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Talk about every stage of pregnancy, from early symptoms to preparing for birth.

Due December 2021 thread!

999 replies

Tabbycat92 · 20/03/2021 15:06

I'm probably one of the first to find out, as there are no other chats! Based off of last period I'm due December 2nd! Got my first positive early at 9dpo.
Anyone else with me yet???

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lucea87 · 05/04/2021 11:05

Forgot to say @TreeRoad my cb digi's were:
1-2 24th March (14dpo) (exactly 4 weeks)
2-3 30th March (4+6)
3+ 2nd April (5+2)

I was too scared to do them earlier but like you I'm pretty sure of my dates!xx

TreeRoad · 05/04/2021 11:27

Thanks!

I got a 2-3 on CB on the 14th day after IUI was done (same sex couple, we had treatment to get pregnant), so I'm taking that as a positive.

My wife is convinced it's twins, hence the high hcg level early onHmm.

Shazza86 · 05/04/2021 11:48

@Ell92 I think I'm going to get an early scan too. Like you I found out on Tuesday and it's been a whirlwind since. Finally starting to feel a little more normal and to keep the anxiety at bay. No symptoms for me except fuller breasts. I purchased some pregnancy affirmation cards yesterday to try and keep my mind positive x

Shazza86 · 05/04/2021 12:01

Congratulations to everyone btw. How exciting for us all!

Horehound · 05/04/2021 12:16

I know it's early but is anyone thinking if names? I love Christmas so if I have a Dec baby I'm so keen for Xmas theme! I'm trying to convince my husband of Holly if we have a girl. No idea for a bit but maybe Benjamin although husband not keen as he has lots of friends called Ben

BrodieKD · 05/04/2021 12:35

@Horehound haha me and my h2b have just been on a walk and couldn't agree on any name for a boy. We both always really liked Robbie for a boy but I stupidly put it in the group chat when my auntie was looking for puppy names and that's what she picked 😂 I really like holly for a girl too and we also like Gemma . My oh is convinced we are having a boy though - his sister has 2 girls so I think he just wants to produce a grandson for his parents. Any boy name suggestions are most welcome :)

TreeRoad · 05/04/2021 12:40

If you have the Pregnancy+ app there's a baby name section on there. You can mark the ones you like then remove/add as you change your mind.

We haven't really thought that far ahead but we have a few in mind. Luckily we have a surname that goes with most things.

Are you all going to find out the sex when you can?

Horehound · 05/04/2021 12:42

Yes I'll deffo find out sex. I didn't want to last time but DH was keen and it was obvious at the scan lol
I felt it really helped me to bond to my boy.

I like Robbie,i think you should still have that on your list regardless of the dogs name!!

Ell92 · 05/04/2021 12:49

@Shazza86 that’s such a good idea I hadn’t thought to do that. Did you get them off Amazon?

Whatshouldicallme · 05/04/2021 12:52

@TreeRoad I am the same! Keep testing just to make sure I still get a dark line, and planning to take a digital next week to confirm 3+ weeks. At this early stage I feel like it's the only reassurance that we have that so far things are "normal."

Shazza86 · 05/04/2021 12:56

@Horehound I have always wanted the name Elizabeth if I have a girl. Boy wise we haven't thought of any yet. I think we will discuss it after the 12 week scan. I love Holly, what a beautiful name.

@Ell92 I bought them from Etsy, I did see some on Amazon though.

Has anyone started a baby journal at all? If so, what kind of things are you writing in there? 🙂

Horehound · 05/04/2021 13:17

Anyone else getting stabby boob pain?!

Horehound · 05/04/2021 13:18

Elizabeth is a lovely name too @Shazza86!

LunaL0veg00d · 05/04/2021 14:22

I'm glad I'm not the only one keeping up the testing! I was so relieved to get 2-3 on CB digital a couple of days ago. When I get the 3+ I'll start to believe it! Just done another standard CB and the lines are super strong now. I can't believe it's only been a week since I found out, it feels like FOREVER. I feel much more anxious than I did first time round too, oddly.

We already have a boys name which would be a family name, no idea for a girl though! DD has an unusual name.

DH and I have hardly spoken about this pregnancy, it's really strange how life is just rolling on as normal. I think we're on tenterhooks.

