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Due in August Thread Part 4

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ishopthereforeiam · 17/04/2012 10:19

Hey ladies, as we hurtle towards 1000 posts and our third trimiester I'm setting up the part 4 thread.

Pull up a pew and Brew or small Wine with some Biscuit

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glittershoes · 21/05/2012 10:32

Hello everyone.

Really feeling for you Poppy and keeping everthing crossed for you. Thanks for keeping us updated, I keeping thinking about you and how you are doing (but not in a stalker way! Grin).

I hope that everyone else is ok. Really sorry to hear about your cats marmite and westcountry. How is the hyperemesis needles?

I am feeling really down today, I think it is just an accumilation of everything - DH has to hand in all of his assignments for his part time degree on Thursday and is up until all hours working on them which makes me worry about him as he gets all stressed and is convinced he is doing them wrong (he doesn't have great confidence in himself when it comes to academic ability), work is just awful - we are rushed off our feet and everyone is being very snappy about it all! Plus I am over tired, worrying about money as DH has decided that he would rather take 2 weeks off as paternity rather than holiday so that is another lump of money that needs to come from somewhere and I feel a bit useless after hypnobirthing class yesterday. I am really enjoying it but have trouble relaxing enough and left feeling a bit rubbish about it all which was then compounded by talking about it with my mum who said that it was mainly nonsense anyway and I should do something completely different!

Sorry for the moan but it feels much better to get it all out! Anyone else a bit up and down at the moment?

I haven't been measured either yet but am hoping they do it at my 28 week appointment tomorrow! Also hoping that they don't weigh me as I really don't want to know!

The3Bears · 21/05/2012 11:21

Oh everyone sounds abit down at the moment, hope it all picks up soon.

Poppy hope your okay keep worrying about you and bump x keeping everything crossed for you
I have to admit glitter my moods have been abit up and down as dp keeps telling me, but yesterday I was feeling stressed all day and I kept saying it's because I feel like we have nothing ready Confused (we actually have everything ready near enough) I think im just feeling a little unprepared myself for whats to come as we have 82 days to go it seems to be flying by and I am a little nervous. Hope it all passes soon enough :)
Just ordered the tripp trapp and newborn set, took ages to decide on colours but stuck to boring natural as it matches our kitchen Blush but the bright green tales cushion cant wait til it arrives now :)
Ham Thats really good about grandparent pay never heard of it before, Im feeling slightly worried about dps paternity pay it's going to be a struggle but his employers have been v helpful and are going to make sure the 2 weeks are split into 2 months wages so at least for each month we will only be short on a weeks wage dp said he would go back in anyway if we were struggling too much but those first 2 weeks are so tough, great if you have alot of family to help though :)
Hope everyone has a lovely day, at least the sun is shining :)

The3Bears · 21/05/2012 11:24

glitter good luck at 28week appt tomorrow, I have mine on Wednesday wasnt weighed past booking appt in my last pregnancy so hoping im not this time :) you should be measured tomorrow though. Dreading the blood test though :(

MrsMigginslovespies · 21/05/2012 12:15

Hello all,
THink there's something in the water, as I'm also down today, having had shocking sleep due to random blocked nose so slept propped up and now have backache. Felt I've not seen DH much recently as he's been working on exam papers or we were out at the dinner on Fri etc. He's not done anything in the room again and it's stressing me out. When I tried to talk about it yesterday morning in bed, and up-coming plans about holidays, half term, etc he said we always talk about planning stuff. Made me feel boring and trivial when I felt he talks a lot about school stuff. Sigh. It's getting to the point soon where I'm going to box all the crap up and shove it in the attic where he can sort it out at his leisure many years later. The fact he's not used most of it for 3 years indicates to me that it's not essential...we do get on brilliantly, but his stuff stresses me out in our tiny house with no storage.

Sorry, big rant over! Have my almost 28 week consultant today too and am hoping they'll tell me if I'm having a CS or not. Need to start drinking lots more too in good time but hope they don't weigh me. Yikes.

