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Whos my unborn baby's father?

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user1483558208 · 10/01/2017 18:33

Need help working out who my unborn baby's dad is? My lmp was 23/11/16. I had sex with guy #1 on the 3/12/16 & 9/12/16, he didn't ejaculate inside of me. I had sex with guy #2 on 4/12/16 and the next few days, he ejaculated in me every time we had sex. I probably ovulated on the 7th/8th. who could be my child's father?

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VettiyaIruken · 24/06/2021 12:12

They're probably both our beloved Who's The Daddy troll. Speaking of - not seen them around for a bit. I wonder how they're getting on.

MarieIVanArkleStinks · 24/06/2021 12:16

@user1483558208

People can judge all they want. I came on here to ask a question not for people to slate me. I had my reasons.
Precisely so, OP. It's none of our business.

The bad news is that as PPs have pointed out there is no way to tell with certainty without a paternity test. Unfortunately #1 isn't discounted on the basis that he didn't ejaculate. I'm sorry this probably isn't the answer you were wanting, but whatever you decide, you know yourself that your baby's interests come first.

I hope everything works out for you.

DinoHat · 24/06/2021 12:17

This is a regular poster who posts the same scenario periodically.

MarieIVanArkleStinks · 24/06/2021 12:18

Another fucking Zombie. Why do people continually resurrect these things? It's trolling: it's not as though there isn't a warning at the bottom of the thread stating the thing hasn't been posted on for years and why not start a new one?

Don't be a dick.

ExhaustedFlamingo · 24/06/2021 12:20

@MarieIVanArkleStinks

This was 4 years ago, hope she's figured out what to do by now.... Wink

ZOMBIE THREAD

ZO-OMBIE

ZO-OMBIE

I have the Cranberries song in my head now.

SirGawain · 24/06/2021 12:24

This is a Zombie thread from 2017!

BumbleFlump · 24/06/2021 12:24

Wtf do they end up in trending? 🤷🏻‍♀️

Doris86 · 24/06/2021 12:29

Because someone resurrects it, and then people keep posting on out, like you did! (and now me!)

SofiaMichelle · 24/06/2021 12:39

@Doris86

Because someone resurrects it, and then people keep posting on out, like you did! (and now me!)
Precisely why I make a point of not posting on Zombie threads!
Doris86 · 24/06/2021 12:51

Same here **SofiaMichelle. It’s all those idiots that keep posting that keep these zombie posts going and in ‘trending’.

Viviennemary · 24/06/2021 12:54

Resurrecting Zombie threads like this one is trolling. But doesn't look like anything is going to be done about it. There is a thread on site stuff about the problem.

sweetgingercat · 24/06/2021 12:58

Jesus, people are really judgemental and horrid, we don't know the circumstances, why jump to the worst conclusion?

Hope it isn't too complicated and works out for you and your partner OP...

ChargingBuck · 24/06/2021 13:06

Dunno, but as you've been having unprotected sex with more than one partner, I suggest you arrange STI checks, for your own & your baby's wellbeing.

ChargingBuck · 24/06/2021 13:07

Aaaw feck - ZOMBIE!

& I fell for it. As you were, everyone ...

Boomisshiss · 24/06/2021 13:18

Guy number 2

Rebelwithverysharpclaws · 24/06/2021 13:22

I hope you have a good outcome OPFlowers. Ignore the few people on here with their big ole judgy pants pulled up tight.

ClarisseMcClellan · 24/06/2021 13:25

@User504504

What was the outcome?
OMG, have you had this on some kind of watch list for the past 4 years sitting on the edge of your seat?

You haven't even tagged the OP, how's she gonna know you're waiting with bated breath?

Do those who are replying not know how dates work. did it not seem odd that someone who had unprotected sex in 2017 still had an unborn baby Grin

TheresNothingIWantMore · 24/06/2021 13:39

I know it's a zombie thread but I cant help but wonder if there was a post on here where a man had unprotected sex with another woman while trying to get his girlfriend pregnant if there'd be as many calls not to judge him

ittakes2 · 24/06/2021 13:39

zombie thread

AliceLivesHere · 24/06/2021 13:44

Either. Tell them both you are pregnant and don't know who the father is FOR CERTAIN. Then when baby is born have a DNA test to find out. Don't play guessing games.

AliceLivesHere · 24/06/2021 13:45

Damn I was trying to be helpful didn't realise someone opened an old thread.

zingally · 24/06/2021 14:06

TBH, could be either. #2 is probably more likely, but unless you get a DNA test, you can't be certain.

Doris86 · 24/06/2021 14:10

@zingally

TBH, could be either. #2 is probably more likely, but unless you get a DNA test, you can't be certain.
Given this happened 3.5 years ago, the OP has probably worked out who the father is by now.
AliceLivesHere · 24/06/2021 14:15

[quote ExhaustedFlamingo]@MarieIVanArkleStinks

This was 4 years ago, hope she's figured out what to do by now.... Wink

ZOMBIE THREAD

ZO-OMBIE

ZO-OMBIE

I have the Cranberries song in my head now.[/quote]
That's a brilliant song.

CustardySergeant · 24/06/2021 14:20

@AliceLivesHere

Damn I was trying to be helpful didn't realise someone opened an old thread.
How did all the dates in the first post not tip you off?
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