Another posifrickintive thread for those pregnant after miscarriage #4

[Treaclepie19]

Welcome aboard ladies - bumps big and small :)

thanks pizza bet you cant wait to wreak revenge

we barely have room for us two nevermind a baby as well and flat is damp so luckily for me not much choice about moving.

ooh a pre-booking presentation sounds interesting, hope all goes well and you get through it without dp!

Congratulations on a successful scan Treacle.

I don't have full on nausea as such anymore, but have a constant vile taste in my mouth that makes me feel sick. I think I'm almost as excited about getting rid of the vile taste as I am about meeting my baby. 30 + 4.

I'll do another stats date in a bit, so let me no if you'd like to be added or need anything changing.

Thanks all :)
Gr33dy I don't think I'll ever relax :p

Happy my placenta is posterior so I think i have to accept what I've been feeling is movement and I've just been making myself worry over nothing (there's something new)

I can't wait to meet him :)

Ok ladies looking for your opinion...just arrived back from a week in Italy where it was around 28oC and I have a rash on my belly and on my thighs. I kept bump shaded but it could be a heat rash or I swapped from bio oil to cocoa butter for stretch marks so could be that but unsure whether to go to hospital . Reason I am extra worried is found out I was sat beside someone on a course two weeks ago who has now been diagnosed with shingles and whilst my rash doesn't look like the online pics of shingles and the midwife didn't seem concerned when I called when I found out it's obviously still playing on my mind plus as I have an anterior placenta I can't properly feel the baby kick so don't have that reassurance either although I have definite movement.

So what's your thoughts would you go to hospital to get the rash checked or wait a day or two?

Actually, I'm 32 + 4. Baby brain!.

cava - I had a rash on my bump at one point and found that 'E45 anti-itch' cream helped.

If you're at all worried cava I'd try and see your mw or maybe a pharmacist in the meantime.

Oh thanks smallbear , I've just realised I don't have the awful taste atm! Long may it stay away (obviously sorry you have). I do have over sensitive nipples though

Did you find anything that successfully got rid of it Gr33dy? Nothing will shift it. Mints seem to make it worse

Cava rashes of various kinds are very common but there's no harm asking your midwife to check it out?

Definitely think it's worth getting looked at even just to put your mind at ease cava x

Just got back from pre booking in great spirits to get a phone call saying I've lost my job. Haven't stopped crying since, we can't afford rent and bills on one income let alone a baby. Absolutely crushed

Time for a stats update

Haily111: DC3, MC May 2014, EDD 5 May 2015.
Mslad: 33, no DC, MMC June 2014, EDD 18 May 2015.
ToriB34: 34, no DC, MMC in July 2014, EDD 29 May 2015.
longestlurkerever: 1DD, 2MC, 1MMC, EDD 30 May 2015.
SunbathingCat: 35, no DC, MMC in May 2014, EDD 13 June 2015.
WrappedInABlankie: 1 DS, ectopic 3/14, EDD 22 June 2015.
Phryn: 32, no DC, MC in Aug 14, EDD 6 June 2015.
thesmallbear: 33, no DC, 1 MMC in June 2014, EDD 2 July 2015.
Boozle80: 1NMC, 2MMC, 1DD, EDD 4 July 2015.
sarahlou20: 35, no DC, 1 MMC, EDD 9 July 2015.
ThePurplegiraffe: 36, 1DD, 1 MC in Sep 2014, EDD 11 July 2015.
Ibelieveinpink: 31, MC, MC, DD1, EDD 12 July 2015.
Ignominious: DD, MMC in August, EDD 12 July 2015.
Broodylicious: 36, 1 DD, 1 MC at 12 weeks on Feb 27, EDD 20 July 2015.
Thegirlwiththebrokensmile: 28, 1 DD age 2, 2 MC, 1MMC, EDD 23 July 2015.
Charlieis30: no DC, MC Feb 14 7.5w, MC Aug 14 9w (trisomy), EDD 26 Jul 2015.
Littlelady33: no DC, MMC March 13 and 14, EDD 25 July 2015.
Happygojo: 28, no DC, MMC September 2014 (blighted ovum), EDD 10 August 2015.
Daisysunshine: 23, no DC, TTC 14 months, 1MC Sept 2014, EDD 10 August 2015.
enviousllama: 33, 1DS (2yo), 1MMC (Nov '14), EDD 4 Sept 2015.
cavamonster: 37, no DC, MC Dec 2011, MMC Mar 2012 & Jan 2013, Ashermans & Endometriosis, EDD 4 September 2015.
CommanderShepard: 32, 1 DD via EMCS, 1 MC December 2014 (5 wks), EDD 14 September 2015.
Treaclepie19: 24, 1 MC in May 2014 at 8+4, EDD 20 September 2015.
worriedmum100: 39, 1 DS (nearly 4). 2 MCs around 6 w (June 2010 and Feb 2014), 1 MMC (July 2014 at 9 w). Also have endometriosis & Ashermans Syndrome. EDD 24 September 2015.
bythesea82: 32, no DC, 3MC around 10-11 weeks, EDD 8th October 2015.
Allthefours: 41, 3 DC (20, 18, 15), 1MMC July 2014 @ 13 weeks, 1 MC August 2014 @ 5+3 weeks, EDD 17th October 2015.
SomeSortOfDeliciousBiscuit: 30, TOP at 14wks due to abnormalities, 1 DS, had cancer treatment, 2MC at 4-5weeks. EDD 29 October 2015.
northdownmummy:40, 1DD (2), 1MC Aug 2014 10w, EDD 29 October 2015.
gr33dyeggs: 35, 1 DS (6), 2 MC 08 & 14, EDD of 30 October 2015.
Amyyy27: MMC Oct 14, EDD 11 November 2015.
Rebeccaelizabethxo: No DC, MMC June 2014 at 9+3, MC in January 2015, EDD 29 November 2015.
pizzakat: 23, no DC, MMC Dec 2014 at 10+ 2. EDD 2nd December 2015.
Natalieday1: 28, 3 DS (11,8 and 3) MC 1st mar 2015, EDD 6th December 2015.
Metalhead: 1 DD, 1 MMC in Feb 2014, EDD 11 December 2015.
Cariad2014: DC1, had a CP at 4+5 in June 2014 followed by a ruptured ectopic and tube removal in September 2014, EDD 16 December 2015.
mrsdiddlydoo: 34, 1DS, 2MC, EDD 17 December 2015.
HariboBrenshnio: 25, DS is 18 months, MMC at 9 weeks in October, EDD 17/18 of December but probably C section around the 10th.
Jodiesaurus: 2 DD's, MC in January 2015, EDD 20th December 2015.
cloudjumper: 43, 1 DS (4), 3 early MCs in 2013 (3rd was trisomy 2), 2nd trimester MC in 2014 (trisomy 18). EDD 28 December 2015.
cherrylola: 29, DS 23 months, MMC February 2015, new PG due December (date TBC).
kep1979: 36, 2 DS' from previous marriage, MC 15 March 2015 at 6+2, EDD 19 January 2016.

