BFPs after MC - Christmas Cake for Christmas Babies - Thread 1

[Cakelaur]

Here we go ladies!!! Let's continue it here and hope we all just switch from the TTC group to the pregnancy group

Hi @Daffodil77 👋🏼 I had a scan at 6 weeks due to spotting.
@Martydog I'm still spotting too babe. Light brown spotting seems to just be all the time!! 😭 but only when wiping. Can't go for another scan until 11th May when I'm back from holiday. Hoping brown spotting is ok.

@peachesarenom I had a suspected ectopic last time, but not confirmed, so not sure what they'd do in this case.

I think I'd rather wait until week 7 and know it'll be a more reliable scan.

That sounds really stressful @Martydog - as you say, it might be nothing! My poor sister had horrendous bleeding at about 5 weeks and assumed she'd lost the baby but when they did a scan at around 7 all was fine... you do wonder why our bodies like to panic us like this. I will keep everything crossed that it's just 'normal' spotting x

Absolutely terrified for tomorrow I'm now worried there's gunna be nothing at all or no heartbeat which I know could be normal but will just make me worry more. I don't feel like I have any symptoms anymore but not in any pain at all.. it's so confusing. Scan is in the morning. Dreading going back to the place I was told I'd lost my first praying for a happier outcome!!!! Hope you are all ok xx

@xLeanne128 I hope all goes well babe. Keep us posted. 🤞🏻

@xleanne128 how many weeks do you think you are? I'm having scan on Monday think I will be 6+1 an also scared that even if they do see sack & baby if there's no heartbeat yet it won't really put my mind at rest! X

Thankyou @cakelaur my last period started on 10th march which makes me 7 weeks but I think more 6+2. We're in the same boat then @beck1988 can't believe were all having issues/anxiety people think it's getting hard that's the hardest in my opinion it's keeping it and trying not to worry and stress!! I'm petrified but suppose what will be will be... xx

@kaytees my moneys on you having twins 😂

By my calcs I should be 6 + 2. CBD is still saying 2-3 so I think something is wrong. That plus an empty sac when we went in on Monday is not a good sign

@BobbySD345 I don't know if it'll help but there's so many threads on here talking about how unreliable CBD can be. They can totally change depending on when in the day you wee etc.. I will keep everything crossed that your next scan is reassuring, as it sounds like you're really struggling xx

@BobbySD345 sending hugs babe. You could just be a couple days behind. When's the next scan?

Have slept through the last 2 nights and stopped weeing more :( not looking forward to this morning. My heart will actually break if it's negative.... :(

@xLeanne128 good luck darling. I hope you get the news you want. Will be thinking of you. 💐

Thinking of you @xLeanne128

@Cakelaur not until saturday. Part of me wants to bring it forward then the other part thinks they're more likely to see something if all is OK the later I leave it. How are you feeling?

Good on k @xLeanne128

Good luck @xLeanne128 🤞🏻I'll be thinking of you today babe. And don't forget to breathe! Xx

@BobbySD345 I think if you can hold out til next weekend then I would. You'll have much more progression by then. So you'll be more reassured in the long run. But if it's really stressing you out, maybe move it forward a couple of days to take some stress off you. Babies don't like stress.

Hi everyone..not posted in a few days as work has been manic and have been pretty tired but I'm still around on here. Sending love to all those who are worried. So glad we can talk on here. I'm seeing the midwife this week but not until Friday, so a bit of a wait yet. Not been sick or anything yet so still not especially hopeful that all is well with Bean. Just don't know.
@xLeanne128 Good luck today sweetheart. Xx

I burst out crying as she said let me show you what I'm seeing a teeny tiny blob with a flicker beating quickly. It's still very early but all is in the right place and heart is beating ❤ measurements put me back to 6weeks ish but unsure how accurate as it was a stomach ultrasound. Fingers crossed!! Xx

I've just adjusted my cycle length (finally got round to working it out at 34 days last month) on the NHS due date calculator and it comes up as 26th December ! A real Christmas baby. That is 6 days after the intial estimate of 20th Dec based on LMP 15th March and a 28 day cycle. Maybe that is why I am out on dates and midwife is saying I look like I am a week behind what I thought?

@Cakelaur I feel relaxed and I am trying to keep my mind occupied so hopefully I'm not too stressed that it would affect anything. Are you doing OK? What are your symptoms atm? I put one of those supersoft sports bras on last night because Friday night I couldn't sleep felt like I was lying on footballs 😂

@xLeanne128 that's brilliant !! I bet you feel so relieved. Will they have you back for another one or is that it now until 12 weeks ? X

No more now until 12weeks :) just wanted to be reassured baby was even in the right place/even existed! And now I know that I will do my best to chill out xx

@leanne I'm so relieved for you! Such good news. Xx

@xLeanne128 that’s fantastic news. So so happy for you x x x x

Thankyou all xxx

@xLeanne128 amazing news babe. Such a relief!!
@BobbySD345 I'm glad you're more relaxed babe. Much better way if you can keep it up.
My symptoms are few and far between. A bit of nausea. Mega tired all day every day, thirsty and cramps on and off. Can't wait for the tiredness to stop!!