Hope everyone picks up a bit soon. Will eat something nice for lunch and then pull myself together! x

NeedlesCuties · 21/05/2012 12:27

Hi, sorry I've not been on in a few days, have been busy in the Cuties household.

Have MW appt this afternoon, but don't have any urine sample pots at home, so will just have to pee when I get there when I get a pot off the receptionist. Hope that is okay, as it'll have to do! Will be bringing DS with me to the appt too, am curious to see what he makes of it all, getting to hear the heartbeat etc.

Thanks all who asked after me re the hyperemesis, I've stopped vomiting (hooray!) but am still get huge waves of nausea and related weakness all hours of day and night. It's a bit of a vicious circle as when I get tired, I get sick, but when I'm being sick it makes me tired. Meh.

I am sending Thanks to everyone, wherever you all are. Hope it's nice and sunny like it is here in NI.

Lovemarmite · 21/05/2012 12:38

Hi everyone,
Yes, me too, a bit down but also not sleeping well and very tired. Also am soooo cold all the time too. Is anyone else cold? I am sitting here in a big jacket and winter socks whilst DH is in a t-shirt and no socks.

Will mention the coldness to mw as have 28 week appointment on Thursday, then on Monday have anti-D shot followed by paediatrician appointment. Not had a huge amount of movement yet today but had a busy time of it yesterday evening and through the night.
Hope your appointments go well glitter and 3bears

Good idea about a yummy lunch MrsMiggins!
Hope the nausea is less today Needles
Totally with you ham - baby brain, fog and generally rubbish at the moment :)
How are you Poppy?

Just bought a birthing shirt from here: the 20% discount was meant to run out yesterday but it seems to still be going now... birthing shirt

faintpinkline · 21/05/2012 12:54

Just had growth scan baby is fine and has now turned head down.

Now waiting to see consultant, am at one hour ten minutes and counting. I hate waiting rooms and really feel like throwing a brick ay tv screen which spools the same breastfeeding advice and adverts over and over again (luckily I do not have a brick)

The3Bears · 21/05/2012 13:20

Hope your not waiting much longer faint I know what you mean about the annoying tv's there with the same lullabys on again and again (well it is at our anyway) glad to hear baby is fine :)

Glad your feeling better needles

Shove it all in the attic mrsmiggins no one can blame you for wanting to get things ready for baby, hope you have a nice lunch and your appt goes well :)

marmite i've not really been feeling too cold just mention it to midwife like you said, my bumps movements can be quiet at times aswell but reassured at night when I go to bed and he's having a little dance in there :)

ishopthereforeiam · 21/05/2012 14:26

Sorry to hear everyone's down Thanks plus a small Wine and large Biscuit all round...!

Ham I called my friend's baby the wrong name on a text message - and didn't even realise until she said that was a mutual friend's baby Blush baby brain def sinking in.... I also keep forgetting what I am about to say!

Glimpers am in a similar position - quit work a month ago and wondered how I would fill my time... didn't take long to enjoy being a lady of leisure Grin and the upside for you is you should still receive your statutory maternity pay plus your package.

I've tried to put one of the 3d pics up on my profile - not sure if it's worked? It's a bit fuzzy as I took a photo of a hard copy which I had scanned onto the computer Hmm... anyhoo you can see his face (ish) as his hand is covering half of it but chin eyes and nose visible.

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MrsMigginslovespies · 21/05/2012 15:18

Back from hospital. All is lovely and normal hurrah, although seems to have inherited DH's big head. Agh! Haven't heard back from London consultant re birth plan, but looking increasingly likely that it's going to be a VB, which I have mixed feelings about. Will do what's best for baby. Going for fasting bloods on Wed morning to check all is ok then which is bang on 28 weeks, although there still seems to be some leeway about sizes, dates etc (but I'm in the middle so they're happy it seems). Baby's head is still way down low in my pelvis on top of my cervix which is why he feels so heavy and uncomfy at times, but hoping he stays there now.

