Staying posifrickentive- Thread 11 for ladies pg after mc

[LynseyH]

New thread!! The other one closed down!

Yay for dino and kate. Great news for you both!

I've just booked a gender scan 🙄 one week from tomorrow we will know what our little one is and also breaks up the wait until my 20 wk scan! So excited.

So sorry broody.

I'm so sorry, Mrs and Broody. Mrs this is such a shock. I hope you both have lots of support in rl x

Oh Mrs I'm so so sorry. I hate that this is happening to so many people. Thinking of you, look after yourself

Omg Mrs I'm so sorry for your loss, I've no words, if no need to talk please fee free to message any time, xxxxx

Mrs and broody I'm so sorry. There are no words to say - its such a crap thing to go through once, let along multiple times. I hope you are being looked after and feeling OK physically. My heart goes out to you both.

Broody I'm so sorry. Hope you've got support & take care of yourself.

Mrs, oh no, I'm so sorry, I really hope you take of yourself & thank you for your words, you've always been so kind.

Finally managed to speak to a very lovely midwife who also couldn't believe the EPUs attitude and that they wouldn't see me. She recommended booking a private scan which I have done for Sunday. So just have to sit tight until then. Bleeding has stopped and returned to the brown spotting I've had for a while. Still no pg symptoms and cramping is on and off. I go from positive to negative every minute!

Oh no mrs. So very sorry, there is no words I can offer right now but please be kind to yourself. Truly devastated for you. What a sad day.

I'm really sorry to those who have had losses. Be kind to yourself

I have been mostly lurking here because my anxiety has been off the charts and I have been pretty much trying to pretend I am not pregnant. Anyway I had my dating scan yesterday and I most definitely am pregnant and was dated 1 day ahead of my dates.

The sonographer was great, I told her that I'd had a previous mmc so she turned off the screen and did a super quick look and said 'baby with a heartbeat!' Then she let me have a little cry and compose myself and then she did the scan properly with the screen on. Not as wriggly as DD but she assured me that there was nothing that concerned her at all

Good luck to everyone else xxx

I'm really sorry to those who have had losses. Be kind to yourself

I have been mostly lurking here because my anxiety has been off the charts and I have been pretty much trying to pretend I am not pregnant. Anyway I had my dating scan yesterday and I most definitely am pregnant and was dated 1 day ahead of my dates.

The sonographer was great, I told her that I'd had a previous mmc so she turned off the screen and did a super quick look and said 'baby with a heartbeat!' Then she let me have a little cry and compose myself and then she did the scan properly with the screen on. Not as wriggly as DD but she assured me that there was nothing that concerned her at all

Good luck to everyone else xxx

Welcome to happy, congrats on the scan that's amazing news!
Xxx

I'm glad your feeling more positive JPEG, I think that's terrible of the EPU to have treated you that way, at least you have had a lovely MW today.
Doesn't cost them a penny to be kind and reassuring, some folk just don't have the patience and in the baby business that's something you need to have in gallons.

What a day 😥

So sorry broody and mrs. Take care of yourselves

So sorry to hear sad news today. broody and mrs, I hope you're both able to surround yourself with the right people. Wish there was something I could say. Nothing about this is fair.

So very sorry Mrs and broody. Please take care of yourselves and wish you all the luck in the world xx

I've spent the day at the hospital with dh. His nan has taken am unexpected turn and only has a few hours. Pil are on holiday desperately trying to get on a flight. It's awful. So sorry for all who are going through a tough time right now. I'm thinking of you all.

So sorry for the losses, week 28 here and perfect scan dispite the single artery. Thank you xxxBec for the info. Baby weighs 1.2 Kg

That's amazing flourishing, baby is gunna be a whopper 1.2 already!

Mrs and Broody so sorry to read your news, my heart goes out to you both going through this again, it's so hard and there's no real rhyme or reason to any of it. All I can hope is that you have lots of support IRL and time to heal, and that if you then choose to try again that it'll be your turn for a happy ending next time

whats thoughts are with you too, losing grandparents is a sad day - she may well still be able to sense your DH is there and draw comfort from that

So sorry to read this today Mrs and Broody. Take care of yourselves.

Today my partner finally told his parents I'm pregnant (long story why they wasn't already told). Somehow that managed to trigger massive anxiety that now everyone knows, what if something goes wrong. The little prods I'm feeling are obviously not very regular yet and I kept thinking it's been ages since I felt it. I ran upstairs when it got too much and got my doppler out, straight away there was the heartbeat, stronger and louder than usual. As if to say "relax mummy, I'm here". By the sounds that were coming through my earphones, it sounded like she was doing somersaults too.
Do these anxieties ever go away?? Or are we doomed to feel this way until baby arrives? Ever since I found out baby is a girl, she's not an 'it' anymore and I'm totally invested.

I'm so sorry if this is an insensitive post after such sad news today.
whatser I'm so sorry about your nan-in-law. I hope everyone can get there in time. Love and thoughts to everyone who needs it tonight xxx