Best shit place grads # 2- still pregnant after miscarriage

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Another thread ladies

West - I'm really sorry to hear you're having to go through this again.

Keys - thinking of you, must be awful not having support with you

west. So sorry this has happened again.

keys at least they are doing things properly. Fx you're not kept waiting for long. Handholding for now.

wispy & onefoot I'm struggling to finish my evening meals, but that could be because I'm snacking from when I get in

west I am so so so sorry. really I am. how utterly crap.

keys hang in there my love you are being very brave. hopefully you will get seen very soon x

On my last scan showed a kink in my uterus and now I need specialist etc I have not been scanned yet so don't even know if bean is still there because of all the bleeding xx again West again im so so sorry xxx

Keys think of you,my friend had a backwards or twisted uterus..........God knows how this even occurs and she has had two little darling babies.

Greedy I wish I had the energy to snack I didn't mention how knackered I am,did I if I'm sitting still and awake for longer than 10 mins it's amazing .

Thanks Sasha and everyone. Yes, 42 isn't game over. There's a whole thread of 40 something ladies over on another thread. Many of them nearing their due date. But after three mc in a row now, it's starting to feel near the end of the road for me.
I did ask at EPU if I get pg again would they scan me earlier, and I was told yes. If I call them at 8 weeks or so and explain my history they will offer me a viability scan if space is available. That's good to know.

oh west. Fuck's sake. I'm so very sorry.

west I know this is probably the last thing you want to be thinking about right now but in my area if you have 3 mcs in a row you can be referred to the recurrent mc clinic by epu or your gp. Might be something to consider (when you are ready of course).

Thank you Genni. I know about that, but I'm not eligible as I already have children. More than one. That limit may only apply in my area, so others should def ask in their area.
Also I think it's down to my age really. I just need to catch a viable egg!

What's happening keys? Will you get scanned today?

Hi guys I feel a little bad posting this because others are having such a crap time. However for some people waiting for a scan may offer you some reassurance. 10 days ago I was scanned no he no fetal pole I was sure I was over 6 weeks EPU said no your measuring 5. So after all the bleeding and pain I c my baby with a strong heartbeat I had my dates wrong on conceived later that I though exactly 10 days on I'm now measuring 6+3 weeks 10 days ago I was exactly 5 weeks. I really thought it was game over for me. I've still got a very long way to go and I have a blood clot which I am about to pass but they have said it's passed baby now but to expect some heavy bleeding. I have to go back in 2 weeks for a reassurance scan. My uterus has caused my premature births so I need a stitch in at 12 weeks then at 16 weeks I will need to be scanned every other week in London I just hope they let me give birth in my local hospital can't c y not. But been told need another c section as my scar is 2 high and will rupture. Not ideal will need to be on constant medication to stop any labour happening but baby is cooking nicely.
I'm so sorry to the others that's suffered heartache I feel so bad. I am praying to all the re scans next week u get the suprise I got today and ro everyone who has lost their pregnancy I'm truly deviated for you and your in my thoughts. At 42 the games not over hun u can try again my mums friend had her first at 46.
Thanks for the lovely messages and support guys still a very long way to go but I was not expectin there to be a hb but there was a very strong one whereas before there was not one and I am around 2 weeks behind my dates xxx

Thats great news keys fantastic!

Excellent keys!

Fantastic news keys, it is so good to have a positive outcome, yuck about blood clot though and what you have to go through but yay yay it will be worth it in the end x

Wow. Lovely news keys do they know what caused the clot?

Fantastic news keys

That's amazing keys, I'm so glad. We sure needed a positive outcome on this thread after all the troubles.
All the best for the rest of your pregnancy.

keys I am over the moon for you.

I have no idea apprantly it's very common however on my scan notes today it's says blood clot to pass pregnancy not viable. But they didn't tell me at the time I've just read through notes so could it mean there was another there? Thanks for lovely support guys as I said before I was so sure it was game over. I'm very behind in my dates but they have said I must have been wrong as I'm measuring exactly 6 weeks 3 days and stron hb if my dates where right I would have lost the pregnancy by now. Very confusing really even my clear blue was wrong when it gave me the 3+.
Thanks for lovely messages guys means a lot xxx

You could have just had higher hcg which pushed the bracket up on the cb. .

So fab to hear good news Keys. Congrats xxx

Keys what wonderful news :-)
Equally west I am so sorry for your loss, best of luck for everything

Good luck to all with scans coming up- 1 week tomorrow for us to see if twin 1 had been absorbed, tbh i either hope for a miracle and its ok or if j can't have that then I hope it has been absorbed as apparently if not it can cause problems for my healthy twin fingers crossed. X

That's brilliant keys what a relief for you.

Thank you guys I just feel so utterly s**h posting that when some of you guys are going through such a hard time. The rocky road is not over for me I've still got a long way to go and reading back a lot of you had late mc seeing the hb then next scan not. I don't think we will ever relax until we hit the first sating scan at 12 weeks. I really am so sorry West. I really hope it's over for you quick so u can start again I know it's bot what you want to think about right now but in 2 months time u may be back on board only 8 weeks behind some of us. Don't give up
again the support has been phenomenal in here over the past week I don't think I would of been half as calm if I hadn't of met u guys. Good luck for all scans coming up next week. Big hugs to those who need it right now xxx