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Wading into spring with the all new shiny Posifrickentivity thread. PG after MC? Dive right in!

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SaggyOldClothCatPuss · 17/02/2014 14:06

All comers welcome, we're a rolling thread. Newbies, middles and oldies alike, join here for hand holding, knicker checking and general batshit craziness! Grin Wink

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fod27 · 20/02/2014 00:04

No not yet saggy one foots bigger than the other but I'm going to go the Drs tomorrow I think, I visited MIL today and she took one look at me feet and exclaimed "they are really swollen etc that's worried me most

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SaggyOldClothCatPuss · 20/02/2014 00:26

Do you feel ok otherwise? Dizzy, faint, nauseous, headache?

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SaggyOldClothCatPuss · 20/02/2014 00:35

If you get any of those id speak to the midwife as soon as. And definitely in the morning.

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fod27 · 20/02/2014 00:35

A tiny bit of 'offness' but I had pork and mushroom stroganoff for tea at my mums (never had it before so out it down to that) non of the rest tho - I've taken a pic but not sure how to upload it

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fod27 · 20/02/2014 00:39

Thanks saggy I'm defo going to see the Dr tomorrow I think

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SaggyOldClothCatPuss · 20/02/2014 00:50

Good. [Smile]
Im posting this eclampsia link, not to scare you but so that you know what to look out for. Xx

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bakingtins · 20/02/2014 07:35

Welcome wigwam and dav

fod hope you are ok and are seeing the doc or MW today.

jbrd hang in there, not long until Saturday.

Hi to everyone else! can't keep up with you all, chatty lot.

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Aoifebelle · 20/02/2014 07:41

Yeah second mn milestone, there is a november ante-natal club, only two people on it so far, but all the same, they are due the month after me.

Woke up definitely wanting a reassurance scan. I am terrified of getting to 12 weeks and being told there is nothing there. I just don't think I would ever trust my body again. Now just need to persuade the epau or cough up. Anyone know good/cheap private scan places in london?


fod get thee to the docs.

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fedupofrainydays · 20/02/2014 07:46

Stressing today - does anyone else get night sweats? I only associate those with my mc and after birth of my son....

Hope you are ok fod

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pgchimp · 20/02/2014 08:15

welcome to the newbies. pull up a chair and don't be afraid to share anything, between us, one of us will have thought it/ experienced it before. here's to very uneventful pregnancies.

nerdy I have definitely experienced the heavy pounding heart. I find it us worse when lying on my back, which you might have been if trying to feel movement. Try propping yourself up on a couple of pillows so your heart is higher than your abdomen, it seems to calm mine down.

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SaggyOldClothCatPuss · 20/02/2014 09:44

back at the hospital this morning for an ultrasound and to see the GD team.
The lovely consultant at the US saw how sore my PGP was and mentioned being bolted back together with a metal plate post delivery! Confused But that this might cause problems with subsequent births! Hmm I may have told him to bog off! Grin
He then told me that in Africa, where CS is a high risk op, if a woman's baby has a big head; they actually cut or separate the symphysis pubis during the birth to aid delivery!!! Shock Shock
Cheered me up no end that did! Grin

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SaggyOldClothCatPuss · 20/02/2014 09:45

Fod I hope you are ok and are getting checked out today. xx

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HopefulHamster · 20/02/2014 10:11

Fedup - I get them too. But also, they make me worry. Googling says they are commonish in pregnancy.

But I am generally being a negative so-and-so today. Spent all of last night googling measuring behind in IVF pregnancies and read some positive stuff but a lot of sad stories too. I just have a horrible feeling that I will have to wait five weeks for bad news at a 12 week scan. Almost every day I'm googling new reasons why it might go wrong. I wish I could relax, but I also feel like I need to be prepared. I'm sure if I had more symptoms I wouldn't feel like this - I have to remind myself I had very little when I was pregnant with my son, though.

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Pixielady83 · 20/02/2014 10:12

morning ladies. fod hope everything checks out ok at the Drs.

fedup sorry I haven't experienced night sweats but it could well be an entirely normal hormonal symptom as there is so much going on in early days so try not to panic too much (easier said than done I know).

Aoife yay for another milestone Smile birth clubs are awesome, I've lost touch with my one for DD sadly and didn't feel brave enough to join one this time which I regret now. Hence bleating on here all the time, sorry guys Grin

saggy I feel a bit wobbly hearing about that plate and African deliveries, never heard of that before!

Worst night sleep yet. Partly because of spd pain and partly I was just so hot and uncomfortable and I can't stay still in one position so I move and it hurts more. Soon I'll feel this tired every day though. So scared of the forthcoming sleep deprivation

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fod27 · 20/02/2014 10:39

Thanks for the link saggy I'm trying to get in this afternoon with my GP my MW hasn't answered her phone for days or returned my msgs. Sorry to hear the sonographers dramatic approach to your condition saggy - I don't know what I've had done

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SaggyOldClothCatPuss · 20/02/2014 10:51

Fod can you phone delivery or Antenatal? There are several different numbers on my notes.
ironically, im now on pre eclampsia watch! my BP has been creeping slowly up! Confused
I wasn't worried about what the consultant says, he was just messing about! I actually feel better about PGP now! it could be a lot worse!