Need updates

Psmith: 1 MP, 1 MC, EDD 23 April 2015
OneDayLikeThis2013: 27, no DCs, MMC June 2014, EDD 26 April 2015

Thread Babies

Jessw25: Baby Oliver born 9 July 2013, 5lb 11oz.
BobaFetaCheese: Baby Alexander born 30 July 2013, 7lb 4oz.
Andadietcoke: twin girls born 29 August 2013, Charlotte 5lb 5oz & Sophie 7lb 13oz.
Pentagon: baby Elsie born 23 October 2013, 7lb 5oz.
Bodicea: baby James born 3 November 2013, 8lb.
Ibelieveinpink: baby Imogen born 14 November 2013, 7lb 4oz.
BumpKitty: baby Matilda born 18 Nov 2013, 8lb 2oz.
Luckysocks13: baby Charlotte born 24 Nov 2013, 8lb.
Jmf294: baby Alexander James born 25 Nov 2013, 7lb 4oz.
Shellsocks: baby Noah Stephen born 27 Nov 2013, 9lb 3.5oz.
Gardenworm: baby Wolfie born 1 December 2013.
Janielovesluckysocks: baby Leo Thomas born 4 Dec 2013, 7lb 5oz.
Bootyluscious: baby Sofia born 17 December 2013, 6lb 2oz.
ChocolateTeabag: baby Joss born 18 December 2013, 7lb 7oz.
Blackholes: Baby girl born 23 December 2013.
WhatwillSantabring: Baby boy born 6 January 2014, 8lbs 7oz.
pumpkinsweetie: Baby girl born 7 January 2014, 6lb 4 oz.
Christinedaae: Baby girl Sawyer born 6th Feb 2014, 9lb11.5oz.
MissMedusa: Baby Rhydian Thursday 27 Feb 2014, 1080g.
TotalShock: Baby James born 25 February 2014, 8lb 1oz.
Swangirl: Baby boy, 4 March 2014.
SaggyOldClothPussCat: Lucy Elanor born 7 March 2014, 7lb.
Pixielady83: Baby girl, 9 March 2014.
GuffSmuggler: Baby boy, 3 March 2014.
Fod: Baby Girl, 7 April 2014, 10lb 3.
TeaAndANatter: Baby Henry born 18 April 2014, 7lb 15oz.
Kjh5: Baby Logan born 19 April 2014, 3.3kg.
CbeebiesIsMyLife: Baby boy born 2 May 2014.
StarsInTheNightSky: baby Jasper, born early May 2014, 8lbs3.
Tomkat: Baby Lolly born 16 May 2014.
Bakingtins: Baby Faith born 23 May 2014, 5lb 3oz.
Penguinita: Baby Elanor born 27th May 2014, 6lb 1oz.
Emki: Baby Michael born 29th May 2014, 9lb 10oz.
Pgchimp: Baby boy born 16th June 2014.
Fishcake77: Baby boy Jack born 26th June 2014, 7lbs 14oz.
Nerdy bird: baby girl born 1st July 2014.
Keepingthefaith: baby girl born 2nd August 2014 10 weeks early 2.5lbs.
MrsGiraffe12: baby girl born 1 Sept 2014.
OneLittleToddleTerror (now TwoLittleTerrors smile): baby girl born 14th September 2014.
Alb1: baby boy born 14 September 2014.
fedupofrainydays: baby boy born 16 September 2014.
Squizita: baby girl born 21 September 2014.
HopefulHamster: baby Serena Lorelai, born 1 October 2014, 7lb3.
Londonjen: Baby Eleanor born 6th October 2014.
CorporeSarnie: baby boy born 26 October 2014.
Cakebaker35: Baby William born prematurely at 27 weeks, 21st October - 29th October 2014, may he rest in peace.
cheesecurry86: Baby Lewis James, born 6 am, 9lb 2, 16th November 2014.
Gwlondon: baby Alexandra, born 2.40 kilos, 20th November 2014.
Cuppachaplz: baby Percy born 6 December 2014, 5lb 4oz.
Liesal: baby Alexander William, born 14 December 2014, 7lb 3oz.
QuietTiger: baby girl born 18 December 2014.
Seasides: baby Freya born 20 December 2014.
TeaRex: baby boy born 20 December 2014, 7 lb 6 oz.
Amicablemoomin: baby girl just before Christmas 2014
CallingAllEngels: baby boy born 9 January 2015, 7lb 15 oz.
