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Catching up - TTC After Miscarriage part 3

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BecsterG · 25/08/2020 19:23

Hi Ladies, just setting up a new thread as we're almost at the end of the current one. Let's move over when it's full.

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scrumdiddly123 · 02/09/2020 16:47

EPU had a cancellation so they saw me today instead and everything is looking great with the little bean! Measuring bang on the dates from last week so now 8+4 and they couldn’t see anything that would have caused the bleed. Such a relief! I have my midwife booking in appt tomorrow over the phone so just hoping I can get through the next few weeks unscathed and make it to my 12 week scan! Thanks for the support on here, really appreciate it! Going to catch up on here properly later when I sit down xx

BS9790 · 02/09/2020 18:55

Lots to catch up on... Hope everyone is doing okay now.
Glad you had a more positive appointment @MilsCookie, don't feel bad for being annoyed... I 100‰ wouldn't cope living with mine!

Brill news @scrumdiddly123 😊😊

@FireflyGirl, glad everything seems OK 😊

I've got pretty much constant pains and aches under my bump. And it hurts even just laying on the sofa! Once I start moving about it goes up the sides too. It was first day back at work yesterday (inset day) and at 2.30 I had to ask my head if I could leave as was nearly in tears with the pain.

I can't walk more than 10 mins now before I need to go home, my poor dog isn't amused with her short walks!! 😂😂
I'm going to mention it all to the midwife tomorrow when I see her, although I'm sure she will say it's all normal aches and pains!

Baby movements are still hit and miss each day... Wish I had a little screen like a telly tubby so I could have a peek inside 🤣🤣

Fingers crossed all these babies start behaving and we can all get some stress free time!! 🌈

SunnySideUp2020 · 02/09/2020 19:46

@scrumdiddly123 glad to hear all is ok. You must be so relieved!
We are both now (im)patiently waiting for the 12 week scan!! I am literally counting down days.

Got my first midwife appt on Tuesday.

@MilsCookie it's good to read you had good news and your little twin is doing better 💕

Reading @FireflyGirl and @BS9790 i am NOT so much looking forward to 3rd trimester!!!!
But god please get me out of 1st 😅

I have a question... which will seem so trivial and superficial and i am very aware of it.
Since my bfp i have been eating my sickness away... but it means i have put on 4 kg in just over a month. I am feeling overweight... and worried i am putting far too much weight on and it might affect the pregnancy.

Has anyone been in this situation? I won't try to lose weight obv but i am open to suggestions to slow down the weight gain.

TerribleImagination · 02/09/2020 19:50

Sorry, playing catch up!

@MilsCookie That’s good news from the latest scan! So happy to hear you had a better update this time ❤️

@ChampooPapi I hope your appointment went well today lovey. These babies like to give us the run around and worry us!

@scrumdiddly123 That’s amazing news everything is ok with little one! You poor thing dealing with that!

@FireflyGirl Glad everything is ok after being monitored ❤️

@BS9790 That sounds so painful, poor you! Have you tried a bump band thingy? I’ve heard they’re really good!

Not much to update here! Bump is getting bigger each day and baby girl is still a little wriggle bum! The movements are getting stronger now! I’m sure I can feel the stronger ones from the outside, but that always coincides with when DP is at work, typical!

Has anyone else not slept for more than 2-3 hours at a time for the entire pregnancy so far?! I never get more than 3 hours tops, before waking up for a wee or needing to turn over! It must be prep for newborn feed times 😂

FireflyGirl · 02/09/2020 21:29

I wake up every 2-3 hours during the night, @TerribleImagination. Same as you, mine is mostly to pee again and change position as my hips start to hurt.

Fantastic news, @scrumdiddly123! So, so pleased for you!

@SunnySideUp2020 I think all you can really do is go with it until you feel better. That's basically what my midwife said to me.