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SaggyOldClothCatPuss · 20/02/2014 10:54

Hamster step AWAY from google! RIGHT now! Wink
you'll just try more and more searches, Google more and more random stuff and end up scaring the beejesus out of yourself! not that I'd know or anything Wink

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fod27 · 20/02/2014 11:13

Funny you should say that saggy my last MW app revealed some protein in my urine and my BP was 100/74 (don't know what that means tho) plus the additional weight I've put on. I've opted for the Drs with it being half term - I have DS and DD at home and DH is at work, hoping the Drs will buy me some time to put childcare in place

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Davmallem2013 · 20/02/2014 11:19

aoifebelle if you google 'early pregnancy scan london private' you should get a good amount of choices and see what is nearest most list their prices. I paid £90 for mine in Kent but I could have got it for £50, however with my history I went with the dearer one mainly for the Dr and for location. It's a whole better world than the scans I had on my others & very reassuring. My GP also ended up telling me about the place I went too due to my history & this particular Dr's specialty. Good luck Smile

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LondonJen · 20/02/2014 11:21

Hello wigwam I hope you have found some comfort here already and will soon find the strength to make your appointments. I don't feel alone now because I can come on here, you will find handholding a plenty.

Aoife I have been eating prawn cocktail crisps all week. I think my baby will now be a girl because the packet is pink. No? Grin Glad you feel decided about a scan, someone must have recommendations...

Squiz I am so pleased your appointment went well and should be helpful. I had CBT in my teens and found it helpful.

Fod how is the swelling?

Dav Sorry about your cold. I was losing a cold just as I got pregnant and the dregs of it are still hanging around now. It's very tiring. I would like to stop buying tissues at some point.

Nerdy how did the coke go? Sounds like you're onto something if kjh experienced similar. Exciting!

Fedup I have had them when not pregnant. Waking up soaked is no fun. I never knew why it would happen assumed it was hormones but that is just my answer to most things.

Hopeful Step away from google!! I have visions of us all wresting your computer from your hands!

Hello everyone else. Lot going on here this morning. I feel so much better than I did the last two days so of course I am now trying not to worry that the nausea symptom has gone. After mmc this is not easy. But trying SO hard to just be happy I do not feel sick. Oh no wait hang on... I do, I do feel a bit sick again! Lol Agggh! sigh.

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kjh5 · 20/02/2014 12:04

FRUCK saggy! no more SPD-related horror stories please crosses legs tightly I'm having a nightmare with it being so bad today!

Aoife I booked a scan with Ultrasound Direct, they were the cheapest I found in London at £99. However there are EPUs who will scan you for free for 'anxiety' reasons. St Georges in Tooting is self referral and works on a first come first served basis between 9am and 11.30am. I only ever went there due to bleeding but the MW told me they would have done a reassurance scan regardless - and its free! I know there are other trusts around London who have walk-in EPUs and one mythical one which is open all day (somewhere in west London). Worth maybe phoning one of them up and saying you can't cope with the anxiety of not knowing after previous MC and will they reassure you?

Fod hope you getting on ok and will have everything sorted with the GP. If it makes you feel any better my hands, legs and feet have been swollen something chronic the past few days and I was told it is fairly normal for this stage of pregnancy... Also a BP of 100/74 is a very good, normal reading. High blood pressure is considered getting consistent readings of 140/90, so at least your last reading was a good 'un

Hopeful STEP AWAY FROM GOOGLE! It's evil and will only diagnose horror and despair! DH actually confiscated my laptop in the first trimester because I was actively searching for things that could go wrong and getting myself in a right state. After a few days cold turkey I never went back. I was a calmer, less stressed pregnant woman because of it.

Welcome to all the newbies! TODAY YOU ARE PREGNANT Grin lovely to have you here xx

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fod27 · 20/02/2014 12:17

london it's not as bad today but I didn't realise it was bad until strangers and family started to point it out so who knows lol, kjh thank you for that I find that very reassuring it's all just data to me

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HopefulHamster · 20/02/2014 12:54

Dear everyone, I know! I'm such a Google fool, and the worst thing is I know what I'm doing! I guess I'm expecting the worst, and trying to find out what flavour of bad it might be. It's stupid!

And yes not only 'today I am pregnant' but also 'pregnant until proven otherwise'. We can do it!

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NerdyBird · 20/02/2014 12:57

Hi all

I tried the coke last night. It's the first caffeine I've really had since being PG. It made me feel a little shaky and it certainly made my tummy grumble! But that was audible, and higher up. I definitely felt some more flutters lower down. They feel more internal as well if that makes sense.
I was a bit more propped up as pgchimp suggested and that helped with the pounding heart.
I'm quite hopeful of it being movement. I might try the cold water again, as now I'm worried about stressing the baby with an onslaught of caffeine!

I think I've felt the same things again today, after breakfast but not really sure.

Yesterday was a bit surreal as my DP was showing me lots of things he's picked out on very.co.uk for the baby (they have a sale on) and I've deliberately not been looking at anything baby related, just seems so odd that I might actually have one!

fod you should deffo get checked out.
Welcome wigwam - this is a great thread for support.

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fod27 · 20/02/2014 14:58

Guess what's closed??

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