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Best shit place grads # 2- still pregnant after miscarriage

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GuybrushThreepwoodMP · 05/04/2015 12:43

Another thread ladies

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Amyyy27 · 16/04/2015 21:22

Sending love to those going through a hard time Flowers

I agree very silly choice of words from that girl but i am envious of her confidence. I wish i could believe this pg will go well but every cramp or sharp pain is dragging me down.

ginger cant believe you are 14 weeks already so happy for you!

SashaKerr · 16/04/2015 21:41

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GuybrushThreepwoodMP · 16/04/2015 21:48

I will miss those of you whose pregnancies haven't worked out, if you choose to leave this group. Of course you are more than welcome to stay with us as this group is united by our shared experiences and the first of those is miscarriage. I think there are probably a lot of other things which unite us as well. Hope. Love. Warrior strength.
I hope that you will pregnant and joining us again on that journey really soon.
I think I've written that clumsily- sorry. It's my bedtime. Much love and strength.

Miscarriages can fuck off.

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Amyyy27 · 17/04/2015 07:23

Morning all, how is everyone feeling today?

Ill again here need i say! With extra worry... 10w today.. the same day we found out we had lost the baby last time and its playing on my mind big time :(

chasingtherainbow · 17/04/2015 08:02

Amyy stay strong lovey. No pregnancy is the same. . This baby is your take home baby. I can feel it in me waters.

9+4 today, and I've lost 5 lbs since I weighed myself a week ago. Shit. I've got it to lose but that's not good Is it.

I'm not feeling as sick today. Just the underlying constant nausea. I'm getting ancy for my scan date. It would be ridiculous to book a private one this close to 12w but I hope the letter comes soon.

Gr33dyeggs · 17/04/2015 08:08

Still nauseous here at....12 weeks. Roll on Wednesday.

Amyyy Sorry you're not much better - should the medication be working by now?

chasing have you chased them up about scan? With my ds I was supposed to have an earlier scan but got lost altogether! Only calls to midwife got me squeezed in.

Amyyy27 · 17/04/2015 08:21

Thanks chasing i feel exactly the same about the scan! I just wanna check if everything is ok!

Thanks greedy i think they probably should .. well her words on monday were 'take 3 a day for 2 or 3 days then see if you can drop down to 2 a day' and so far im not much better at all and still on 3. Think maybe i should see a doctor next week and change tablets!

wispywoo1 · 17/04/2015 09:09

Wow what an awful time this group had had lately! Thoughts are with those who are going through this nightmare again.

I'm still here. Not feeling any symptoms really other than hungry all the time and crazy vivid dreams every night. I'm starting to notice I can't finish my meals, if I stuff myself I start borking. Anyone else experiencing this? I usually always finish my meals.

12 week scan is on the 12th May. Really don't want to wait that long. Has anyone told family yet? We're telling patents next week when I'll be 10 weeks.

gingerbreadmam · 17/04/2015 09:27

thanks amy i know it feels like its going to start going fast now.

i scared myself yesterday, had a walk into town and walked fast (forgetting im pregnant again) and felt this strain / pull right where the baby is. kept annoying me all afternoon was on serious knicker watch.

thankfully it seems to have settled now must have just strained but you just dont stop worrying. hopefully after the 20 week scan lol!

onefootinthebed · 17/04/2015 09:30

Morning all,

Just got home from a 3 night work trip and caught up on the tread,sorry to those who have sad news, it's hard to not let hope take over but also horrid you have to be cautious, then when your worst fear happens its devastating.

I am past my stage of my mc first two miscarriages. I have had to change my scan date from today till Tuesday as husband couldn't make it and I don't want to go alone. Althought I am wishing today I had just gone alone.

I have just had days of team building and people getting drunk and warding off awkward questions,luckily for me my hay fever got me out of drinking I'm pretending I have a cold. I couldn't think of an excuse to get me out of the team building sessions and having someone pressing on my boobs because we had to get cozy really hurt. As did my evening nausea it was really hard to eat enough and stay and stay and socialise.