Slowing any weight gain will depend on what you are eating and why, but you've honestly not put that much on. If you read the 'how much did you put on in pregnancy' threads, some women put loads on in the first trimester, then hardly anything for the rest of the pregnancy, whereas others like me suddenly put on 3 stone in the last trimester!!

If you're overloading carbs to stop the nausea, you could try different foods - I found satsumas really helped with the nausea (and are also good for ahem keeping you regular), as did sucking mints/boiled sweets. And ice lollies! For meals, plain whole-wheat pasta with cheese, jacket potatoes with whatever topping I could tolerate, a protein with boiled potatoes and veggies (I served them, even if I couldn't face actually eating them!). I also covered everything in salt Blush but still better than another crisp sandwich...

scrumdiddly123 · 02/09/2020 21:32

When is your 12 week scan @SunnySideUp2020? I haven’t actually got a date for mine yet, going to ask the MW tomorrow when I should get an appt through. I have also been eating my way through the horrendous nausea and have put weight on already. I was half a stone heavier than normal thanks to lockdown so am now heavier than I’ve ever been and really unhappy about it! I hope once I start to feel better in the second trimester I’ll be able to eat better and also swim/walk daily. It’s so hard though when you feel so crap during these early weeks! X

FireflyGirl · 02/09/2020 21:35

Keeping a note of what you're eating (and when) for a few days might help as well - if you log everything you eat as either a meal (pregnant women are recommended to eat 6 small meals a day) or a snack, you'll be able to see if you're eating because you're hungry, because it's helping the nausea, or just 'because'.

Leok83 · 02/09/2020 21:42

@scrumdiddly123 that's so good to hear everything is ok, such a scare for you..you must be so relieved! Hopefully it's all plain sailing from here!

@MilsCookie I'm so happy for you and your little girls that you got some positive news at last. 🤞 every scan will be looking good from here on in!

@FireflyGirl glad it was good news for you today!

@ChampooPapi hope your appointment went well today too!

@SunnySideUp2020 don't worry about it, 4kg doesn't seem a lot. Honestly this first trimester is so horrendous you just have to go with what works for you and doesn't make you feel sick! And once in second trimester hopefully the sickness will be gone and normal life and eating will resume! In the last month I've only eaten white bread, Rice Krispies, pasta and butter, grapes, strawberries and some cheese if I'm having a good day. I was able to eat noodles but have developed a severe aversion to them now too! I gave up trying to eat anything healthy..the only thing I can liken the thought of healthy food to is the contraction my stomach gets when I smell a shot of tequila 🤢😄 I've lost a few kg but it's definitely all going to pile on once I can eat properly again!

AlviesMam · 02/09/2020 22:14

@scrumdiddly123 Fantastic news. Really happy your feeling reassured!

@MilsCookie Seems really positive and those weekly scans will be so good for you and 10 weeks will fly by until you can get them girls delivered!! Always thinking of you each week!

@ChampooPapi How are you feeling did everything go ok today?

@FireflyGirl Glad you got checked out! It's always best to! Not long for us now #duedatebuddies

@BS9790 still hit and miss for me too but it's because of her position change 😫

@SunnySideUp2020 I've put on so much weight but I'm still keeping balanced and walking as much as I can. But I'm not stopping myself having something I want, I eat veg fruit and salad every day and take my vitamins! But also eat carbs and cheese every day hahaha.

Ive been on all fours each now trying to get this girlie to change to head down. I'm feeling thumps in my ribs today, could she have changed?!

Started on my hospital bag today eeeek
Also got some lovely little bows from Etsy (building her up a little collection) I'm loving the nude/beige/cream colours atm!!

Hope everyone is well ❤️

MilsCookie · 03/09/2020 08:26

Thanks everyone - yes it was nice to finally have some positive news! Still very much on a rollercoaster so just taking it one week at a time and keeping all our fingers and toes crossed for two healthy baby girls 🤞🏻 (and hoping so hard they stay in as long as 32 weeks!)

