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Pregnant (IVF) Worriers/Warriors Part 4

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Buzzybee123 · 24/10/2013 23:33

Hi everyone,

This thread is for all you incessant worriers out there, not necessarily limited to IVF-ers, although I get the feeling the people who have had trouble TTC are more prone to worrying than others!

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Nokkie73 · 09/11/2013 20:17

CAN WE GET SOME HOT TOWELS IN HERE PLEASE.

I am just scoffing my dinner and catching-up with the thread. Then I read keep's post. All eyes were on our shazza but keep has gone first. Good luck honey - we'll all be thinking of you.

Will catch-up properly once I've inhaled the dinner I lovingly prepared bunged in the oven because I am lazy bitch

OnionRing · 09/11/2013 21:32

Ooooh keep good luck lady!

Live action as-you-type waters going! Marvellous.

ThatWayMadnessLies · 09/11/2013 21:34

Oh how exciting!!!!! Will be thinking of you keep xx

shazza I hope the pizza lived up to expectations Grin.

Shazzamattazzerly · 09/11/2013 22:02

Pizza was ahmazing! 'Gravity' less soSmile

Keep I hope you are ok. Xxx

Dildals · 09/11/2013 22:18

Is keep 37 weeks now?

Foodylicious · 09/11/2013 22:43

Ooh, ooh, ooh! Good luck keep! x x :-)

Foodylicious · 09/11/2013 22:49

thanks for comments re meds, will be picking them up on Monday. Stupid pharmacy closed at 12.30 today. Why did they not tell me this yesterday when they said they had to order them for me? Grrr
shaz, I was thinking about watching gravity. Worth a watch or not?

Buzzybee123 · 09/11/2013 23:04

keep waahoooo Wink I am on my back from barrys birthday dinner

wavves to everyone else

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keepitgoing · 10/11/2013 02:52

Baby girl, of course, born in four hours at 9.51pm. 7lb and gorgeous x was 37+1, she's impatient like me

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MotorcycleMama · 10/11/2013 06:43

Congratulations keep! And welcome to your gorgeous baby daughter. 4 hours - that's marvellous. Hope you are recovering well and being cosseted. X

MotorcycleMama · 10/11/2013 06:59

On a ridiculously mundane level after keep's wonderful news... minimotor has recently started to kick or hit against some part of me and it is quite unpleasant/nausea inducing. I cannot work out if it is a nerve or an organ - an intestine perhaps? Can any of you relate to this/ throw any light on it? It doesn't hurt, it's just disturbing!

fairypangolin · 10/11/2013 07:23

Wow! Cingratations keep! Wonderful it was so fast. Hope you and baby are doing well. Are you back at home?

Dildals · 10/11/2013 08:04

Ohh my word! No hanging about there! Hope baby didn't push herself out by the feet! ;-) looking fwd to hearing more detail at later stage plus photo! Congratulations & enjoy nuzzles and cuddles!

Come on Shazz, you're just being lazy now! Push that child out! ;-)

Shazzamattazzerly · 10/11/2013 08:08

Keep that's marvellous news! Congratulations. Another girl and so quickly. Of course she is gorgeous, she is born of a yoni warrior! I hope mine is as fast. If it ever comes Grin! Well done honey. Loads of love to you all.

Motor your internal organs are getting squished up. I don't remember getting kicked and feeling sick but I do get kicked sometimes and it makes me wince.

Have a good day everyone. I'm still only 39+4 so I don't want to get impatient just yet. But it's getting hard now that 2 babies have arrived this week that were due after me. MrsH you might be next at this rate Wink.

putthecrispsDOWN · 10/11/2013 08:49

Bloody Nora, I go offline for one night and keep sneezes her baby out! Live on mumsnet too! Huge congrats, ace weight, hope you are all well and enjoying the baby bubble.

shazza hope you aren't too miffed at being pipped to the post...it does make me think you may be harbouring a boy though, it feels like a blokey thing to do to make a lady wait! Who is next up as well as you? Sweetie and I are 32-33 now so getting there if you add on three weeks for twinnage.... Failing that I will pop round with some pineapple core, a curry and some castor oil if you're getting desperate...

motor that happens to me all the time depending upon position. Google some yoga moves for shifting baby to see if that works. Stretching arms over my head tends to help as does a rolling cobra which does feel a bit stripbaresque but does the job.

Foodylicious · 10/11/2013 10:17

Congratulations keep and well done you, 4 hours! Hope you are both getting some rest and enjoy your Sunday in bed.

Buzzybee123 · 10/11/2013 10:56

keep congrats on your gorgeous baby girl, I hope I am that quick,

motor I get that feeling once she mmust have kicked me in the stomach and a shot of sommething unpleasant went right up to my nose, needless to say it stung like hell

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Ginestas · 10/11/2013 12:04

CONGRATS keep!! What lovely news to wake up to. And 4 hours start to end? I swear you sneezed her out in the time X factor was on! Hope you and Mr K are enjoying a l

Ginestas · 10/11/2013 12:06

..lovely, sunny Sunday with your little bundle. And go team pink!