It's been great to come home to my ds and have a cuddle and sleep in my own bed.

We are off to the beach if the sun comes out,I hope you all stay well and have a lovely Friday.

gennibugs · 17/04/2015 09:51

Morning all.

another one here wracked with worrying. I just can't seem to relax and enjoy this. I had pretty bad cramps again last night. Counting down the days til my private scan on Monday. I know it's not long til my 12 week one but I just need to know if everything is ok as my anxiety and panic attacks are back with a vengeance.

msj hope you are managing to take it easy and looking after yourself.

sasha, glen hope you are ok?

hope your scan went well fromwest this morning. Fx for you.

keys is your scan today or next Friday?

amy I'm sorry you're still feeling rough, you poor thing.

gennibugs · 17/04/2015 09:53

Oh and one foot well done for surviving 3 nights! I struggled with a work do last week and that was only 1 night! Smile

fromwesttoeast · 17/04/2015 09:57

Waiting for my scan now. Nurse at reception gave me the urine test stuff and said "you know where the loos are don't you". Other women come in and get directions.
Senior nurse takes me in for the form filling. Greets me, "you are one of our high flyers aren't you" I reply, you mean one of your regulars, she says yes.
They are lovely people. But they all recognise me. Oh how it comes to this.

keys27 · 17/04/2015 10:02

My scan is today hun waiting to been seen 10 10 my appointment been getting lots of cramps as well I'm on my own so dreading this.
I'm so sorry to hear of others going through the same worry and for your losses. When you've experienced a misscarriage your heart goes out to them needed a hug because it's so emotional and hurts so much.
goodluck West for yor scan hun have been thinking about u. Roll on next Thursday for sasha and glen so sorry to hear of your scan news.
I think we all are going to worry because we have experienced it all before this is why this is such a good forum to be on the support on her to others is amazing xxx

onefootinthebed · 17/04/2015 10:03

Wispy woo,this is me I havn't finished a meal in weeks actually, I seem to balk at the 4th mouthful, my nausea is in the evenings and doesn't go very well with my sore boobs,ability to smell anything from 100 yards away. I also feel like my stomach is stretching abit how sasha discribed further down the thread.

I just want to add about the the lady who said she only has "healthy babies" may be naieve,but I was before my first miscarriage and to be honest I envy people who don't know the pain of a miscarriage,the dread of. When the conversations start regarding babies or someone tells me the news that they are having a baby or the only child conversation and the worst of them all when a baby is thrust in my arms,the joys of being from a large family.

I wish none of us knew the pain and grief.

onefootinthebed · 17/04/2015 10:07

Geeni I don't know how I coped to be fair,some of the men are really smelly Hmm

Amyyy27 · 17/04/2015 10:14

Good luck west and keys thinking of you both x

fromwesttoeast · 17/04/2015 10:20

Miscarriage confirmed. It stopped growing at about 7 and a half weeks. That's about 4 weeks ago. Exactly the same as the mc I had in 2013.

Amyyy27 · 17/04/2015 10:21

Aww i am so so sorry West :( sending love. How unfair :( x

onefootinthebed · 17/04/2015 10:41

Oh west I'm so sorry x

keys27 · 17/04/2015 10:46

Oh West I'm so so sorry im still waiting for my scan my heart is literally going out to you right now. OMG the last week has been the worst for the news. Theve put me behind I need a 3d scan there's something wrong with my uterus I'm in tears I wish my OH had come.

MsJupiter · 17/04/2015 11:05

West I am so sorry. So awful for you.

Keys in sorry your oh isn't with you. What have they said to you?

So sad that everyone is going through all this worry and sadness and heartache.

wispywoo1 · 17/04/2015 11:10

ahh I'm so sorry west.

Hope everything goes well keys.

fromwesttoeast · 17/04/2015 11:12

Oh keys that sounds scary. What could that mean? So sorry you are alone.
I've booked myself in for medical management in hospital on Sunday. May as well get things over with. The whole way through I felt this pg was very similar to my MMC in 2013. And so it turns out to be.