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SOooooooooo nervous, please cross your fingers for me at 11.30

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PeckaRolloverAgain · 20/12/2006 10:38

Im having a scan to see if we can see a heartbeat or if there has been no growth

I have about a 50/50 chance I SO hope that its good news.

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popsycal · 24/12/2006 09:10

omg pecka
i am glad that he was upset - about time

please dont think about dying on christmas day hun!!!!
please ring me if you need me
i am in and out for the next few days but back properly on 27th

cyrilthefestivesquirrel · 24/12/2006 09:22

are your HCG levels still rising slowly? when did they test them last?

Slowly rising HCG levels can be a sign of an ectopic. I know it probably sounds like I am being alarmist but I do think, for peace of mind you should try and be seen today.

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PeckaRolloverAgain · 24/12/2006 09:34

yes the hcg levels have been slowly rising, they went like this

851
1003
1543
1844
1989

or something like that

last checked day before yesterday not getting checked again until wednesday

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merrylissiemas · 24/12/2006 09:34

how are you doing today pecka? thinking of you

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PeckaRolloverAgain · 24/12/2006 09:35

im ok, feeling a bit less doom and gloom!!

although my eyes are REALLY annoying me. all of the crying and stress means I have really puffy eyes and a stye. MOST unattractive.

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cyrilthefestivesquirrel · 24/12/2006 09:37

did you phone the gynae ward?

merrylissiemas · 24/12/2006 09:37

lovely! try a cold flannel any more pain?

lulumama · 24/12/2006 09:39

glad DH has woken up and smelt the coffee! you sound really strong and determined..and it is.Xmas eve! think of the kids faces tomorrow morning ! i'll be on MSN today and a bit on boxing day if you need ....... chin up, my love, you have done sooooo well to hold it together and you will get through this...

DH will take this on board , no doubt and start focusing on you......

hope today is a better day xxx

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PeckaRolloverAgain · 26/12/2006 11:16

just to let you all know that nothing has happened still.

No more bleeding, a little pain but not much.

Im completely confused by it all and cant wait for hospital at 5pm tomorrow to see what the hell is goin on

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merrylissiemas · 26/12/2006 11:39

oh pecka, this limbo is horrid isnt it? fingers crossed for tomorrow

lulumama · 26/12/2006 11:41

pecka..hope you had a good day yesterday ,and that you will get some answers tomorrow xx

Dingdongdebbsyandbibbyonhigh · 26/12/2006 15:00

Pecca so sorry your going through this hun do hope dh has realised and is last supporting you xxxxxxxxxxx thinking of you tomorrow.

Rosydingdongmerrily · 26/12/2006 17:29

My dh sounds a bit like yours, not dealing with things until it becomes an absolute crisis. I hope he manages to make it up to you now and be more supportive. Thinking about you and wishing you well over the next while.

popsycal · 26/12/2006 19:50

pecha thinking of you tomorrow

babylove123 · 26/12/2006 23:06

Good luck to you

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PeckaRolloverAgain · 27/12/2006 12:32

appointment at 5pm. does anyone know if I can request a D+C? I just cant go through this walkin around waiting for a miscarriage for another week.

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merrylissiemas · 27/12/2006 12:34

i dont think they can d&c but they might be able to give you something to speed things up. how are you doing today?

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PeckaRolloverAgain · 27/12/2006 12:36

im ok - just very, very tired and very, very sick of this being at the back of my mind every blinking minute!

Feeling much brighter than I was a day or so before christmas.

Thanks, as ever for the ongoing support

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merrylissiemas · 27/12/2006 12:42

i know prob wont be able to log on tonight but will try to check in. hows dh behaving now?

popsycal · 27/12/2006 14:21

waiting for your news pecka xxx

cyrilthefestivesquirrel · 27/12/2006 16:28

how far gone are/were you?

Having a d & c would depend on what their diagnosis is and how advanced the pregnancy is.

popsycal · 27/12/2006 18:02

pecka my mobile has diefd and cant find charger....
hope to hear from you spooon

merrylissiemas · 27/12/2006 18:43

bumping for pecka

mummytosteven · 27/12/2006 19:06

hope you are Ok Pecka.

popsycal · 27/12/2006 19:25

will put credir on my phone and trxt as soon as ds2 id asleep