@scrumdiddly123 I am SO relieved for you!! Did they say what might have caused the bleed? I have such a good feeling about this little bean! We're all rooting for you!! 🌈 hope you can relax a bit now.

@Whiffle77 getting to the MC due date was hard for me too... it's totally understandable. Take the time you need and we'll be thinking of you 😘

@FireflyGirl relieved for you too lovely, although sorry you had to stay in for 4 hours!!

@BS9790 you poor thing 😞 I'm a teacher too... when are you going on mat leave? Is it easier when you're sitting down? I second what @TerribleImagination said - I use a bump support band when I'm not at home and it really does help.
Hope the kids are kind to you, they will be shocked to see your bump haha!

@SunnySideUp2020 try not to worry too much about putting on weight... I've put on about 10kg already but I suppose that's because I'm expecting two! But I am genuinely shocked when i look back at photos of myself from the start of the year haha, I'm like "who IS that?!" My extra weight also seems to like hanging around my face/chins which is FANTASTIC! 🙈 I'm just rolling (no pun intended) with it though and will keep on eating as I am if it means the babies keep growing and are well!

@AlviesMam aww I love the baby girl headbands! Not sure DP is a fan though 🥺🙄 Ooo I hope that means she's turned! I'm also going to be starting on my hospital bag in the next couple of weeks just in case they decide to come early...madness! Got to get the house move out of the way first on Monday... 😬 how are the renovations going?

BS9790 · 03/09/2020 09:49

@MilsCookie, I've decided to bring mat leave forwards so I'll finish October 2nd now, I'll be 36 weeks. Working from home for the rest of this week whilst head assess the situation in school, gets new routines settled etc and then once can find a safe place for me to work I'll be back in, just doing interventions and 1:1s.

Once the pain starts, it hurts wether I'm sat down or not! But much worse when moving about.

I've had some spotting last night, when wiping! 😩😩 Not had any more since but been up all night worrying. I've got midwife at 11 anyway today so holding off phoning anyone to see what she says. Hopefully it's nothing! X

FireflyGirl · 03/09/2020 18:18

How did you get on with the midwife @BS9790? Hope everything is ok.

I've had a quick chat with HR today, and going to have another chat on Monday. I'm still furloughed and have 2 weeks of holidays left to use.

I've asked to carry one week over and tack it on the end of maternity, and to start my maternity on my EDD. Works out better financially that way - might as well stay on furlough until I pop!!

BS9790 · 03/09/2020 19:48

@FireflyGirl, she didn't seem concerned about the spotting. Just said to phone the hospital if there was anymore bleeding and to keep an eye on movement. Would be fine if his movement was consistent enough to keep an eye on!

Im so uncomfy, my bump hurts pretty much allllllll day and night... Is this normal? 😬

BecsterG · 03/09/2020 20:16

Wow lots of chat to catch up with.

@scrumdiddly123 fantastic news all is well!

@BS9790 pleased they don't seem worried. Fingers crossed you don't get anymore

@MilsCookie fab to get some positive news about your girls.

Ahhh I'm sure I've missed lots.

I was in maternity assessment this morning as I woke up in the night soaked through down below. It was even on the sheets so I wondered if my waters had broken. Called first thing and the midwife said it sounded like it had so I went in to be monitored and the doctor gave me a swab and she's certain my waters are still intact so it must have be a massive gush if discharge! Lovely eh! Pleased all is well and he's staying put for now or at least until the work is finished! I've been putting a few things in my hospital bag just in case and will pack it properly this weekend just in case. 😂

I also finished up work today!! So relieved x

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BecsterG · 03/09/2020 20:17

Oh sorry @ChampooPapi I hope all went ok at your appointment.

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FireflyGirl · 03/09/2020 22:04

@BecsterG they were just being nice and not telling you that you probably wet yourself Wink

You can take it easy now, thankfully, and try to catch up on some of that sleep!

