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June 2021 - part 4!

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swiftt · 18/01/2021 20:45

We filled up the other thread already!

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AlRRRR · 30/01/2021 12:11

@BlondePotter ohhhhhhh okay, hope it settles down for you!

Fishingforhappiness · 30/01/2021 17:06

Thanks all... my DH thinks i should walk around the house topless to get more comfortable Hmm he thinks i was born yesterday. Has anyone started looking at baby monitora? I want one not connected to my phone, is a video and widescree-ish ( im blind as a bat) . Any recommendations?

Sitchervice · 30/01/2021 17:40

Currently playing a game called. Is that my baby I feel or is it just gas. 🤣

lucieloos · 30/01/2021 17:43

@Fishingforhappiness we've had a Motorola one for a few years now and found it really good. You can also add extra cameras to it if you have more babies. I can't remember the exact one we have but it's similar to the MBP35.

AlRRRR · 30/01/2021 18:18

I didn’t use a baby monitor as baby was with me for 9 months and then when in own room, we just left doors open and she was right next door, we didn’t even have a cot, just had a floor bed ready for her (with stair gate on stairs) :)

lucieloos · 30/01/2021 19:43

We still use the monitor now at 2 and 3 years old. We still find it handy to have on when downstairs watching tv incase one of them wakes and we don't quite hear them or they are handy to just have a quick check on them without having to go into their room. We also still use it for our youngest at night as he can be prone to waking once or twice and even though he's just opposite our room sometimes if we're really tired we might not hear him straight away.

When they were little even though they slept in our room with us at night from about 3 months old we used to put them upstairs for a couple of hours before we went up as they slept better without the noise and light of the living room so monitor was very handy then.

Opticabbage · 30/01/2021 19:52

@lucieloos I don't mean the Braun therms aren't accurate, I'm sure they are! Just, I think we paid about £70 for ours as, working in healthcare, we were used to them for work.. but if you look at NHS guidance, bog standard (cheap) armpit ones are recommended instead.

Lovethatjourneyforme · 30/01/2021 20:47

Evening all, just for anyone interested in classes we did one this morning through The Baby Academy. It was totally free, 2 hours on baby care - like bathing, clothing, skin care etc. Very basic but good if you're an FTM like me! I think they do a free one on breastfeeding as well which I'm going to do.

Just handy if your trust isn't running much at the mo 😊

curiouscat1987 · 31/01/2021 12:28

[quote BlondePotter]@airrrr pregnancy thing, my right nipple had been itchy for about 4 weeks, flaky and then if I scratch it too much I get crusty bits 🙈 I believe it's just where it's growing and stretching, it's bigger than my left now so I wonder whether my left will catch up 🤣[/quote]
I've been having a similar issue - my skin is always dry anyway but my nips have been super flaky :( have been slathering the same stuff im using on my stomach on them too but little difference so far. About to start using a shower oil rather than gel so maybe it'll help?

curiouscat1987 · 31/01/2021 12:34

Have any of you guys with pelvic pain started using a pelvic support belt or tens machine?

Ive had two consultants this week tell me i need to start taking 2x paracetamol 4 times daily from now until birth and i just feel really uncomfortable with that (partly as im already taking so many tablets but also long term painkillers generally concern me anyway).

Am researching alternatives like the support belt but struggling to find any specifically for pgp rather than just a belly belt type thing and wondered what everyone else was thinking of doing? I plan to ask my physio once my appt comes through (was referred 2.5 weeks ago), and also about the tens machine, but really struggling in the meantime :(

AlRRRR · 31/01/2021 12:53

@curiouscat1987 I have an annoying pubic bone pain, it’s always on the left side and as soon as I lean onto it or walk too much it starts burning: stinging. Haven’t spoke to MW yet and it isn’t constant, is yours constant?

curiouscat1987 · 31/01/2021 12:56

[quote AlRRRR]@curiouscat1987 I have an annoying pubic bone pain, it’s always on the left side and as soon as I lean onto it or walk too much it starts burning: stinging. Haven’t spoke to MW yet and it isn’t constant, is yours constant?[/quote]
Yes mine is constant but also get stronger twinges at different times. Mostly feels like yhe very top of the inner thighs where the leg meets the pelvis, but also extends to lower back frequently. Gets much worse when i lay on my side which is a bit frustrating! Pretty much cant walk and just shuffle a few steps around the house really...

