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Whos my unborn baby's father?

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user1483558208 · 10/01/2017 18:33

Need help working out who my unborn baby's dad is? My lmp was 23/11/16. I had sex with guy #1 on the 3/12/16 & 9/12/16, he didn't ejaculate inside of me. I had sex with guy #2 on 4/12/16 and the next few days, he ejaculated in me every time we had sex. I probably ovulated on the 7th/8th. who could be my child's father?

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BoneyBackJefferson · 10/01/2017 21:35

HelenDenver

I would hope that enough people would call her on it, so that she sees the sense in telling her partner and giving him the choice as to whether he wants to bring up another man's child.

Of course the partner could be female and this is part of their plan.

HelenDenver · 10/01/2017 21:37

Not what the thread is about, BBJ.

I imagine OP has got the info she was seeking, if she wants relationship advice, she will
No doubt ask.

qwertyuiopasdfghjkl · 10/01/2017 21:49

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BoneyBackJefferson · 10/01/2017 21:53

HelenDenver

I have already posted that a DNA test would be the best way to confirm paternity.

The rest is opinion (and speculation), which is what you get when you post on an open forum.

Quarksoundslikequack · 10/01/2017 22:00

Her partner isn't female, she stated he came inside her.....

Anyways, it's her life....it's her decision, she do what she likes.

Fact is, everyone gets excused for the things they do, why not OP??

ComputerUserNumptyTwit · 10/01/2017 22:24

We don't know the circumstances. Not that it would be any of our business.

Half the posts on this thread should be deleted imo. Or alternatively left to stand so we can see just who the compassionless, unimaginative and blinkered fuckers who walk among us are.

ShallNotBeNamed · 10/01/2017 22:29

What a load of judgemental people, her partner could have been with her while she had sex with guy2?!

Embra · 10/01/2017 23:06

You have non invasive pre natal paternity tests now, where similarly to harmony/ panorama test the fatal free cell DNA is extracted and compared to the father. It's pricey though , around 900f in U.K. And you need a father's DNA to test ( you can actually send both fathers at the same time)

Jahari55 · 09/12/2019 13:59

Hi ladies .. I had my last period August 1st 2019 .. I ovulated on the 16th I keep a ovulation kit.. I had sex with my boyfriend unprotected on the 11&12&14&15&16 ..I got drunk on the 13th and had sex with my high school sweet heart in that night on the 13th ..we used protection both times ..but I’m scared that wat if sperm leaked out idk we were both drunk .. both condones had semen in them .. I have a trash can in my room and he put both in trash can ..my due date is May 8th 2020. My doctor said I concieved on August 16th ..me and my current boyfriend had sex on that morning and the night before and the night before and he came in me every time ..I need help ?? Can someone let me know if I’m over reacting

User504504 · 24/06/2021 09:52

What was the outcome?

User504504 · 24/06/2021 09:53

Jahari55
What was the outcome?

Stillhurting786 · 24/06/2021 10:30

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TellingBone · 24/06/2021 10:49

Zombie

Crepescular · 24/06/2021 10:52

@flumpybear

Hodd- bit harsh, we all make mistakes from time to time - bad choices about many things - OPs trying to rationalise and sort it
It's not a 'mistake', though, is it? It's the direct result of thoughtless and immoral behaviour.

Poor kid. Poor partner.

secretrugbyfan · 24/06/2021 10:58

@DearMrDilkington

hodd the bloke that runs the chip shop where I live is called BarryGrin
There's a guy who works down the chip shop swears he's Elvis.....
musthavebeenlove · 24/06/2021 11:10

I would say it’s most likely #2.

Is one of them your partner and the other one a fling (no judgement)? I once read that you have a higher chance of getting pregnant from a stranger’s sperm then your regular partner’s sperm if you’re having sex with both during the same cycle.

Pyewackect · 24/06/2021 11:12

@Christmasbaby16

Maybe do the decent think and get a DNA test rather than relying on mumsnet for the answer to your predicament....Hmm
Exactly.
Viviennemary · 24/06/2021 11:16

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Thread. Too znnoying.

musthavebeenlove · 24/06/2021 11:19

I wonder now why it was resurrected...and who turned out to be the father !

grapewine · 24/06/2021 11:41

@PigletWasPoohsFriend

It was just the two guys and yes I know when I ovulated I know my body very well and keep track as me and my partner were trying for a baby.

Then I hope your partner knows you have had unprotected sex with someone else.

This. And yes, feeling for your partner in this is not slating you.

Get a DNA test, no one here will be able to tell you.

grapewine · 24/06/2021 11:42

Oh, shit. I didn't notice.

Peach01 · 24/06/2021 12:03

Probably 2. Which one is your partner?

Peach01 · 24/06/2021 12:04

Damn. Wonder who it was

Fleetw00d · 24/06/2021 12:08

I'm invested I want to know what happened with OP and @Jahari55 👀

BoreOfWhabylon · 24/06/2021 12:10

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