I packed my hospital bag a couple of weeks ago, minus stuff I use regularly like my kindle/hairbrush. Very premature, but with DS I was so convinced he was going to go overdue I just had a few things collected together and a vague notion of what I would need. My waters went at 4.30am when I was 38 weeks, with hard contractions straight away, so I was trying to pack in the lulls between. I would not recommend this!

Baby's bag is packed apart from vests/sleep suits. I'll get DH to fetch the newborn stuff out of the loft at the beginning of next month to wash.

What sort of pain is it you're experiencing, @BS9790? I get ligament pains down the outside of the bump if I cough/sneeze/move too quickly, pains low down which is probably referred pain from my pelvic issues, and then pain at the front from madam stretching and sticking her extremities out. It could also be from exertion; it's definitely time to start slowing down!

BS9790 · 03/09/2020 22:27

@FireflyGirl, it's all over my bump, sides, front, top and underneath. And it's just like a constant dull ache/pain!
Don't have it when I first wake up, but the rest of the day its there. My thighs have also started aching too.

I also have the sharp ligament pains, usually when I sneeze! And been having braxton hicks since really early on, they are pretty much all day as well!

So many pains 🤣

BS9790 · 03/09/2020 22:29

@BecsterG I've woke up soaked/wet sheet a few times but I think mine is sweat! I'm like a walking radiator recently 😬😬 my £16 fan from argos is best money I've ever spent in my life 🤣🤣

MilsCookie · 04/09/2020 08:08

@BS9790 that sounds good then, at least you're not responsible for a full class. I've stopped working now as was on a temporary contract until August and just thought I wouldn't be able to cope as a class teacher heavily pregnant with twins! Glad the midwife wasn't concerned about the spotting either.

@BecsterG wow that must have given you a scare! But at least you know even if he did come now you're basically full term now right?! Not long to go... I'm so excited for you!

@ChampooPapi I'm getting worried about you missy... hope everything went okay at your appointment? xx

Whiffle77 · 04/09/2020 09:04

Oh gosh @BecsterG that sounds scary!! Im also suddenly really sweaty too even though its not hot any more, its so gross!

I've also had a really sore bump this week, all along the bottom and around my belly button. Everything feels hard work all of a sudden. I really hope I'm not like this for another 12 weeks!!!

FireflyGirl · 04/09/2020 09:38

I've DMd ChampooPapi. Hopefully she's just been busy.

I've been catching up with the 'due in November' antenatal thread and Facebook chat, and two of the ladies have had their babies at 28 weeks and 30 weeks!! Shock

They are both doing well, hoping to be home from SCBU in the next week or so!

I'm not going to have the motivation to do it anytime soon, but would anyone be interested in a Facebook group for this thread?

I was thinking that as we (hopefully) get more ladies at different stages, especially once we get our first babies, there'll be some chat (eg nighttime feeding chat) that won't be relevant to everyone and rather than posting on here and ladies waking up to 25 new messages about how many times we've been up, we can do that in a separate bit, and also have a pinned post with useful links and info.

TerribleImagination · 04/09/2020 10:13

@FireflyGirl I’d definitely be up for a Facebook group 😃

Hope you’re ok @ChampooPapi! ❤️

BS9790 · 04/09/2020 10:16

@FireflyGirl, I'd join a Facebook group. I can't set one up though as I'm not that technically minded 🤣🤣

@whiffle77, the sweating is awful isn't it. Sorry you've got a sore bump too, I keep thinking the same that hopefully it won't last the entire duration of what's left. I'm guessing it's going to though 😣

I know I've spoke to someone on here before about bump support bands, but I can't find it now... Can't anyone recommend one to me?

Whiffle77 · 04/09/2020 10:23

I would be up for that too @FireflyGirl

FireflyGirl · 04/09/2020 10:26

@BS9790 I was given mine by the physio, but the JoJo Maman ones always come well recommended on threads on here.

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