All this talk about common sense and choices is just hilarious. Please just step out of your bubble for a moment.
Whole communities were decimated in the eighties when the UK (and actually the US as well, thank you Thatcher and Reagan) essentially closed down manufacturing and turned instead to the finance industry to turn our country into U.K. PLC. The knock on effect of this is generations of children growing up without seeing their parents working as in lots of places nothing replaced these old industries (Docks, mining, steel works etc).
This sort of short sighted (or maybe it was intentional, who knows?) thinking remains and is now even worse with zero hour contracts, a stupidly low NMW combined with huge increases in housing costs (and energy costs spiralling) and the media ever provoking the race to the bottom means that CHOICE and COMMON SENSE are luxuries for some.
Our education system is being sucked dry and as for HE? If you're from a poor, poor background the idea of going to uni is now a remote dream thanks to the exorbitant tuition fees and low grants.
So much for social mobility eh? Maybe it's easier to just have a baby, and another one and whoops here's another one.
Oh and since, fucking, when did we place such a low, low, lowest of the low value on child rearing?
So you all carry on feeling better than someone else. Personally I felt pretty good about our country when we looked after our vulnerable people. I have never resented a penny of tax or felt some weird twisted jealousy at someone receiving benefits, not even people making "poor choices" or not using "common sense"