Catching up - TTC After Miscarriage part 3

[BecsterG]

Hi Ladies, just setting up a new thread as we're almost at the end of the current one. Let's move over when it's full.

Xx

I'd be up for a facebook group @FireflyGirl - feel like we've been on such a long journey together I will want it to continue when the babies arrive!

@BS9790 this is the one I use and really like it/it's very supportive: www.amazon.co.uk/BABYGO-Pregnancy-Support-Maternity-Postpartum/dp/B07V5VRVX7/ref=sr_1_1_sspa?dchild=1&psc=1&keywords=babygo%2Bpregnancy%2Bsupport%2Bbelt&th=1&spLa=ZW5jcnlwdGVkUXVhbGlmaWVyPUEzSDVNQ1VUQTBEWVJKJmVuY3J5cHRlZElkPUEwNTc5MjUwMzBFWTM4SVRUN05XNCZlbmNyeXB0ZWRBZElkPUExMDIwMzg0MlI5TlI4MU45UDhRSyZ3aWRnZXROYW1lPXNwX2F0ZiZhY3Rpb249Y2xpY2tSZWRpcmVjdCZkb05vdExvZ0NsaWNrPXRydWU&tag=mumsnetforu03-21&qid=1599217134&sr=8-1-spons

Woah sorry for the massive link!

I can set a group up for those who want to join?

@MilsCookie it talks about relieving back pain but my back is fine, its my bump which is achy! Will it help that do you think?

Hope @ChampooPapi you are doing ok !

Had a scan today and measuring 9w3 so for tuesday's list i will be 10w0 ! And it will probably stay like this.

All looked good. Bean had two legs and two hands which were moving and heart beating good.

Hope you're ok @ChampooPapi xx

@MilsCookie, I'd been looking at that one last night!
@FireflyGirl, thanks ill look at the ones on there too.

I'm the same as @whiffle77... It's my bump that aches & hurts and most of the support bands mention being for back pain.

Baby has been having some kind of party today, non stop movement since I got up at 7. Last Friday was the same... Must be a Friday fan 🤣🤣

Oh my goodness look at that gorgeous little bean!! @SunnySideUp2020 this one is going to be just fine - I know it!! 🌈 where are you now, are you back in the Baltics?

@Whiffle77 hmmm I'm not sure if it would help the bump... it seems to me like it would but I don't wanna say that in case it doesn't help at all! My bump is really sore at the top like where it feels my abs have separated/the skin is really tender to touch, and the bump band really helps there. So maybe? 🤷‍♀️

@BS9790 that's good they're having a party haha - must be reassuring to feel them! I caught my stomach moving on camera the other day - it's so weird! And when I went for my scan on weds I said I always assumed that when the left side of my tummy moves it's the big twin, and when it's the right side it's the smaller twin, and then the sonographer showed me how close together the big one's hand and the small one's foot were together and she was like 'it could be either of them!' 🙈 I have noticed they respond more when I drink a hot or cold drink!

P.s. yes @Ejb86 would love you to set up the fb group!! 💗

@MilsCookie yes got back before yesterday !
I had some severe stomach pains this afternoon 😫 had to go home and stopped shopping... bit worrying

@scrumdiddly123 my 12 week scan is scheduled for 23rd at 10:40 😄
When is yours?

@SunnySideUp2020 is it back with your in-laws? Where are you going to be when the baby comes? Oh bless you I'm sure it's nothing to worry about. If it's any consolation I've had cramps the whole way through this pregnancy. I even had them a bit yesterday! Every time it gives me anxiety but I've read that it's just your uterus growing and is most likely a good thing! You've seen that bean growing right on track and the chances of mc get less and less as the weeks go by. This one is your rainbow I am sure 😘🌈🌈🌈 xxx

@SunnySideUp2020 awww yay 😍 bet you're so relieved xxxx

Id be up for a Facebook group but I deleted Facebook after my loss only have messenger which I don't think groups would work on 😫

Back doing more hours at work on flexi furlough causing my pelvic pain to worsen! 3 weeks until my holidays (taking annual leave before maternity)

@MilsCookie

Sorry forgot to reply! My renovations are slowly moving forward! Not sure if I'll be in the house before baby is here though!! Xxx

Ok. Here's the link to the group. It is set to private but is currently visible so you can all find it. Happy to change settings as and when we need to.

www.facebook.com/groups/298903528074463/?ref=share

Hi Ladies, do you mind if I join Im 11+4 on pregnancy number 3 after a MMC last November and a further MC last March.....12 week scan is on 14th of Sept praying for a successful outcome for us this time 🙏

Thanks @Ejb86! I've sent a request!

