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So done with being pregnant!

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Samantha1712xx · 04/12/2019 20:53

I’m 38+1 and I’m done already! I’m so uncomfortable, every time I sit down I feel like I’m sat on the babies head, every time I stand up I feel like my insides are going to fall out haha!!

The pelvic pain is unreal, walking is painful but if I sit down for too long that’s painful too! I’ve been having period like cramps for about 2 weeks, lightning crotch for about 3. Every time I go to the toilet I’m hoping my plug will come out but nothing!

Sorry for the moan! I love my baby already, do not get me wrong by my god I WANT HER OUT haha!! The thought of coming late and possibly having another 4 weeks of this is filling me with dread.

Anyone got any tips of how they got labour going that actually worked?

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bobble53 · 07/12/2019 21:47

I’m still waiting! I rang the birth centre and she said it sounds more like a gush of discharge...lovely 🙃 I’m keeping everything crossed that my sweep on Monday will get things moving. I’ll be 40+5 then.

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WhenTwoBecomeThree · 07/12/2019 21:50

@agteacht I know, it's just more waiting and not what was planned haha😩 she just doesn't want to leave!!

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agteacht · 07/12/2019 21:54

Aw sorry @WhenTwoBecomeThree 😢
But you will be so happy when she's here

Aw @bobble53 not you too! I thought you were both off having babies

I'm not booked in for a sweep but do have a consultant appt on Monday, I'll be 40+4, do you think I can just have one then and there??

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agteacht · 07/12/2019 21:56

My husband keeps reminding me that I thought I was due the 9th but the scan dated 5th. It's funny how a 'due date' determines our thinking because by that logic if they'd gone with my dates then I'd be 39+6 today...

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bobble53 · 07/12/2019 21:59

@agteacht my friend had her sweep with a consultant appointment so maybe! I’d definitely ask!

I’m going to have mine Monday and ask to go for another a few days later if no progress. I really don’t want to be induced.

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agteacht · 07/12/2019 22:01

@bobble53 you're right, I might as well ask. Will definitely book in for a few others anyway!

Anyone I know who has been induced has been fine. I think it's made out to be worse than it is.

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Samantha1712xx · 08/12/2019 12:43

Any changes for anyone?

I had some cramps and back pain last night... NOTHING today 😩😭

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agteacht · 08/12/2019 15:46

No change here ... just slower 😂

Had a long walk and now bouncing on a ball for the evening. Consultant tomorrow morning 👍

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Samantha1712xx · 08/12/2019 17:45

I had a really intense pain about an hour ago, was sure it was starting. Literally took my breath away. Put I’ve been for a number two and haven’t had anything since 😂😂😂

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3rdtimelucky2019 · 08/12/2019 18:00

40+2, no signs. All I've done today is cry because I want it over. So fed up

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preggers506974215 · 08/12/2019 19:47

I have started to have back pain/pressure since about 6pm not sure if it's Braxton Hicks or early labour Shock

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Samantha1712xx · 08/12/2019 20:40

@preggers506974215 fingers crossed for you!

I haven’t had anything since 😩 I’d rather have nothing than all this teasing haha!

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fonxey · 08/12/2019 20:51

Nothing. Zilch. Nada.

Apart from a rock hard bump. Still quite solid actually. So yeah. Nothing. She doest BV want to come out. Could cry.

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preggers506974215 · 09/12/2019 02:08

@Samantha1712xx thanks! Looks like this is it I can definitely say it's now contractions and not BH. They are about every 10 minutes and getting really quite painful. Trying to get some sleep but finding it hard.

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Samantha1712xx · 09/12/2019 05:53

@preggers506974215 yay!!! Hopefully it won’t be long for you! Shame about the lack of sleep and being in pain but try and rest up as much as you can!!

Let us know 😋

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StephRae · 09/12/2019 09:54

37 weeks, look absolutely huge and have never been so uncomfortable, got the worst back and pelvic pain! She’s also super active and is constantly kicking my ribs which can definitely be uncomfortable 😩 can’t wait until she’s here, starting to try to naturally induce labour but think she’s pretty comfortable in there 😂

So done with being pregnant!
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bobble53 · 09/12/2019 10:47

I have my sweep today!! Please dear God let’s hope this works! 40+5 today!

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TTc2019BabyNo1 · 09/12/2019 11:08

@StephRae your bump looks like mine! I’m 38 weeks and feel so huge! Doesn’t feel like anything is happening! Urgh! How are you trying to induce labour naturally? I need tips!!

@ preggers506974215 good luck to you!! You May have a baby now 😃

@Samantha1712xx how are you getting on?

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Samantha1712xx · 09/12/2019 11:47

@bobble53 good luck with your sweep!!

@TTc2019babyNo1 no change here! Still niggly pains! Bit of a back ache throughout the night but now nothing again! So frustrating!

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WhenTwoBecomeThree · 09/12/2019 14:12

Progress ladies...we have a baby!! Contractions suddenly started just after midnight on Sunday morning and she was here by 8am yesterday. Everything went really fast and my contractions started at 3 mins apart. She's a tiny little dot and absolutely perfect!

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Samantha1712xx · 09/12/2019 14:17

@WhenTwoBecomeThree OMG YAY!!!! Congratulations!!

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agteacht · 09/12/2019 15:02

@WhenTwoBecomeThree omg so pleased for you! I was wondering how your induction was going but she hear you to it! Huge congrats, hope you are both doing well xx

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agteacht · 09/12/2019 15:02

*beat

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Autumntoowet · 09/12/2019 15:07

Still nothing.
Feeling really sad now. From 40 weeks until my first was born was horrible.
Here we go again 😞

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agteacht · 09/12/2019 15:07

Hope everyone else is okay. How did the sweep go @bobble53?

I had a bit of a frustrating hospital appt today.
Booked in for a sweep this Wednesday and induction next Monday 16th. Basically the only dates they would give me but I think I'd like to leave the induction a few more days until the 18th or so. Now thinking I should also try to push the sweep back?! Rather than having them so far apart?

Don't know what to do, felt really like no one was giving me any info on options, just pushing me through the system. Might have cried a little bit afterwards and I never cry 😢

Need the baby to decide to come by itself!!
Apparently very very low and fully engaged. Must just be too warm in there!

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