TreeRoad · 05/04/2021 14:32

Okay so I cracked and went to get some CB digitals. I'm dying to do it so I can see 3+ but also worried I'll see 2-3 again and worry somethings wrong. Confused

Diddy28 · 05/04/2021 18:55

Got my 1-2 weeks on clear blue on Sunday morning! I was so shocked as this was the month we decided to not track/ follow ovulation etc!!! So excited but worried after a chemical in Feb. Really trying to remain positive and relaxed but it's tricky Confused

Horehound · 05/04/2021 21:58

@TreeRoad I just did mine in the evening. I don't think you need to wait for first morning urine when you're a but further along.

Horehound · 05/04/2021 21:58

@Diddy28 yeh it's hard. I also had a chemical in Feb
Just got to keep positive

TreeRoad · 05/04/2021 22:05

@Horehound Yeah, I did one tonight too. Still saying 2-3 weeks but I don't officially hit 3 weeks post-conception til tomorrow so I'm not overly worried.

Would've been nice to see the 3+ but I've read some people don't get them until a bit later.
Counting down the days until my scan. Seems like so long away. I just want to see the little heart beating so I know all is ok.

chloed121 · 05/04/2021 22:13

Booked an early scan for the 28th April, I will be 8+2 weeks. No way I could wait 12 weeks !Confused
Countdown begins ! X

wannabemum38 · 05/04/2021 22:29

Did another test today super strong lines. Might do a cb digital at end of week hope it comes up as 3+
I lost my Nan in feb so my middle name regardless of boy or girl is going to be a version of her name. Otherwise a few ideas but I dont want to think too far ahead until 12 weeks. Also only known for a week feels like a month!

Mummyto293 · 05/04/2021 22:40

Hi guys, I’m new here too. Got a bfp today 12dpo. I wouldn’t have tested until after I had missed af but the last 2 days I have felt so nauseous and fatigued. This will be my fourth pregnancy 1 early mc and 2 children. I don’t remember feeling this wiped out or sick as early with my other pregnancies!

Sparkles512 · 06/04/2021 07:49

Hi just want to ask a few questions as I'm completely clueless this is our first pregnancy think I am 4+4.

Do I need to contact my GP to let them know I'm pregnant?

How do I go about making appointments for scans etc?
Those of you having a scan at 8 weeks is this a private scan? I thought the scans were at 12 and 20 weeks?

Sorry for the silly questions and thank you for any advice !

TheDamnFoolThatShotHim · 06/04/2021 08:09

Congrats @sparkles512 Smile how exciting!

To help answer a few Q's:

Yes, you'll need to let your GP/midwife know you're pregnant. How you do this varies from area to area though - in some areas you call your GP and in others you can get straight in contact with the midwife or use an online form. Probably easiest to call your GP if you're not sure though.
It doesn't necessarily need to be done straight away so you can wait a little while to call if you want, or you can call now and they will probably put you in the system.

Your first appointment will be your booking appointment with the midwife. It's normally at around 8-10 weeks and is essentially a paperwork exercise, filling in your notes with medical history etc.

The midwife will then sort out booking your scan and you'll get a letter with your 12 week scan date.

If you'd like a scan before then you can book a private 'reassurance scan.' This can be done either at a private clinic (the types of places who do 4D scans etc) or quite often you can book and pay to have a private scan at your local hospital, usually in the ultrasound department.

It's possible to have an early scan from 6 weeks, but generally advised to wait until at least 8 weeks. 6 weeks is sometimes too early to see things properly and can cause more worry than reassurance.

Taenia · 06/04/2021 08:56

I thought I'd come and join the bus.. I've been lurking for a few months since my husband and I decided to TTC in February.

Fully expecting it to take a while as I had seen from other posts and I have Rheumatoid Arthritis and am overweight.. I was totally floored Thursday morning to find a positive test on a home pregnancy test.. I was convienced it would be negative..

Back of background, I was a week late for my period on the 27 March took a test and it was negative so didn't think much of it and thought AF would show up late.. its rare for me but it does happen.

..cue a meltdown in sainsburys 4 days later over not finding a jar of jam I brought another test and did it Thursday morning. Didn't show up right away and was prepared for negative result... only 1 min later it was showing a faint positive that got slightly darker within the time it took me to do downstairs and talk to my husband..

...April fools day is not a good day to tell people you are pregnant I learned. (Not that I am the type of person to joke about these things and deep down my friend and husband knew that but were as equally shocked)

...anyway. I'm 34 (35 in October) this is my first pregnancy (having spent most of my life firmly against the idea of wanting children and then gradually changing my mind over the past two years). Been with my husband now for 12 years (today infact!) Last period puts me at about 6 weeks roughly.... totally terrified! But also slightly excited.

Nice to meet you all!