GailLondon: baby Oscar born 2 February 2015, 9lb 7 oz.
Babytinks11: Baby Lacey-Rae born 13 February 2015, 7lb 15 oz.
Blankfornames: baby Bobby born 21 February 2015, 8lbs 7 oz.
Silverine: baby Patrick born 2 March 2015, 3.78 kg (8 lb 5 oz).
Tannyloo: baby Bertie born 7 March 2015, 8lb 15.5oz.
HollyBen: baby boy Brodie 7 March 2015.
Littlemissy12345: baby boy Samuel Luke, born 26 March 2015, 8 lb 11oz.
Missmakesstuff: baby boy, born Good Friday 3 April 2015, 8 lb 15oz.
FloreneceandZebede: baby girl Niamh Alexandra, born Easter Sunday 5 April 2015, 9 lb.
Suzybean: baby Joseph Rowan, born 16 April 2015, 7 lb 8oz.

Oh no pizza that's awful! Is it a redundancy situation? Will you be getting some sort of payout?

Sorry to be a pain smallbear, next time you do the stats could you change me to the 19th September due date please? And I'll be 25 on the 19th of this month too.

Gosh pizza :( I hope you are able to get redundancy at least.

Oh pizza sorry about the job :(

Sorry no smallbear, I just realised it had gone when you mention it. I hadn't taken folic acid or vitd tablets for a couple of days and today I've started the pregnancy multivitamin a whole trimester too late

Only been there 5 months so no nothing unfortunately... My Mum also works there and has done for longer than me, she has a contract clause that states they can let her go at anytime with no notice of the business quietens down

No problem Treacle. I'll leave it a couple of days and then do another update.

Would you like to be added gingerbreadmam?

thanks small. yes please.

age: 30
no other dc
mmc: november 2014 discovered at 9wks.
edd: 21 october 2015.

cheers!

Loads to catch up on for me too, as I've had visitors all weekend and didn't get a chance to read - I miss this thread when I can't access it!

Pizza I'm so sorry to hear about your job! What a shock for you. I wish I could add something helpful, but I really hope you find another job soon. Best of luck!

Welcome bythesea hope you have a boring stay here and huge scan congrats treacle the highlight of my pregnancy was getting through the anomaly scan.

cava if your midwife isn't worried then she's probably right, however if it is playing on your mind you should get it checked out for peace of mind.

Holy Heckers I can't believe I'm having my baby this week! section is booked for Friday. It still doesn't feel real at all, it feels like Friday will never come. Anxiety is beginning to rise though, mostly that she is/will be ok, and also the procedure itself.

So sorry to hear about your job pizza, that sucks. Do you think you'll be able to find something else soon?

Great news about your scan treacle! Hope you're feeling a bit reassured (for now).

Thanks small :)

And thank you all. You're all such brilliant support. I do feel so reassured at the moment. Let's hope it stays! :)

Mslad that's amazing! Can't wait for the photos. We'll be with you every step of the way.

Pizza that's rubbish :( what is it you do? Did they say how long you've got? Sending you hugs

Glad you got happy scan news Treacle, it's always such a relief isn't it?! I hate scans!