best shit place to be #4!! Pregnancy after miscarriage

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Continuation from previouspost for those pregnant after miscarriage

Ps sorry for random post just so happy about it lol

Happy 20 weeks barbie!!! X

Thankyou chasing :-) x

Hi. Can I join? Only 4+ weeks pregnant following 3 miscarriages. I am still waiting for my appt at recurrent m/c clinic.
Very much in limbo and unsure what to feel.

Barbie happy 20 weeks! Great milestone to get passed, half way, eek!

Hi flora, congrats and welcome! The first few weeks months are a difficult time, but we have all been there so happy to answer any questions or listen to your thoughts, even if you just want to have a great big moan! x

barbie that's a brilliant milestone.

I'm just a few weeks ahead of you and it's suddenly all feeling very real. Wonderful but weird after holding back my hopes for so long

Congratulations flora :-)
Thanks amyyy and North
North i honestly didn't think we would feel more content until the baby was here, although in still on edge I'm starting to feel... Well excited! X

Had my 20 week scan today. All is well and baby was wriggling away. We didn't find out the sex

I'm starting to buy things now and it's all getting v exciting. I can't believe how quickly the last 8 weeks have gone. Lets hope the next 20 go quickly too!!

Fantastic news wispy glad all went well for you. X

Excellent news wispy woo! !

Congratulations and welcome flora xx

Congrats on 20 weeks barbie. Fantastic and hope your scan goes well tomorrow.

Welcome flora and congratulations. It's such an anxious time, but we're all hear for support and to listen.

Great news on your scan wispy, we're not planning on finding out the sex either. enjoy your shopping!

I'm loving the sunshine, off home now to sit in the garden

Great news wispy :)

Welcome and congratulations flora wishing you an uneventful 8 months.

Great news on the scan wispy and good luck for tomorrow barbie are you finding out the sex?

All well here. 16 weeks now (can't believe how quickly it's going!) can't wait for the 20 week scan!

Thanks all. Best get a good thumb twiddle on.

I have just completely lost it with dh, proper scary pregnant lady style.

Every fucking time I get a shower he turns the tap on downstairs to wash up or some other stupid reason. Literally every time. I never get a shower without it turning into a cold drip for several minutes. He just forgets every time and it's so infuriating, since his showers are never disturbed by cold drips or tiny people.

I worked 7-6 yesterday with an hrs drive either side then was up till 11.30 completely shattered doing paperwork, with sweaty.. crying dd on my lap because she wouldn't sleep. I was so tired this morning I questioned my ability to drive. It's so hot I'm not sleeping and I have been desperate to shower but just didn't get a chance last night/this morning.

I got home and got straight in the shower.. my back is agony and I'm exhausted and was just stood under the water having longer than the usual 5 minutes thinking how nice it was when dh turns the fucking tap on down stairs and then FORGETS it and gets distracted in the garage. I literally just stormed downstairs like a hysterical screeching fish wife before returning to sob in shower.

And I feel equally embarrassed at myself for my behaviour and yet so angry at dh that I've taken myself to bed because I can't even look at him for complete rage right now.

AND BREATHE.

A large cooling drink at you chasing!
The least he can do is grovel, having bought all of the ice creams/ lollies and agreed to nothing but li-ins for you!

Hi, I don't expect anyone remembers me but I was here one or two threads ago and been quiet waiting for 12 week scan which is next week but I started bleeding last night. Red blood but it's not as bad as I expected this morning - more brown now but I'm so scared. Am I ok to ring gp and ask for a scan? Don't want to waste time/resources and in my prev pregnancy I would have waited and thought all would be ok but I don't feel like that now! Sorry to come back with this, I'm sure you're all dealing with you're own concerns and I don't want to make anyone feel worse but I needed someone who would understand.

Hey Lilianna I remember x

I'm so sorry to hear you're bleeding, it's so scary when that happens. Definitely call gp and get an epu referal asap. Do you feel ok? X

Thanks chasing. Honestly I don't know. Some cramps last night but not major painful and not sure I trust myself this morning as I didn't sleep much last night and I'm not sure if it's cramp, hunger, stress or just in my head. Will call gp when they open and see what they say.

I remember what it's like. The uncertainty of everything.. the quicker you get to EPU they can identify - hopefully harmless- where the bleed is coming from and you'll know more. I was going to ask about symptoms but I've realised they are a red herring. I've felt more pregnant when I technically wasn't anymore than I have done at times in this *tough wood successful pregnancy.

It's set to be a very very hot day. Keep your fluids up and rest/call in sick. Don't leave gp with no epu referal. I'll be thinking of you lovely. . I hope it's just some weird unexplained and unnecessary worry thing. Xxxx

Will be thinking of you this morning lilliana

I agree, push for an EPU referral, I'll be keeping my fingers crossed

Will do all those and let you know how it goes. Thanks again x

Hi Lilliana sorry to hear about the bleeding, like the others have said you need a referral to EPAU. Try not to panic, hope you get seen very soon and best of luck x

Hey Lilliana, I agree, you need a referral to the EPU, in my area you can get referred through the midwives as well as the GP. Hopefully it's nothing to worry about and one of those odd things that happens, but you need to be seen. Thinking of you and hoping for good news x

Sorry you're going through this liliana have you managed to get an EPU appointment? Fingers crossed for you