Hope your appointments also go ok today Needles and Faint. I often feel cold too Marmite but am a cold person, plus live in Scotland so not entirely a shock! Off for walk in sunshine with DDog who is hassling me to go out, bless her then a nap, I think. x

panpipe · 21/05/2012 15:39

Hello all and boo to the general yuk going on on the thread at the moment. Biscuit to all!

Busy-ish weekend for me, catching up on housework before our friends came over in the evening. I think I went into mini-nesting mode as I ended up doing things I wouldn't normally bother with like dusting the tops of the doors and hoovering the cushions because I'm normally a domestic skank.

Just had a voicemail left from the hospital following my 28w blood tests. My blood glucose is quite low - even though it was higher than usual in the urine test at 24w - so they want me to go in and do a fasting GTT so they can hopefully rule out gestational diabetes. I'm now hoping that my attempts on cutting down sugar to get rid of the urine glucose haven't messed up my blood, and also that if I do end up having GD whether I'll still be able to have a home birth. I guess it's wait and see now once I have the test. A few of you have had the test already - how long was it before the results came back?

NeedlesCuties · 21/05/2012 16:36

Not long back from MW appt, she is really lovely - the same MW I had when I was pregnant with DS and she was also the MW who visited me at home for 10 days post-his birth. I am loving that continuity of care :) Have a Hmm bad HV so at least am glad I have lovely MW.

She found heartbeat the second she touched my belly with doppler, sounded grand. She measured the bump but said that usually isn't done till 28 weeks. Is measuring fine.

Was sympathetic re the hyperemesis and my diagnosis of GBS, but told me to keep having more babies as she "always pictured" me with 4 kids Confused

DS was so funny, he heard the heartbeat and said, "oh mummy baby in house" then once I got off the table he pulled up his t-shirt and said, "belly" Grin

(26+3)

Westcountrylovescheese · 21/05/2012 17:47

Hi all, this must be a natural down moment before we all start on the home stretch. I have my GTT tomorrow which will be a whole morning of blood tests and waiting, doesn't sound like much fun.

Westcountrycat is still really poorly, test results tomorrow but he hasn't improved at all. We'll be seeing vet again after the test results... but we're getting prepared for bad news... Sad

susiegrapevine · 21/05/2012 19:36

Yay boiler is fixed without any work on my part dh does not work mon or tues when i work (he works wed thurs fri we share the childcare) so he call the plumber who came out and fixed it today and was only £100 so not too much of our bonus from work swallowed up thank god! ds is fine today his normal self so its seems his head is not bothering him too much tho it looks horrid!

Needles your comment about your ds made me smile, mine has been to nearl all my mw appointments but he is still a little young to understand whats going on just looks confused when the listen to the heart beat and looks at me like a mad woman when i tell him there's a baby in my tummy!!

MrsMiggins glad your appointment was all ok.

pan i hope this does not mean the same for me am still a bit worried about my glucose thing but still no phonecall tho! Hope the GTT goes ok!

faint glad your growth scan all went well

sorry if i've missed anyone feeling much happier now still tired from yesterday tho! could barely stay awake this morn at work!

Lovemarmite · 21/05/2012 20:34

Sending you a big hug and Thanks Westcountry
Tis way toooooo hard! we've literally just gone through what you're going through x Hope it's good news tomorrow x

Loislane78 · 21/05/2012 21:49

Well to try and cheer us all up the weather is supposed to improve over the next few days. I'm thinking about how great it'll be on mat leave watching the Olympics (oddly get well into sport during the Olympics) and mooching around outside once our bambinos have arrived :) Have a lovely image of sitting in the garden with LO for a feed or two during the day. We'll see :)

WelshLadyCDF · 22/05/2012 05:53

Thanks lois for happy thoughts!
Had a consultant visit today and growth scan, baby is measuring big, i have low iron, urine infection, poss viral infection and diabetes test next week so am joining lots of you in feeling a bit glum.
But on a brighter note it was lovely to see little one in the scan, she yawned half way through which was cute. xx

ishopthereforeiam · 22/05/2012 09:05

Oh no welsh sorry to hear that. poppy hope you're ok this morning?

