Telling people I'm pregnant for the 3rd time

[Zola78]

I am pregnant for the 3rd time and we planned it. My Ds1 is 2.5 and Ds2 is nearly 13 months. It's weird because all of a sudden I feel embarassed to tell people even though WE (DH and I) planned this. I don't know why! I'm educated and we can just about afford it (as much as anyone can afford to be pregnant) yet I feel almost irresponsible. Has anyone else felt like this???

Blimey!

Sensitivity to other people's feelings clearly not a priority then, Ricotta?

Respect Twinmuumy! And what a good post OldwomanWho...bringing children in to the world IS one of the most important things a person can do (and a huge contribution to society) and imo we shouldn't be made to feel ashamed of that.

Interesting article Roco but disagree profoundly. An Emeritus Professor of family planning and someone who has made a huge amount of money by writing books about contraception is not exactly going to be impartial is he?

Yes we need to safeguard our planet and the environment and teach our children to do the same. It is a precious resource. But ultimately what is being in the world all about? It's about our relationships with, and understanding of others and our love for our children. (And no I'm not a member of the happy clappy brigade in case you are wondering!!)

I've just re-read my rant (at Roco), I do agree with you, to a point and absolutely respect your decision to have the one and your reasons for it. I was in a v bad mood yesterday,and would never normally have reacted the way I did. Although I still stand by what I said as well.We all have to make our choices and do our bit.