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Catching up - TTC After Miscarriage part 3

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BecsterG · 25/08/2020 19:23

Hi Ladies, just setting up a new thread as we're almost at the end of the current one. Let's move over when it's full.

Xx

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AlviesMam · 04/09/2020 22:55

Great to see an update from you @ChampooPapi 😘😘😘 xxx

AlviesMam · 04/09/2020 22:57

@ChampooPapi It was so nice to see everyone's names and faces! but I honestly had to log off because the anxiety of scrolling down my timeline again etc was daunting! Maybe when baby is here I'll feel more confident to go back on!
I honestly feel this group has been one of my main supports through this journey you are all just amazing ❤️ xxx

ChampooPapi · 04/09/2020 22:59

@AlviesMam 🥰 thanks lovely 💜 we can always make a Mumsnet graduates post natal thread as well ☺️

ChampooPapi · 04/09/2020 23:07

@AlviesMam yes, just not something you need to actually ever look at again as well, we can WhatsApp and there's always Instagram for social media, you never have to go back on there again if you don't want to lovely. It's just not a platform where you can filter out everything else unfortunately and just do 'that group' you could potentially create a new account for just the Mumsnet group but obviously that would mean creating a whole page again, friending ect which means you'd be back into the whole thing again. It is 100 percent not good for anxiety and it really isn't essential at all anymore as there are so many other platforms to contact each other on 💜

Annny27 · 04/09/2020 23:19

Selfishly I want you all to keep talking on here too so that i can keep up with your pregnancies (like the Saddo who can't get into the club but watches from the window ;p)

Glad to see all is well with all the babies 💗💗

TerribleImagination · 04/09/2020 23:22

@AlviesMam Your poor thing! Definitely stay off Facebook if it makes you feel that way, it’s just not worth it! We’ll all still be chatting away here, and like @ChampooPapi says, we can always have a WhatsApp chat if everyone wanted that.

@ChampooPapi I’m glad everything was ok your end! I was worried about you! Also I’m now scared for my GTT 😆🙈 I have to have it because my Mum has type 2 diabetes, even though it’s because she’s very very overweight! I have no other risk factors, healthy BMI etc, but I get its standard practice. I’m not thrilled about a fasted blood test though! Tell me honestly, how grim is the ‘sugary solution’ they give you?! I was hoping it’d be lucozade or something remotely tasty 🤣

TerribleImagination · 04/09/2020 23:24

Ooh and exciting update! DP has felt baby moving for the first time this week, which is just magical! 😍 I didn’t think he’d be able to this early, but she’s a strong kicker when she wants to be! He’s only felt her twice so far, but his happy beaming face when he did was just GORGEOUS to see! ❤️ It’s so lovely when the partner can feel that connection too. He’s so funny though, if I have a cold drink or give her a little wobble to try and make her move for him, he tells me to leave her alone and ‘let her sleep’ 😂 Protective Dad mode is already enabled! Haha

SunnySideUp2020 · 05/09/2020 07:37

@MilsCookie we are back with the in laws indeed 😅
Waiting for 12 week scan to check all is ok to look for a flat for ourselves, as we cannot be moving to Switzerland now if i am pregnant already so will be having the baby here in Latvia. And move to Zurich when we are ready!
Also here DP will be able to not have a job and stay with me to help after birth.
We are getting married end of next month i think, currently doing paperwork. But it will just be DP myself and witnesses. No party!!
Have you thought of your wedding or are you guys all focused on your girls for now?

@ChampooPapi so relieved to hear from you! I imagined the worse (pregnancy hormones)
I have read so many posts of babies with this extra fluid and with monitoring it turned out well. I hope this will be the case for your twin! 😘
For the list Tuesday i will be 10weeks exactly.
Let's just keep edd at 3rd of april for now.
I will let you know exact date on 23rd at 12 week scan!

@AlviesMam hope you are ok. I feel you. I also deleted Facebook after a verg rough time some years ago. And like you i just don't want it again. I don't miss it at all and kinda hate it 🤐 it has become a negative association for me.
I have instagram and WhatsApp which i find enough!

@Annny27 don't worry i am staying here 💗💗
How is the tww?