Three hours sleep last nite, damned insomnia! Although went to the jay z and kanye west concert last night which was amazing Grin but nothing funnier than a hugely seven month pg lady shaking it I'm sure...Blush

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Vinolover · 22/05/2012 09:07

How big is your baby measuring at the moment Welsh? I'd like to get an idea of how big my baby is but will have to wait until the day he decideds to arrive. The MW at the hospital last week did say he was a good sized baby though which slightly panicked me!

I hope everyone is feeling a bit better today :) It's so nice to have some gorgeous weather! I washed all of the moses sheets yesterday and they looked adorable on the washing line. The smell of Fairy took me back 11 years to when I had my first aswell :)

I hope today goes well for you westcountry.

I have my glucose test on thursday and the MW said I didn't need to fast for it but I keep hearing of women having to and now Im not sure what to do.

hamncheese · 22/05/2012 10:21

Incoming gigantic post apologies...

Really sorry to hear more sad cat news west Thanks :(

What are your hypnobirthing classes like glitter? Sorry to hear you are not totally enjoying them yet :( I have the hypnobirthing book and cd which I FINALLY listened to for the first time yesterday. It is really similar to normal hypnotherapy/progressive muscle relaxation if anyone already has this. First bit is positive birth affirmations which is the woman saying things like "my body is made to do this" "Every surge I see my baby progressing towards me" etc. And the other bit it just the progressive relaxation of each muscle group in the body then the "rainbow relaxation" bit where you have to imagine a mist of each colour of the rainbow in turn which relates to a part of your body and how that will work well in labour. I think the whole point is that when in labour you can relax other parts of your body like your face or chest or shoulders and that in turn will stop you being so tense and help contractions and you progress well.

Linked to this was something at NCT class last night (first one) where the woman cut it down to this: Labour progresses due to the release of hormone Oxytocin (sp) which helps you feel at ease and the contractions to happen and dilation to occur. However there is also adrenaline and if that is released it shuts down labour. She said like if you imagine in a primitive state you are having your baby and a predator was coming the adrenaline would come so you could run and hide and labour would be cut off completely until it was safe to have the baby again. So basically you do not want adrenaline in labour (except for the very very end) as it slows progress. So any panic or tenseness or feelings of not being safe are bad for that reason. Totally liked the logical/physiological way of explaining it anyway thought I would share :)

miggins I feel your pain of the DH who won't get stuff done. Maybe you could box it up like you said but if you still want him to sort it put the boxes somewhere they wont be unnoticed so he will eventually do them, but somewhere that they wont inhibit your plans. They may be in the way for a while but he will notice them too surely if they are like in the hall or something. We have the same problem as one of our rooms is a storage pit and it's easy to dump stuff there and forget. Dh would never tackle that but make one of the other rooms we use all the time messy he will be unable to stand the unusual chaos!!

For any wanting to make baby move more at NCT she said they are likely to be more active when you are breathing very deeply so they get more oxygen. So try some abdominal deep slow breathing and maybe they will start bouncing about to reassure you!

No link to your profile if you mouse over your name ishop... I'm also back aboard the insomnia wagon of utter frustration. I'm sure this is pregnancy related but it's like when I get into bed I doze SO SO lightly for hours and every little noise wakes me up and my brain will not stop thinking. And it doesn't feel like sleep at all. Maybe it's making up for being so foggy during the day and catching up on missed thoughts at night. Either way it just makes me want to hit my head off a wall, get knocked out and get some sleep!!

Your DS sounds too cute needles :) BELLY!

Ugh that sounds like a right crappy combination west feel better soon!

