What age did you have your first child?

[Emm98]

Hi all,

I would love to know when you had your first child.

Recently my partner has been suggesting we start trying for a baby but I’m not sure whether we are too young and should wait a few years.

About me: I am 22 and have been with my partner 2 years. We have lived together for nearly the whole 2 years!

We both work full time and have stable jobs, we are also in the process of buying our first home☺️

I’m concerned about Covid- everything is always changing at the moment! Our jobs are secure but you never know what could happen as a result of the pandemic.

There is so much to consider- Childcare costs are not cheap and I would definitely be going back to work if I was to have a child, maternity leave and pay confuses me so much and I feel a bit clueless.

I would love to have a little family but I would like to hear other people’s opinions/experience. Is there anything we should consider before deciding?

Thank you!

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I was very nearly 22 when my first DS was born. Financially stable (owned own home and was on a good wage as was DP) engaged and had been with DP (now DH) for 4 years. I never regretted it for a second nor do I wish I'd waited any longer, as a PP said I didn't want the same adventures that my friends had and I didn't feel like I missed out at all. However I did have a brilliant supportive family who would have DS any time at any short notice so I could continue working and go out and have a break if I wanted one. My kids are genuinely my greatest joy.

@SallyOMalley I love your post. Do what's right for you!