@TerribleImagination
Omg that must have been magical 😍😍😍😍

ChampooPapi · 05/09/2020 08:33

@TerribleImagination oh god the drink is like a more discusting version of a Capri sun I'm afraid. You will find most of the other people having it are fairly overweight so you you too will feel like it's probably a box ticking exercise, which although is incredibly important to check for, when you know the outcome will be favourable the suffering is somewhat harder to endure. It really is just a day by I really found it hard, the drive over makes you feel fairly queasy and then the blood tests, especially if your blood pressure is low, which your may be too as your BMI is healthy ect, makes you feel quite lightheaded, then the waiting where trust me, just close your eyes and dream of sandwiches! Dont worry about pretending to be ok if you do feel a bit rotten, the midwives and nurses all understand it's a bit of an endurance. And take food for afterwards, you immediately feel incredible once you've eaten it, it is magic and you do get a glimpse into what it would be like for women pregnant the world over who don't have enough to eat. Women go through so much in this world, this test really is absolutely fine, but you know exactly what it's like when you feel sick, you just feel so horrible you have no perspective in the moment. Hopefully you'll be able to sleep when you get home, that definitely helped as it's usually done around 8-30/9 in the morning.

Amazing to have your partner felt movement ☺️ it's magic isn't it 🥰

@SunnySideUp2020 that's so lovely to read, your such a kind and open hearted person and I'm sorry that I worried you, or anyone. I honestly promise I would never disappear even of something bad did happen, even if it was just to post a small update. Im also nearly 29 weeks now which is full term for me so I am probably going to sometimes have a week off here and there when I'm just being massive and lazy. I have a scan with the fetal people next Monday so hopefully all fluid is back to normal, or my consultant said they could always actually be in the same sack and it was missed 🤯. Just don't ask how that's possible, we've decided not to think about it, I mean how!!

I still worry every time I update the list about the poster who never came back, I advanced searched her and she hasn't posted for months so she may have had another loss and then changed her username.

@Annny27 we need and want to keep up with your too! You will always be our other leader 🙏🥰 remember I said months ago 'we'll follow you wherever you go' well it's still true and when we've got these babies and you are inevitably pregnant, we will be jealous of your baby planning, your growing bump and the anticipation of the coming baby. We are all at different stages and it doesn't matter one bit, this is a women's support group as much as anything else! The baby part is secondary to that, always is for me anyway. You'll get there, you have every chance each month but luck of the odds has made you one of the women who take a few months longer, but you are going to get pregnant this year, it will happen 💕

ChampooPapi · 05/09/2020 08:45

And just to add I haven't had Facebook for ten years nearly now and it hasn't effected contacting friends or keeping in touch at all, even with friends and family who live on the other side of the world. So it can easily be something that you don't use and keep up with all the comings and goings of this life. And there's always Instagram of you want to photo document and see what others are up to 'visually'. Facebook needs balls of steal, a non addictive personality, high self esteem, and the ability to filter and to ignor always.... This is not me 🤦

FireflyGirl · 05/09/2020 08:55

Morning all. I missed a lot last night - had an early night as I was exhausted.

Glad to hear from you @ChampooPapi. I was really hoping it would just be that you had better things to do Wink

Flowers @AlviesMam. We can always use a different social media if needs be, and I'll still keep chatting on here (so don't worry @Annny27 Grin - we're eagerly waiting for you to join us!)

How exciting for your DP, @TerribleImagination. It's always nice for them to feel baby move, makes it more real!

@SunnySideUp2020 it'll be lovely for you to have an intimate wedding. DP and I 'eloped' to the other side of the country with just parents, siblings and their partners. There were only 11 of us in the wedding party including DH and I, and we really enjoyed it. Then we had a big afternoon tea themed party in the village hall after we got home. I was pregnant with DS by then (honeymoon baby), so had to be very creative about being offered drinks. DH was legless fairly early on Grin

@BecsterG, @BS9790 one of the things the hospital mentioned to me on Wednesday was about drinking enough - apparently being dehydrated can make Braxton Hicks type pains worse, and you need to drink more in pregnancy anyway.

TerribleImagination · 05/09/2020 10:08

@ChampooPapi Ah that doesn’t sound as horrendous as I thought... at least it’s a flavoured drink 🤣 I was anticipating some sort of thick, syrupy thing that would make me want to hurl instantly! Haha. Yeah I imagine I’ll have the same feelings as you, looking around the room! But definitely good to go get it done when it’s standard practice.

@Annny27 Don’t worry lovey we’re going nowhere! 🥰 Can’t wait for you to join us! ❤️

scrumdiddly123 · 05/09/2020 12:05

@Annny27 cannot wait for you to be here with us, hopefully not long! 😘
@ChampooPapi glad everything is ok with you!
@TerribleImagination that’s so exciting and lovely for your partner 🥰 such a special thing
I’m happy today because my sister has given me some maternity leggings and they are the most comfy things in the world 😆 only 9 weeks but I think baby no.4 = instant bump!