AlRRRR · 01/02/2021 07:15

@curiouscat1987 Oh I understand! I can’t really suggest anything for that then! So sorry :(

PinkPlantCase · 01/02/2021 07:50

@curiouscat1987 I use a tens machine for chronic pain and you can buy then in most pharmacies or boots. This is the one an NHS pain clinic gave me bodyclock.co.uk/classic-tens-machine/ but that was about 6 years ago so I don’t know if they’ve moved over to digital ones now.

You might struggle to place it for the pain inside your hip but it should help for sure with the lower back. The physio should help you place the electrodes if you take one to your first appointment.

They work by giving your body something else to feel. I find they work well for lowish level pain that’s always there but less well when somethings really acute, but it does generally take the pain down a notch.

Heat would be the other one, partly again because it gives you something else to feel.

An osteopath who has experience in treating women during pregnancy might also be worth a try. They NHS won’t refer you and a good one is often about £50 a session but they would help with your general alignment, especially if you’re carrying yourself differently because your in pain. They might help you avoid getting nock on pain elsewhere from the change in your posture.

Acupuncture is probably the other one to try. Some people notice a big difference with it and I think the NHS can refer.

I can see why your apprehensive about the pain killers. Your body will also surely get used to the paracetamol! I had to come off all my pain medication when TTC, now I only really take it when it’s really really bad and paracetamol has a much bigger impact now than when I used to take it daily.

Equally I do keep being told by the GP and my midwife that I shouldn’t put up with being in pain and that at this point in pregnancy things like paracetamol and codeine are safe to take. Which is an entertaining change of tune from when I was TTC but I guess now our babies are just growing bigger there’s a bit less to worry about developmental.

PinkPlantCase · 01/02/2021 07:51

Sorry for the long post Grin Blush

AlRRRR · 01/02/2021 08:07

@PinkPlantCase @curiouscat1987Oh yes, silly me, my mum us a nurse acupuncturist and she treats women with this issue! I totally forgot!

I also see an ostepath who used to work oj Harley Street but she’s now up in Yorkshire and she is epic, she’s the only one who can put my aligment right ! She does cost £55 but worth every penny!

Opticabbage · 01/02/2021 09:39

Shock I'm so surprised you're meant to take regular pain killers for PGP. I'll be honest, last pregnancy I went to a physio and the exercises didnt help much, so I didn't ask for help after that and was pretty immobile towards the end. This time I have a toddler so can't lie on the sofa all day, so am more open minded. Would love to see an osteopath but can't find any locally.

AlRRRR · 01/02/2021 10:04

@Opticabbage where abouts are you?

lucieloos · 01/02/2021 10:14

Got my 20 week scan this morning! Feeling pretty nervous 😩

swiftt · 01/02/2021 10:30

@lucieloos aw good luck with your scan! Let us know how you get on x

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Waitingforbabypage · 01/02/2021 10:46

@lucieloos good luck! Try not to get yourself worked up. Enjoy seeing your baby again! X

lucieloos · 01/02/2021 12:20

Thank you! It all went really well thankfully and was lovely to see her again. Can relax a bit now 😊

June 2021 - part 4!
Waitingforbabypage · 01/02/2021 16:03

Aw that's a beautifully clear picture! How lovely! And all is well with you both?

lucieloos · 01/02/2021 16:05

@Waitingforbabypage thank you 😊 Yes all went really well and everything great with us both.

DollyParton2 · 01/02/2021 16:09

Fishingforhappiness re. breastfeeding Id still like a bit of privacy when breastfeeding in public. I wouldn’t use get my boobs out in front of say friends and their husbands or in a pub, so breatfeeding shawls were my saviour with my other DC. I was more relaxed knowing I had this privacy/ so milk flowed better and also find as it’s darker/ less distraction baby can concentrate on feeding better too.
Everyone’s different but I’d definitely invest in a special breastfeeding shawl about £15 on Amazon, you sling them on, can unbutton/ hoik top up underneath without worrying and get baby straight onto boob! x

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