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I think I might be miscarrying...

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YorkshireTeaDrinker · 12/08/2013 04:07

Went to the loo before bed last night, bright red blood when I wiped. Just been again, more blood. It's not gushing, just spotting onnthe sanitary towel i am wearing and plenty of blood on the loo roll when I wipe. Plus cramping. Feels like the start of my period. I am 8+6.

This would be DC2, conceived on 23rd cycle of TTC. I fear it could be all over soon. I am gutted. Assuming this is a miscarriage, does anyone know what I should do in the morning? Do I stay home and wait for the bleeding to get heavier? Do I ring midwife? Fertility Unit? (we are registered with the fertility unit as we're on their books when I got my bfp, despite having not had any treatment). Is there anything the HCPs can do, or wil they just tell me to wait it out?

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resipsa · 14/08/2013 16:37

Good luck for tomorrow, Yorks. Hoping it is not all over for you.

CrispyFB · 14/08/2013 17:31

Lots of luck for tomorrow. I'm glad you've got DH with you for tomorrow as well. So glad you managed to squeeze in somewhere!!

blondebaby111 · 14/08/2013 18:45

good luck for tomorrow Flowers

SeriousStuff · 14/08/2013 19:12

Only just come across this thread - good luck tomorrow.

rosyryan · 14/08/2013 19:15

I will be so hoping for good news tomorrow Thanks

prettyinpink90 · 14/08/2013 19:30

Good luck for tomorrow!

honey86 · 15/08/2013 00:01

good luck for tomorrow Thanks

r.e. the clot- when my mate miscarried at 6 weeks she passed a huge hunk of 'material'... i saw a pic and i cudnt believe it- the only way i can describe it is a gigantic used tampon in a c shape... bout the size of a mans hand... we never did find out what was what from pathology Blushbut she was really gushing blood too so hopefully the lightening of your bleed is a + sign... sorry if im blabbing on or ive offended anyone by that discription or if i dont make sense... overtired Confused

i do hope it turns out ok for you x x

HaveIGotPoosForYou · 15/08/2013 00:10

Good luck with tomorrow, OP.

Such a horrible thing for anyone to go through. :(

TangfasticMrFoxalastic · 15/08/2013 06:46

Thinking of you today Op x

Flossiechops · 15/08/2013 06:56

Thinking of you too op. I had one at 12 weeks and it was a very distressing time - my thoughts are with you.

Mama1980 · 15/08/2013 06:59

Thinking of you today xxx

fluffyraggies · 15/08/2013 07:05

Morning yorkshire - thinking of you and DH today xxx

MrBlondesFries · 15/08/2013 07:23

Thinking of you to yorkshire

wellieboots · 15/08/2013 07:40

come late to the thread but thinking of you today. I have had both experiences, a bad news scan and then being convinced the next pg would be a disaster, had bleeding but all good this time and DD now 9 months. Either way, you will get through it. Sending much love.

BlackholesAndRevelations · 15/08/2013 07:40

Thinking of you today Yorkshire xxx

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YorkshireTeaDrinker · 15/08/2013 09:25

Thanks everyone. Just about to drop DD at nursery and then head to the hospital. Will pack tissues...

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Peacenquiet2 · 15/08/2013 09:26

Good luck for today yorkshire i really do hope you get better news than anticipated x

SaggyOldClothCatPuss · 15/08/2013 09:32

Good luck Yorkie. I really hope you get better news than you expect. Xx

libertine73 · 15/08/2013 09:36

best of luck Yorkshire got everything crossed for you today x

Lovemyprincess4eva · 15/08/2013 09:48

Good luck today yorkshire hope all goes well xxx

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YorkshireTeaDrinker · 15/08/2013 11:13

Scan showed complete miscarriage. It was what I expected, but it still hurts. Sad

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ChimeForChange · 15/08/2013 11:15

So sorry yorkshire.

Sending you warm thoughts and wishes x x

OneLittleToddleTerror · 15/08/2013 11:20

So sorry to hear your bad news. Take care of yourself.

BurbGirl2013 · 15/08/2013 11:26

So so sorry to hear that was crossing fingers very tightly for you. Much love xx

Shlurpbop · 15/08/2013 11:33

I'm so sorry Yorkshire. Look after yourself and know that there are so many mumsnetters across the uk and beyond thinking of you xx

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