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Pregnancy

Talk about every stage of pregnancy, from early symptoms to preparing for birth.

First Time Pregnancy (4)

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mrsjkerry · 23/07/2017 19:46

Time for a new thread. Hope you all find your way over ok xx

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lydiangel83 · 03/08/2017 22:32

Does anyone else's belly feel tight all over sometimes? I'm not sure if because baby has moved or growth spurt or another reason but quite uncomfortable!

mrsjkerry · 04/08/2017 09:55

Yes @lydiangel83 sometimes mine feels very tight and like it's being ridiculously stretched and then other days it just feels a bit flabby!

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SunyBay · 04/08/2017 11:15

Hi everyone!

I'm a first timer. 7 weeks today. Still early enough for me to not really believe it! We weren't really trying, but we weren't not trying either. I came off contraception over a year ago, and we said we'd see what happened. I had begun to think that I wasn't going to get pregnant, and then, here I am!

Right now, I'm really just suffering from tiredness and lightheadness (which is keeping me off work - I really hope the lightheadness stops soon!) and occasionally period-esque tingles. I have my booking in appointment on Tuesday, which I guess is when it will all start to sink in.

I'm already thinking about what we'll need (baskets, cots, prams, carseat etc) which I know is silly, since it's so early! But I figure there's so much choice out there that I'll need to do my research. Our house isn't particularly big, so that will limit what we can buy (co-sleeping isn't an option, since there just isn't room - the baby can be in our bedroom, but not beside the bed, for instance).

I'm also marginally terrified about the whole thing, as is my partner. I think we're both reassured that we're both equally terrified! (Although he's not the one with human being growing inside of him!) However, I understand that that is normal, which helps. I'm looking forward to being able to tell my mum (we decided that after the first appointment, we'll tell our parents - keeping this a secret is a bit of a nightmare!) as I'm sure she'll be able to reassure me too.

Anyhow, sorry for the ramble. It's nice to just talk about it to people that understand!

ew1990 · 04/08/2017 12:02

Does anyone else get movements that hurt a bit, it feels like she's pushing against my belly and I can feel a hand or a foot on the outside x

Bobbiepin · 04/08/2017 12:15

Welcome Suny, it'll all feel very new for a while but you'll soon get used to it.

@ew yes, all the time! She's so wriggly at the moment and has started getting caught under my ribs. Yesterday I couldnt walk up the stairs because the position she was in made it hurt to lift my legs up. I got half way up and got stuck!

SunyBay · 04/08/2017 12:34

Thank you Bobbiepin. :) I'm not nor have I ever been particularly maternal (you know, never cooing over babies, and the like) but also I couldn't imagine growing old and having never had a child. My mum's also not particularly maternal, and I turned out all right, so I guess we'll be fine!

lydiangel83 · 04/08/2017 12:46

I've been tracking my weight out of interest really and noticed that I've been c.73kg for a few weeks but now jumped up to 75kg. That's a full 10kg gain and I'm 27+1!

ew1990 · 04/08/2017 12:49

@Bobbiepin it's only lately I can feel a hand/foot, it's like a hard lump from the outside, she's currently wriggling away.

@lydiangel83 I've gained 2 stone from before pregnancy to now. 25+6.

lydiangel83 · 04/08/2017 13:22

@ew1990 that's crazy you can feel hands and feet! :-)

ew1990 · 04/08/2017 14:02

It's weird, it's like a hard lump, like she's pushing out, sometimes if I poke it she pokes back 😂😂

lydiangel83 · 04/08/2017 14:26

@ew1990 that's awesome!

Bobbiepin · 04/08/2017 14:42

Ew I'm exactly like that. The other night she was sitting with her back to my bellybutton, it was solid and we could properly feel her. Just amazing. She's taken to moving a lot when I roll over in bed, like I've shifted her and she needs to get comfy again. Sometimes I roll over just to watch her wiggle!

TheLionQueen1 · 04/08/2017 18:31

I do the same Bobbie, he loves his back to my belly button and it feels like he is trying to escape, I just push him back down now Grin

mrsjkerry · 04/08/2017 19:10

I can't feel anything like that!!! Still just feels like a fish flopping in there...

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Bobbiepin · 04/08/2017 19:15

How far along are you @MrsJ

mrsjkerry · 04/08/2017 20:04

26+1...

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Bobbiepin · 04/08/2017 21:25

Maybe you have a little baby? No idea, I'm only two weeks ahead of you. She did feel like a fish earlier on though.

Victoriaaaaaaaa · 04/08/2017 21:29

Just read online apparently we can't have foot massages? Hubby just gave me one 😳 Can induce labour apparently!

mrsjkerry · 04/08/2017 21:53

I only really started feeling identifiable movements from 25 weeks so I guess she's just slow/small.

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ew1990 · 04/08/2017 22:07

@Victoriaaaaaaaa never have I heard that, just follow nhs guidelines you'll be fine, and they are just that 'guidelines'.

Victoriaaaaaaaa · 04/08/2017 22:40

@ew1990 apparently there's pressure points in the foot and ankle that can induce labour. I know guidelines are just that guidelines but I never knew this about foot massage either so thought I'd let others know 🤔

ew1990 · 04/08/2017 23:55

Oh god yeah! Well I hate people touching my feet I'm dead ticklish lol

ew1990 · 04/08/2017 23:56

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First Time Pregnancy (4)
Littlelouse · 05/08/2017 11:08

@mrsjkerry do you know the position of your placenta?

mrsjkerry · 05/08/2017 11:13

Yes it's anterior and I think that explains a lot 😢

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