Whos my unborn baby's father?

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Need help working out who my unborn baby's dad is? My lmp was 23/11/16. I had sex with guy #1 on the 3/12/16 & 9/12/16, he didn't ejaculate inside of me. I had sex with guy #2 on 4/12/16 and the next few days, he ejaculated in me every time we had sex. I probably ovulated on the 7th/8th. who could be my child's father?

Is this a joke?

Some people are reckless! Hope you've not contracted sti.

Bridget?

Brilliant

Let's not judge shall we?? OP hope your okay?

Oh dear! But I suppose you aren't the first nor will you be the last.

Op either of them could be the father. You'll need to do a dna test once baby is born or you could do a paternity test now, although I've heard the test for that has some risks.

Please don't try to guess by how the baby looks when its born. That isn't going to help anyone.

Does your boyfriend know you slept with someone else?
I'm not judging by the way, everyone makes mistakes.

Either. But most likely 2.

I can't believe how judgemental some of you are.

pink a lot of people on here have been cheated on so they naturally will feel angry about the situation and sympathize with the ops partner.

Could be either really... best bet is to wait till baby is born and have a dna test done then hope you get the outcome you hope for

nothing to do with judging a woman for having sex, at all, whatsoever.

Think its shit to drag a kid into this tacky mess. Plus it's a bit shit on the person she was trying for a baby with no?

pink a lot of people on here have been cheated on so they naturally will feel angry about the situation and sympathize with the ops partner

^ this. There is also usually also a lot of vitriol thrown at the cheating partner, not posts of 'let's not be judgemental'

Either are possible. How long is your cycle normally? I would put my money on bloke 2 but wouldn't rule 1 out...Fingers crossed you didn't release two eggs, it could be both!

Before she mentioned she had a partner there had already been a comment asking if it was just the two guys she'd slept with and another saying if she'd slept with any other guys around the same time it could be them. Both out of the blue 'Oh, well if she's slept with two she must have slept with the whole town' nasty, pearl clutching, judgy comments.

Wowza keep your knickers on in future ! Your poor partner.

can you just clarify, you are ok with someone being mid commitment of TTC and fucking someone else unprotected? Potentially lumbering some witless bloke to stump up cash for a kid that is barry from the chipshop's yes? No judgement there at all, whatsover, in fact, if you have teenage DS's and they bring a girlfriend home pregnant, you hear this sorry tale you'll be thrilled and telling your work colleagues that 'we may be being a grandmother'.

Rubs chin (if this is real of course)

Op didn't you post about this the other day? There was an identical thread...

Before she mentioned she had a partner there had already been a comment....if she'd slept with any other guys around the same time it could be them.

Nothing 'judgemental' about that. Basic biology!

hodd the bloke that runs the chip shop where I live is called Barry

Jesus some of the posts here are a disgrace. They say more about the idiots making them than they go about the op.

Hodd

See, the question was about DNA testing, not morality. In pregnancy, not Aibu or relationships.

She is pregnant now and I assume will proceed.

So I focused on the question.

Am I the only one seeing the were in the Ops sentence about her and her partner trying for a baby? To me the were implies they have broken up.

Anyway back to the question, OP I'd assume number 2, however without a DNA test you will never be sure.