@FireflyGirl ha ha definitely wasn't pee as smelt sweet and you know how pee stinks.

@BS9790 I too am a walking radiator. I wake up every morning with damp hair and a damp pillow.

My waters broke when I started to push with DS so no idea what it feels like. I too was convinced I'd go overdue with DS and actually told people my due date was when I'd be induced but I went into labour 3 days early. I've stuff washed now so I'll put them into my suitcase tomorrow just in case.

@FireflyGirl I love he idea of a Facebook group. 👍🏻

@Ejb86 thanks for setting up the page. Ive sent a request through.

@SunnySideUp2020 such a brilliant picture. So pleased baby is looking good.

I've had mild cramps the last two days. Wondering if they're Braxton hicks. Again didn't experience any cramps with DS.

@Ejb86 thanks for the group, I have sent a request too (I think!!)

@BecsterG, my braxton hicks are more like tightenings than cramps. My bump goes rock hard, tight and a bit sore... Then eases off.
Did you mention the cramps at the hospital? X

@BS9790 I did mention that I had had mild cramps since the water incident but the doctor just said defo not waters. I've had mild cramps the last two days but nothing else. Definitely don't think it's contractions though. He has to water until our renovations are finished. Hopefully a week on Monday! 😂

Hey all I'm having major anxiety going back on Facebook so I'm going to delete again. Thought i could handle it but my last post was a picture of me 20 weeks pregnant with Alvie and I can't seem to keep calm.
I'll be back on the group when baby girl is here safe and sound and catch up with you on all baby talk then! I'll ofcourse still be on Mumsnet with you all xxx

Don't worry at all @AlviesMam that must have been very triggering for you 😘 you have to do what's right for you! We can still chat here 😊 xx

Thanks @Ejb86 I will request to join if that’s ok ☺️
Bless you @AlviesMam that must have been hard xx
@SunnySideUp2020 amazing picture! I haven’t got a date for my 12 week scan yet, had my booking in appt over the phone yesterday so hopefully I’ll find out soon 🤞🏻

@spierse welcome 🙌 of course you can join us and congratulations on your rainbow baby 👣🌈

Ladies thank you so much for your concern and messages, @FireflyGirl that was so kind and thoughtful of you to message as well, I really can't put into words how much your support means to me. I'm ok my end, just being massively pathetic and shuffling around generally. All the tests came back fine which is a shame really as then that would explain the extra fluid around the second twin, but at the same time very good not to have an infection obviously!. I was pretty certain it wasn't diabetes when 90 percent of all the women having the test were twice my size and doing the dam thing was grueling so took a few days to recover really. Not eating for nearly 14 hours when pregnant makes you feel very sick! All the other women were laughing and chatting during the two hour test period in the waiting room while I died essentially in the quiet area. By the hour fifteen mark I was certain I was going to pass out unless I kept moving. Low blood pressure, multiple pregnancy, no food... Recipe for vomming and fainting if e we there was one.

It was so nice to log on and see you all had sent a wave of support, it means so much to me everyone 💜

@SunnySideUp2020 amazing update on your little one. You have reached such an important point now, your having a baby 🌈you really are! I also notice in your pic it's says edd with +6 days so confirm for the ever marching on list update lovely

@AlviesMam oh god! No, down with Facebook 😬. You have made the right decision, and I'm with you girl, I don't have it either so will be Mumsnet or possibly WhatsApp I could do 🤷‍♀️. But I'll stand with you in solidarity against Facebook. Good for some and being part of a group with you all would almost be worth it, so understand you all going for it as your all so wonderful & it makes so much sense. I just can't do with it I'm afraid