butif the origianl poster " huge mistake" didn't want people to talk about her business, then why post it?
she outed herself as did he.
i'm sorry but you can't come on something like this, chuck a massive piece of info in, and not expect people to talk about it.
it's very noble to say, " move along don't talk about it" but people will want to talk about it.
and if the op hadn't washed her dirty linen inpublic we would have nothing to talk about . everybody will get bored soon anyway.