I know some people might want to discuss it today.. (and in posting so I am doing so too..).. but it would be nice if they could just say to themselves 'ah well, there's one I missed, never mind' because to be fair, it just a subject for discussion for the vast majority of us. It's not going to kill us to stop discussing it, and opinions left unposted will not cause us internal injury!. For the people actually involved (ie those whose lives are going to be changed because of what has happened and yes that includes the guilty parties), it is far more than just something to post about.
Lines drawn under topics and people staying 'don't post' usually annoy me too.. but it the spirit of common decency, to the innocent parties if noone else, it would be decent to stop discussing it, at least on here. Enough people have swapped emails addresses for the express purpose after all.. and it's up to them what they discuss off the site.