BFPs after MC - Christmas Cake for Christmas Babies - Thread 1

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Here we go ladies!!! Let's continue it here and hope we all just switch from the TTC group to the pregnancy group

@BobbySD345 ah at least you got a pic, is all well though? Xx

@lolli18 will keep fingers crossed that all goes well tomorrow - you've had a really rough time of it but if you have symptoms that must be a good sign.

On the photos thing - with my first we had to pay £1/£2 and get a little token to take into the scan room and then the sonographer gave us one!

@kaytees thankyou I'm sure it will, I will let you know after appointment .
So nervous I'd feel stupid if it was ectopic or something got my hopes built up and told the family already. Idiot Leanne didn't think as usual lol

@lolli18 I have told my parents and sister already (5 ish weeks) but said to them the reason for that is because if I am poorly again I may need their help. Mum was a really big help when I was in and out of hospital last time.
I feel OK and have all the right symptoms but I am a bit freaked out by the pains in my lower left, sort of groin area sometimes but mainly lower left abdomen. I wonder if they're stretching and it's all fine but I didn't have them the first time... I think we all over think things though don't we !!

I have my fingers and toes crossed for you for tomorrow x

@BobbySD345 yea I suppose then knowing will be good to help out of things go wrong,
I can't wait for closure tomorrow although I'm currently distracted as I accidentally signed up to flipping amazon prime when trying to cancel the monthly membership and lost 79 pound out of bank shit! Rrr partners gunna be pleased lol 😕

@lolli18 haha as annoying as that is it's things like that which take your mind off bean!! I'm far better when I have a manic day at work too so the day goes quicker 🙈

@lolli18 just thought I’d let you know that as long as you haven’t used the services for the amazon prime, they will refund you.
I signed up for the free trial and totally forgot to cancel it in time.
When I went on there to cancel it, it said that as long as you haven’t used the services for the Amazon prime (doesn’t matter if you did during the free trial, which I did) then they will refund you x

@lolli18 as @BobbySD345 says, good to have the support so you have done the right thing by telling family - don't be so hard on yourself! I've told mum and sister too as they live on the other side of the world so can't be too involved. And that amazon prime membership will come in handy when baby arrives, trust me 😂

@lolli18 here you go

@MagicalCreatures OMG thankyou haha need the money at the min! As what a bloody relief lol hopefully he doesn't look before it gets refunded lol xx

@kaytees thankyou x

Petrified again :( sorry for tmi but I had an 'O' (didn't penetrate) about 2 hours ago just been for a wee and my knickers have blood in them browny/pinky not a large amount but now back to shitting myself!! Guess I'll just have to wait and see...

Oh no ! Maybe ring epu and ask for advise x

Advice

Is anybody else just so so tired? I'm struggling so much at work. My whole body feels like lead, I just want to curl up and sleep! Then I have to come home and do housework! Just want to cry a little bit. It is so debilitating.

Yeah I feel tired too,
My scan went well today seen Heartbeat !! Need a rescan in two weeks but it was amazing !! Thanks everyone for your help

Woo hoo! What a lovely little bean. Glad it went well.

And yep, as I get towards 6 weeks I'm exhausted and my nausea is definitely causing a few 'emergency ginger biscuits' moments.

@lolli18 yay !!! So pleased for you. Have they dated you where you thought based on what they could see today? I bet you are so relieved. Why did they say they want to see you again in 2 weeks? X

@Athers666 I was just speaking to hubby on the phone saying I get to around 3pm and hit a wall. He wants to go to the cinema tonight and all I want is PJs and bed.

@kaytees I've started feeling a bit sickly today but I think it is when I get hungry which is unhelpful because then I dont fancy anything and it's a vicious cycle ! I remember it being like this before from around 6 weeks.

No exhaustion, no sickness nothing here 😢 I think I might be approaching 6 weeks but can’t be sure as I haven’t had a period since my mc. My last 2 mc ended before 6 weeks so starting to feel anxious

Just to check all's ok I think hopefully nothing to worry about just said to see everything better, and no he didn't date it xx

Thankyou for your comments x

@Primrose16 you must have caught quickly then! I thought I would be really fertile post mc but it took me 6 months to catch. Don't worry too much you're almost past the milestone and then you can be happy 😁 you could ask EPU for an early scan to help you try and date ?

@lolli18 was it an internal scan or could they do it over your tummy?

@Primrose16 are you having an early scan? Hard not to worry with previous MC, but you may just be someone who doesn't get many symptoms! Everyone is different so I'll keep things crossed that you are just a 'lucky' (depending on your view) non nausea person xx

@BobbySD345 it was internal one

@BobbySD345 yep clearly I’m very fertile just have a issue keeping babies. I mc jan 12th and then recently March 21st. I think I will still be anxious then as I have previously had a mmc at 9 weeks- just keep thinking each milestone at a time. @kaytees I don’t have any scans booked in. I said to hubby today should I ring up EPU and ask for a scan with my history. He said what’s the point! Great! Supportive!!!! I was thinking that it might help me settle, all this worry surely isn’t good. Yes every pregnancy is different. With my daughter I felt ill up to 20 weeks, it was horrible but I kinda liked it as I figured everything was okay
@lolli18 glad your scan went okay