Nokkie73 · 10/11/2013 12:23

keep that's such lovely news. Congratulations to you and Mr Keep. I cannot believe you sneezed her out in such record time ! Photos please (not that we are demanding or anything).

Waves to everyone else. So, who's next Grin. SHAZ.....SHAZZA.....ANY NEWS ? ANY NEWS, SHAZZA ?

MrsHY1 · 10/11/2013 18:24

Congrats Keep!! Brilliant brilliant news and a good size for 37+1! Shazz don't you fret- you'll be right behind her- these babies are like buses. Motor I haven't had any kicks that have made me feel sick- but the head butts to the cervix recently have been something else! X

OnionRing · 10/11/2013 19:36

Hurrah Keep you really did sneeze her out. Although I'm sure it didn't feel like it at the time. (Photo and name please when you have a minute...) Hope you're all totally loved up and enjoying getting to know her.

Shazz, Shazzlet will be here in his own good time. Keep resting!

buzzy that's grim! I used to get the elbow in the bladder a lot and some horrible pressure on the cervix when I was nearly full term.

DD1 has a bejewelled black dress with net skirt for the funeral. I hope that with black tights and school shoes it looks a little less party like. She loves it, she is a consumate shopper, unlike me. It turned out that Ringlet didn't possess a single dress so she now has a navy frock and tights to wear. Dear God how I hate shopping though!

ceara · 11/11/2013 13:57

Blimey, turn your back for 5 mins (OK a week) and there are babies everywhere! Huge congratulations keep on your little girl. I hope you're enjoying lots of cuddles. So, not the last in your NCT group after all?

shaz your baby will be here in his/her own good time.

dildals, yaay to all the progress in fattening up Bella.

Fairy I hope all is good with you and pangolina.

onion I'm sorry to hear about your relative. I'm sure people have no expectations around what children wear to a funeral and would just want them to be comfortable, in whatever colour. Hope ringlet's cold is better?

buzzy belated yaay to your positive scan, and general positivity in spite of how crap you have been feeling. Yaay also to foody's scan news. 8+1 (9 weeks today, right?) is great. Not long to the next scan though I'm sure time is passing really slowly. And madness, belated congratulations on your 12 week scan and reaching that milestone. It is so lovely that you have been able to share good news with your family.

motor I'm glad the midwife was able to reassure you about movements. As others have said, I didn't have anything you could call a pattern until 25 weeks. That said, I had a panic at the weekend about reduced movements (little one went into hiding for 24 hours and didn't respond to the usual methods of cold drink/quiet lie down). I cracked last night and phoned the hospital who were brilliant about (a) not making me feel like a crazy IVF-pregnant neurotic and (b) getting me straight in for monitoring. The baby was happy and healthy and had just got into an awkward position where I couldn't feel him, which the midwife said is almost always the reason for reduced movements but that they would always want people to come in and get checked, as it worries them to until they've had a look and made sure all is well.

beetle hope all is well with you. I'm sure the doctor would have said if the smaller twin's measurements were cause for concern though it doesn't stop the worrying. Not so long now until your next scan.

MrsH that snowsuit is gorgeous, I saw it in the shop weeks ago and have been coveting it too though perhaps in a different colour (or is that nappropriate gender-stereotyping?)

gin it's ages since you posted about this but just to say my (very experienced and lovely) midwife measures with the tape because it's policy and it's useful to have the record for consistency if she's off sick/on holiday and someone else sees me instead, but she prefers to go by her professional experience of how the bump should be feeling at any particular stage - so she always makes her own judgment first and then measures for the records. Not sure that really applies to your (non-specialist) doc who'd only seen you once, though!

noks the only person apart from my MIL who has ignored the death stare and touched my bump without invitation has been a colleague at work and it is open season amongst colleagues for daft comments about its size. And I too have a sick colleague who should be quarantined at home on antibiotics and intravenous lemsip, not at work spreading his bugs and infection. Are we in the same team and I haven't noticed?! Why why WHY do people think they are Doing The Right Thing by going in to work when they're practically at death's door and too sick to do anything productive anyway? Never mind, you have one more week and then the work "to do" list is behind you, for better or worse, along with the sick colleague if he's still alive. I hope you do get to start your leave on your planned date.

Waving to everyone I've missed.

Shazzamattazzerly · 11/11/2013 14:50

Hello everyone. I hope you are all ok.

Onion Is ringlet is feeling better? I also hate shopping. The dresses for the girls sound fine. I hope that the day passes as well as possible in the circumstances.

Nice to hear from you ceara. Hope you are ok. I also had a worrying day a couple of days ago when shazlett was very quiet. I guess it was just an off day cause s/he has been moving ever since.

Thinking of Keep and the new addition.