJmum83 that's good you have a date! Fingers crossed all goes well.
Restless legs are the bane of my life 😭

@Kirky658 They definitely need to offer you some talking therapy as it is incredibly traumatic what you've been through! I'm glad Alice is gaining though, I really hope you can all get home soon x

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2020mission · 25/08/2021 21:50

@Justanothercyster you said 100% girl to me when I posed it before though πŸ˜‚ what makes you say that now? Morning is Angeles above 30 degrees that I can see

Justanothercyster · 25/08/2021 21:50

Btw were nearing the end of this thread so here's the next I've just made:

Minsters side car bumping along- ttc thread graduates 3 www.mumsnet.com/Talk/pregnancy/4332634-minsters-side-car-bumping-along-ttc-thread-graduates-3

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2020mission · 25/08/2021 21:51

Nothing is angled* sorry autocorrect is taking over tonight.

Justanothercyster · 25/08/2021 21:51

@2020mission I have no idea! It looks a bit more sticky outie to me now having a second look πŸ˜‚

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2020mission · 25/08/2021 21:53

I was bang on 12 weeks at the scan maybe it was just a bit too early and the nub was on the way up πŸ˜† thanks for setting a new thread up for us πŸ‘

@Kirky658 I really feel for you it sounds horrible being stuck at hospital for so long. Try and focus on this weekend which is getting so close and hopefully it will all be over come then 🀞

Justanothercyster · 25/08/2021 22:00

@2020mission load of rubbish really isn't it haha. I bet you're excited to know what you're having though! I'm getting impatient now 😐

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2020mission · 25/08/2021 22:09

@Justanothercyster It will be worth the wait! We're really struggling to agree on a boy name but otherwise we're enjoying thinking of baby as our son now. I was quite surprised when my husband admitted he was keen for our first would be a girl. He heard girl babies are typically better sleepers etc and he said he wanted a mini me and for me to have a daughter. I had no idea he was feeling that way but I think he'll love having a little boy. If I'm ever lucky enough to have another pregnancy I don't think I'll look for the nub or anything and might keep it a surprise like you for a change πŸ˜… have you got a new picked for boy and girl?

2020mission · 25/08/2021 22:10

A name picked even... honestly I'm not drunk πŸ˜… also I'll try and move to the new thread now before I forget

Justanothercyster · 26/08/2021 08:59

Last post wooooooo

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