Sorry ladies been a while.
Didn’t even see a nurse til 12, appointment 11am, then she said I shouldn’t have been told to come in today it should have been 2 weeks and they might not scan me but they did, I think it was only when I burst into tears.
not good news, she said “I need to write down POSSIBLE failed pregnancy but it’s unlikely to be otherwise basically.
Still only a Gestational sac nothing inside
Growth from 7.6mm to 11mm so gone from around 5 weeks to 5.2, so suboptimal growth should be 1mm per day (it’s been 10 days)
So everything she said was basically expect a failed pregnancy
Back next weds where they can be definitive from the first one to then under their guidelines, she said she’d maybe seen 2/3 ladies in her 6 years that have gone on to have a viable pregnancy.
Its basically a no go but she said “because it’s not done in line with the guidelines (14 days) and there is some growth albeit not much we have to be sure” which I want too but everything she was saying was not to expect miracles.
Devastated. Both of us, empty (well my uterus is likely more empty than his)
I've pasted this across both threads, the other as well, apologies