BecsterG · 05/09/2020 12:30

@FireflyGirl that's interesting thanks. I drink quite a lot which adds to the constant need to pee.

Wow so much chat. I'm in bed early every night these days. I'm also happy to use any type of social media. 👍🏻

@Annny27 you will be joining us so soon I can feel it!

@ChampooPapi good to see your update.

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MilsCookie · 05/09/2020 12:42

Soooo much chat to catch up on haha but just wanted to say @ChampooPapi I am so relieved to read your update - my mind was also jumping to all sorts of conclusions!! So pleased that all the tests came back okay and you've just been taking it easy from MN haha 😊

BS9790 · 05/09/2020 12:59

On my way to Jojo maman bebe for a bump support! Hopefully they've got some in stock as can't cope anymore!

Probably end up coming away with loads of baby clothes and no bump band 😂

Ejb86 · 05/09/2020 15:35

Oh the joys of the GTT! I have my GTT at 8.45, sit there for my 2 hours like a good girl, then have to go back in the afternoon for my first growth scan. May spend the time in between snoozing in the car!

SunnySideUp2020 · 05/09/2020 16:26

@ChampooPapi oh wow! If they are in the same sac would that mean they are identical?
Well in any case as you say you are almost there which is bloody amazing 👏 😉
And please indulge in MN breaks!! It's good sometimes and now we know it will just be a little time off 😇 no worrying!

@FireflyGirl yes, intimate is what i need right now, especially with the ups and downs of early pregnancy anxieties depending on the day the type of discharge the type of cramp the type of emotions... etc. I am all over the place and don't think i could handle planning a wedding or being the centre of attention atm!!
I think i will still try to look nice and get a white dress but simple one even if i look like a sea lion in it 😂

@scrumdiddly123 well i have to admit that yesterday before the cramping brought me right back home i was buying maternity pants as everything is too tight and i suffer from outrageous bloating... which i think is causing the intense stomach pain.
And wow it felt so good to feel some lose pants on me!!!
So shameless 10 weeks preggo but wearing maternity pants here 🤗
Has your bleeding resolved itself now?

@Ejb86 is your test tomorrow?

Ejb86 · 05/09/2020 16:37

@SunnySideUp2020 oh no, it's not until December. My hospital are really proactive with booking in your appointments for the whole pregnancy Smile

SunnySideUp2020 · 05/09/2020 16:44

@Ejb86 okkk! Well with Champoo s details we now all have some time to get used to the idea of the upcoming torture 🤣

scrumdiddly123 · 05/09/2020 19:44

@SunnySideUp2020 glad you’re with me! I hate being uncomfortable at the best of times so it was literally bliss to not have anything digging in! My children are definitely noticing my bigger tummy but not said anything yet, I so want to wait til we get the ok from the 12 week scan to tell them!
Yes the bleeding has gone now thankfully, no idea where it came from and hoping it won’t come back!

spierse · 06/09/2020 10:16

Morning ladies, I went for a private scan this morning and unfortunately it is another MMC for me so I am bowing out, I wish you all great success in your pregnancies ❤

Leok83 · 06/09/2020 11:19

@SunnySideUp2020 delighted to see your scan went well!! Congrats!! It's so reassuring to get extra scans I find! I'd be a total mess if I'd have had to wait until next week for my first one!!

@ChampooPapi glad to hear everything went well..would be so strange though if they missed identical twins!!

@Annny27 I'm staying here! And 🤞 you'll be right here with us in a few days!!

@TerribleImagination aw that's amazing about the kicks! I cannot wait to get to a point where I can feel baby kick!

@spierse I'm sorry to hear you had another MC. Take care of yourself.x

Whiffle77 · 06/09/2020 13:22

Glad things are OK with you both @scrumdiddly123 and @ChampooPapi! I haven't joined the Facebook group yet, if it is visible does that mean people can see i am on it? I am def happy to keep chatting here too tho! I have tried to restrict my social media time as it def leads to more anxiety if you don't, so i completely understand those of you that don't use it any more! I prefer insta altho that makes me anxious sometimes too!

So sorry to see your news @spierse take care of yourself.

I've also bought some massive pants and it's made me so happy! I've started to slowly buy or make lists of things to buy for baby too which is good, its weird but I am excited. Although spent the day with a lot of kids this weekend and wow it was intense!!!

Fingers crossed for you this month @Annny27 😘

BS9790 · 06/09/2020 17:56

Can anyone recommend a soft baby carrier? Like a sling style, but one that's not complicated to fasten 🤣 I'm easily confused!

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