I was washing yesterday too vino, funny you saying about fairy reminding you of your first, the smell of fairy reminded me of newborns too even though I've not had one yet. Tiny little outfits are currently on my pulley so adorable.

I'm going to go out today. Getting a bit cabin feverish. Work has run out and unsurprisingly doing a PhD is really lonely feeling a bit of a recluse and starved for human interaction. Least it's warm and sunny! Have a nice day everyone.

ishopthereforeiam · 22/05/2012 11:59

Enjoy your trip out ham and thanks for checking my profile, I hadn't made it public (doh!) it is now so 3d pic of blobby looking baby should be viewable Wink and sorry to hear you're aboard the insomnia wagon. We have a thread for late night / early morning insomnia support so feel free pop over if you're struggling to zzzzzs

vino well done on the washing! I've not got around to any of that yet but need to wash some baby grows at some point. I remember with dd was so weird having a house full of (mainly pink!) baby grows drying out but no baby!

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alisonmcg · 22/05/2012 12:03

Hi everyone

There have been lot of posts since I was last on here so wanted to say hello to everyone and Thanks to everyone who is needing it!

I'm feeling a bit down today too, baby is being quiet which makes me anxious and think I'm just over tired! I think it's just hormones as I actually have a very good reason to be over the moon at the moment as I became an aunty for the first time on Sunday!! My brother and his wife had a beautiful little boy (yep another boy!) called Louie. He was 8lbs and is just perfect!! even though I am biased! Have been to visit them in hospital a couple of times and they'll hopefully be getting home today, can't wait for more cuddles! Also makes everything thing seem very real for me and DP, when DP was holding him he couldn't take his eyes off his face and could tell he was thinking 'god this will be us in 3 months time!'.

Anyway just thought I'd share a bit of good news! Also the sun is out which always helps Grin

capecath · 22/05/2012 12:15

Welsh oh dear, that sounds a little tough going. Hope it turns out ok. At least they are keeping an eye on you!

Like many of you by the sounds of things, also been feeling a bit down lately. Feeling large and unattractive, been uncomfy sleeping, DS had tummy bugs, getting more physically tired and life is just getting busier!! (wondering how will we cope with two??)

Moving into our new flat next week which is exciting but tiring. Fortunately my mom is visiting from next week so that will help, and we also have a 28 week growth scan today (due to previous placental abruption) - looking forward to seeing baby again - and regular mw 28 week apptment tomorrow. So hopefully that will cheer things up a bit. And this lovely weather :)

Great to read about all your happenings. Thinking of you all x

panpipe · 22/05/2012 12:20

Vino I have to fast from midnight tonight before my GTT at 9am tomorrow, but my SIL wasn't told to before hers. Maybe there are different types of test?

ham we cover a lot of similar exercises/affirmations in Daisy Birthing class and have also covered the hormone/physical side of labour which, at risk of sounding too hippy-ish, is very empowering to know and concentrate on what your body is doing and why instead of the pain! How was your NCT class? It's my first one tonight but I have to go by myself as DH is still working away.

hamncheese · 22/05/2012 12:41

Aw your baby looks lovely ishop I think that's a pretty good picture from the 3d scan, not at all like some of the alien ones I've seen!!

Agree panpipe it is empowering. I'm the kind of person who gets really frustrated if I don't understand things. If bad things are happening I will be able to deal with it as long as I know why, it's not knowing why that makes me panic, so it is really useful. Will be totally thinking of oxywhatever it is (I forget so have been calling it oxymoron haha) when in contraction pain :) The NCT class was good. Most of it was based on labour and the stages of it. Did a relaxation breathing thing too which was good, similar to hypnobirthing. Think the people are quite nice, was 3 other couples. I was meant to be going on my own as we had another parenting class clash so DH was going to be at that but in the end I felt a bit off from lack of sleep so asked him to come to NCT anyway and he did, would have been fine on my own though as it was all very informal. Much more practical and casual than the other classes which is good! Hopefully yours will be good tonight!